One, nine years of an ordinary girl.
antique singer Huo Zun, debuted for 9 years, and was recently on the hot search due to the breakup with Chen Lu, and was also withdrawn from the recording of the two programs "Brother Who Overcomes Thorns" and " We Are " .
Chen Lu published a long Weibo "Nine Years of an Ordinary Girl", telling about their 9 years of love. From the time when Huo Zun was not famous, the two of them have been together. For Huo Zun, they gave up themselves. He opened a dance studio to fund Huo Zun and spent nearly 3 million for him. However, Huo Zun has repeatedly derailed and treated himself coldly and violently.
She also exposed some WeChat group chat records, which shocked her chin. Who would have thought that this ancient-style man who dressed himself up as a fairy would have such a chaotic private life and no bottom line.
Apart from eating melons, many netizens feel sorry for Chen Lu: The best 9 years, the time of youth, just paid wrong.
This matter also reminds the girls again: Never over-sacrifice for love, give up yourself, grow up with your boyfriend, it is a gambling.
2. If you want to get married, don't be in love for too long.
Don't talk about love for too long.
People who really love you will not keep you waiting.
Azhen and her boyfriend have been in love since their junior year. It has been 8 years now. Her boyfriend has been studying, from undergraduate to PhD. Last year, he entered a university to teach. Both of them are almost 30 this year. Azhenti has been married several times. What happened, my boyfriend said, wait a minute.
A Zhen thought that her boyfriend did not want to get married because she could not afford a house.
Until I saw my boyfriend's cell phone, he found that he was pursuing the daughter of the deputy dean.
Azhen couldn't cry even though she cried. She has fed the dog for 8 years! No wonder he is busy every day. It turns out that he is busy with Pan Gaozhi. No wonder he always says that he doesn't want to get married for the time being, but he just doesn't want to marry her!
Girls, love for the purpose of marriage, don’t talk for too long. If the other party shirks too much on the matter of marriage, generally speaking, he is weighing whether there is a better choice. Let’s stop writing and break up quickly. .
There are too many men in this world. There are girls who accompany him on a long-distance love run, and they are finally abandoned. There are also decades of marriage. The husband said that he would be a dink, but he had children with someone else outside of marriage.
Hong Kong director Er Dongsheng met Luo Xiaowen, a kindergarten teacher, and they fell in love and got married. After marriage, Luo Xiaowen helped Er Dongsheng take care of his work. He was not only a good helper, but also a good helper in his career.
Er Dongsheng and Luo Xiaowen agreed to be the DINK family, so they never had children. After the two divorced, Er Dongsheng announced on social platforms that he and other women had given birth to children. This news immediately caused an uproar.
proposed to be Dink’s Er Dongsheng. He had a child of his own, and Luo Xiaowen, who wanted to have a child, was already barren at age when he was divorced. Tsai Qin also encountered
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Cai Qin, who was once at the peak of his career and flourishing, met the director Yang Dechang. During this relationship, Cai Qin kept lowering his posture, asking for everything, even the proposal was made by Cai Qin.
Yang Dechang’s response is that marriage is fine, but it is necessary to maintain "Platonic love". He said that "I don't want their love to be mixed with impurities, so that they can also focus on their careers." Cai Qin accepted. 10 years of "asexual marriage".
Yang Dechang kept a sexless marriage while cheating on the 18-year-old pianist Peng Kaili, and soon got rid of Cai Qin and married her, and after remarrying, he stopped mentioning the "Plato marriage", gave birth to a son, and often brought him With his son participating in various activities, Yang Dechang claimed to be "this is the happiest time in his life".
When the divorce,Cai Qin is 37 years old. Missing the best childbearing age has become her lifelong regret. Later, when she was on the show, she cried and talked about "Mom is a role I can never taste." But the long wait will make people feel uneasy. If you really love your partner, don't let her wait too long.
3. To give up oneself for love is to gamble with one's own future.
There is a plot in the Japanese drama "Quartet". The husband of the heroine Juan Maki ran away from home. He said: "I love her, but I don't like her anymore."
What makes him dislike his wife and even dislike him a little Where's her? Obviously he was so obsessed with Juan Maki in the past. He felt that when she played the violin, she was particularly elegant and mysterious. What happened after marriage that changed him so much?
After getting married, Juan gave up his violin career and devoted himself to being a housewife. From then on, her husband is his whole world.
But in fact, the world of two people living under the same roof is completely different. The husband thinks his wife is as literary and artistic as him, so he sends her a collection of poems, but Juan Zhenji uses it as a placemat; the husband analyzes his favorite movies To his wife, but she finds it very boring; Juan Maki makes fried chicken, topped with lemon juice every time, just to please her husband's taste, but in fact, the husband is very disgusted.
The husband did not want to live a life without spiritual communication. He said to his wife: "Go and do what you want to do."
did not expect Juan Maki to reply happily: "The things at home are what I want to do now!"
Husband finally left, but Juan Maki has been waiting in secret. Later, when she learned that her husband had committed a crime, she also devoted herself to helping her to conceal it.
Not so much that she loves her husband so much, it is better to say that she has given up on herself for too long and can no longer find her independent personality.
What makes love speechless is that one party accepts it, while the other party is mostly unscrupulous.
is like when Huo Zun talked about Chen Lu in his "Hushang Erotic Stream" group, saying that she "just stayed with her unconditionally, and nothing else was nothing." In her words, she devalued Chen Lu and felt that she was not worthy of her. Such "artists".
9 years of company and dedication are worthless for people who do not appreciate you.
So girls, don't give up yourself for love, betting on yourself is more reliable.
Self-growth, you may not be so wealthy in the end, but you have an independent and confident personality. After you don't put hope on your partner, looking back many years later, it is your own step by step, not the unwillingness and grievance of exhausting youth.
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