Congratulations, they finally got divorced!

have you noticed that in recent years, more and more love reality shows have revealed the appearance of happy love.

And recently there is finally a show, willing to tear off the fig leaf of marriage to show us.

It is "Goodbye Lover". The

show invited 3 couples who are already divorced and about to divorce. They started an 18-day trip in an RV, and re-examined this marriage during the journey. Before

, some netizens complained about it. After all, the Korean version is in the front. Will it be a copy of the routine again? After the broadcast of

, the program scored 8.5 points on Douban Zhibiao, and the comments all said that there are frequent tears, which is better than Lianzong.

In the traditional concept of “persuade peace but not divide”, separation actually requires more courage than love.

, as a viewer, even if he knows that the show is a helpless ending, he still can't help but sigh deeply.

has exposed too many Chinese families because of them.

I want to give myself a wedding

As the farewell ceremony of this marriage

This trip is the final farewell ceremony of Zhu Yaqiong for this marriage.

Their first act in the show is to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for a divorce.

is like a patient waiting for a doctor, and the illness is a marriage with problems.

This is not the first time they have divorced .

Zhu Yaqiong had already filed for divorce because she felt that her husband did not respect her, but she had to remarry after an unexpected pregnancy.

Her mother even asked her if she ever thought that this decision would make her son unhappy?

One is romanticism, the other is pragmatism, which also caused the dislocation of this marriage.

For Wang Qiuyu, bread is above love.

All things are "a waste of time" and "meaningless". Even if he knew that there was a problem with the marriage, he felt that his wife was awkward.Unwilling to spend time pampering feelings.

Even Zhu Yaqiong asked him for a hug, but he dared to humblely put forward "just one minute."

On the first night of the trip, Zhu Yaqiong made her wish to take a set of wedding photos of her own .

At first, Lao Wang felt that it was time-consuming and labor-intensive to not hold the wedding, which left a regret in Zhu Yaqiong's heart.

When Zhu Yaqiong appeared in front of Lao Wang in a white wedding dress, he apologized to Zhu Yaqiong a little guiltily. The belated "sorry" of

made Zhu Yaqiong pour out the grievances and helplessness that had been buried in her heart for many years.

She looked at Lao Wang with determination, and asked him "Am I pretty?" over and over again.

She remembered that on the day they received the certificate, she had carefully put on a make-up, but Lao Wang splashed her with cold water with a phrase "so ugly".

Zhu Yaqiong also prepared a surprise for Wang Qiuyu. She cut the videos she had recorded over the years into a collection.

Wang Qiuyu laughed while watching, but had no impression of these things, as if the person in the image was not himself.

In his eyes, these once happy memories are long gone.

"What is the meaning of it?", "How important is it?".

Maybe because they are ten years old, they have huge differences in concepts and personalities.

Lao Wang is a husband who is striving for a career to make money to support his family, but ignores his wife's emotional needs; what Zhu Yaqiong needs is affirmation and care.

Sensual and rational, warm and calm, soft and hard,

You are looking up at the moon, he lowers his head to just sixpence.

may leave is the best ending.

let you go, and let me go .

I hope that in the days to come,

can live the way you like it.

This pair obviously has no love, but the most people are like a throat.

Guo Keyu and Zhang He have been divorced for one year. Two people who have been married for ten years, but they don’t know what identity to communicate when they meet each other.

For them, marriage is an emotional decision.

They got married within a month of getting acquainted with each other, and they all happened to be the person they met at the age when they wanted to get married.

However, the marriage entered without the heat is very different from what they imagined. It was only after they got married that they found that it was difficult to find a common language, whether it was hobbies, personality, or daily life.

In a marriage, the most terrible thing is not the quarrel.

But in the end, two people are more lonely than one .

They were unwilling to understand each other, Guo Keyu insisted on saying, "He can't get in my world, I don't want to go to his world".

It seems that their ten years is really a mistake in life .

On the first day of travel, they were strangers.

not only avoids eyes, but also seems awkward when talking, and even in a car, there is an awkward atmosphere.

But when Zhang He was cold, Guo Keyu would return to the RV to get him a blanket; Zhang He also kept paying attention to Guo Keyu's emotions.

In these 10 years of "no love", they seem to have a self-evident understanding.

In the climbing experience, each team of couples have to climb to the edge of the cliff and shout what they want to say to each other.

Guo Keyu did not participate because of a waist injury. Zhang He, who was severely afraid of heights, gritted his teeth and decided to participate. Guo Keyu looked at him from a distance and called out "Come on" to him for the first time.

He was shaking, step by step up the suspension bridge beside the cliff.

When he walked up, he blurted out the name of Guo Keyu.

"Thank you for the past ten years. In the days to come, you must live the way you like it, and so do I".

Guo Keyu, who stood on the mountain and looked at him, cried silently while wearing sunglasses.

At that moment, they were relieved.

has been in love for 10 years and they are unwilling to give an opportunity to communicate with each other.

broke through Zhang He, who was afraid of heights. At the moment he stood up, he finally mustered up the courage to break the wall between the two.

draws an end to the emotions that once played against each other.

There may have been no love between them, but the "love" is still there.

When Guo Keyu asked what her mood was when she heard this call, she cried and said, "What's wrong without love, can I say goodbye if there is love?"

In the long life, separation and love are not necessarily contrary to .

has been like a dream for ten years, even if there is regret, it will leave a decent farewell to each other.

has no resentment, only blessings, one is different and two are wide, and each is happy.

During the night talks around the furnace, Zhang He sat next to Guo Keyu and sang "Appear and Leave",

"Why appeared in each other's lives and left, leaving only the deep and shallow confession in my heart, no one thought about it No one thought about changing it againWant to come back. "

is probably the best state after the divorce.

thank you for your past efforts and wish you happiness in the future .

If we don’t have children

, wouldn’t we both get well together?

kk and Tong? Divorce, but the most irritating.

They are very harmonious along the way, and occasionally spread dog food, almost thinking that they are participating in "Romantic Journey of Wife".

However, under the beautiful appearance, there is better Two couples have more serious problems.

has been married for 7 years, and children and alcoholism have always been a barrier for the family.

kk Whenever he talks about children, Tong Chenjie only needs one request: , you stop drinking for a year I think about giving birth to .

is such a simple request, kk drags and consumes, and even talks about bargaining.

Whether it is life or journey, almost Tong Chenjie is taking care of kk.

but she herself is more I hope I can rely on others.

KK instead replied confidently, " looks like you are taking care of me, but in fact I am creating opportunities for you to take care of me ".

For example: I never cook at home, if I cook, what would she do ?

(Reminder: remember to prepare high blood pressure medicine before reading the following passage)

After listening to this fallacy, my mood is the same as in the barrage.

really leave me speechless, don't you want this blessing?

According to his words, you take care of me to create value for yourself.

When talking about children, he is even more hysterical.

In kk's view, he is alone in Shanghai, his career and friends have to start again, and he has no sense of security. Having a child is his connection to the world.

Because in the stereotypes of many boys, to come into this world, it is necessary to prove that I existed.

But he did not realize that for Tong Chenjie, 40 years old this year, to have a child means that he must bear high physical and psychological risks.

usually has to coax her husband is already very tired, having a child is even more exhausted, if you still run out to drink every day, who will take care of me ?

I think they actually have an answer in their hearts, just like Tong Chenjie pointed out at the last point:

If there are no children, just the two of us, can we have a good time ?

kk was silent for a moment, and resolutely answered "no".

I want children but I don't want to give up drinking. If you think it can't work, this marriage won't go on.

If the first two couples left with regret, then I just want to say to Tong Chenjie:

When watching the show, I couldn't help crying several times in the middle of the show.

The two people who once fell in love are now separated and falling apart.

Those competing words, those helpless silences, those sighs with emotion... are the truth revealed in married life after the heat fades, it is really embarrassing.

It is as real as it is cruel, so real that it is performed by our side almost every day.

Chinese people are taboo about divorce, and many people spend their entire lives swallowing their anger.

But the worst outcome is not a divorce, but becoming a mask couple .

has no love, no expectation, but lives together and consumes with each other.

Some people think that a failed marriage is a stain on life.

But past experience is precious even if it fails. It enriches your life and tells you that things are impermanent. The most important point of

is-let you learn to love yourself .

When a relationship collapses, we will each be good and bad, and we will travel separately and meet again.

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editor in charge丨Qingqi, Li Mitang

editor丨Renee

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