In the movie "Find You", the female perspective is well grasped, especially Sun Fang's revenge on Li Jie.

After watching this movie, what impressed me the most was that after Sun Fang lost his daughter, he began to really want revenge, or the so-called self-defeating and abandoning the kindhearted. This episode of the ups and downs is worth talking about. When I arrived at Li Jie’s house, I saw that Li Jie was not gentle or virtuous at all (the small stool in the living room blocked the way and kicked it away, and the child was crying, but I couldn’t coax it). At that time, I gave Sun Fang a close-up, that kind of look. It reveals a kind of speechlessness and questioning-why such a woman, her child can survive well.

But she is so primitive in nature, so after she really enters Li Jie's house as a nanny, she can't help but fall in love with Duoduo. It was about the same size as her own pearl, and she was just as cute and dependent on her. She asked her to coax, listen to her singing, and was taken by her to buy food. So her guard must be relieved. Otherwise, why don’t you bring it to sell for so long? You have to wait until someone is killed and set on fire. It seems that you are going to sell it. In fact, you still bring a lot of money and want to go to the island to play? ? Sun Fang would never really want to sell a lot. She just resented Li Jie. She asked Li Jie, did your husband beat you? (In her heart, there is no such thing as a career or a woman's so-called independent elegance, she just feels that there is no need to divorce if she is not beaten), so she doesn't understand why Yao Chen has to divorce, making her child feel like she doesn't have a father.

doesn't care about the children's pick-up and drop-off from get off work every day. He only kisses every day and only shouts baby. Sun Fang has always silently determined in his heart, "My wife is not worthy of being a mother, and my mother is not like you." Everything broke out on the day when everything was killed. She actually wanted to tell her wife the truth at first, but Li Jie still didn’t think she needed to listen, because Li Jie felt that her job was the child’s umbrella, and the nanny only needed to take care of the child’s daily life. , This is the different stubbornness and lack of empathy between Li Jie and Sun Fang at the beginning.

Everyone thinks that their maternal love is the noblest, but Sun Fang's radical behavior at least made Li Jie, a senior intellectual, feel the importance of empathy, most importantly the empathy of maternal love. Maternal love does not distinguish between social levels. Every mother truly loves their children and wants to give their children "what they think is the best." Li Jie is also a man of temperament, so in the end he turned back in court. Therefore, I think that Sun Fang is only sincerely wanting revenge from her daughter’s death to when she actually became a babysitter, or the so-called self-defeating and abandoning her kindness. Once she becomes a babysitter, her heart’s kindness and maternal love She had already flourished, so she really wouldn't hurt Duoduo, and finally returned Duoduo to Li Jie.

In the end, I personally think that Sun Fang is still a lot. It is not simply being persuaded by Li Jie, but she heard Duoduo yelling "Mom and Dad" in her ear! Friends can check again, Sun Fang’s expression After calling Dad and Mom, Duoduo stopped for a while, and then slowly let go of Duoduo. Sun Fang would not be so easily moved by Li Jie. She finally succumbed to the cry of the child. She couldn't bear it, but she still needed her parents a lot.

Therefore, there is only one far-fetched logic in this film, and the most fundamental reason is that Sun Fang retaliated against Li Jie, only because Li Jie occupied her child's bed. But although this point can be identified as a slot point, it cannot be said to be completely illogical. It is indeed possible for people with the same level of knowledge as Sun Fang in the film to do this. However, it is true that some things seem illogical, but if they can be understood emotionally from the standpoint of a mother, a woman’s perspective is well grasped.