reported on March 26 that Xu Jialiang's new work "Informal Love" will be screened online in major theaters across the country on March 26. The heroine Ai Jia in the movie
is a girl born in a single-parent family. She seems strong and optimistic. She hides wounds in her heart. As long as you get close to her, you can see through her pretentiously tough mask. Fragile and uneasy. The harm caused by single-parent families to children is the main theme throughout the movie. Therefore, in the movie, Ai Jia will use violence to cover up his vulnerability and punish every "scumbag" he encounters. The director also wants to alert every audience through this film, cherish the people you love and those who love you, don't lose your life for an "informal love", and let your children become "informal love" The victim.
A survey conducted by the China Women’s Federation shows that 67% of divorced families in China have children. At the time of divorce, only 1 out of 6 dads chose to have children, which is 17%. Many of these 17% of single-parent dads face heavy family burdens and are under tremendous psychological and social pressure.
We interviewed Mr. Yang from Shenzhen. His life is the same as this small fishing village, from unfamiliar to fame. Mr. Yang, who was a college student in the 1990s, used the words "young and frivolous" to describe himself at that time. "At that time, my ex-wife and I were both college students in the 90s. We were both arrogant, and no one would let anyone take a step." After the divorce, Mr. Yang took his son to work in a state-owned enterprise. "Work and life are like two big mountains. It is difficult for me to achieve a balanced state. I can only try to have a balanced mentality." Every night after get off work, Mr. Yang worked hard to help his son's homework. He was very afraid that his son would become rebellious due to lack of maternal love. On the crooked road. After so many years, Hengmei was cold to let his son get his wish and become a graduate of 985 colleges and universities like himself, and also successfully exchanged public funds to study abroad. But there seems to be a big gap between Mr. Yang and his son, and his only relative. The blood relationship is like an insoluble rope tied to the father and the son, but the father and son have not spoken for a long time. . Mr. Yang has not dared to mute his cell phone until now, just to avoid missing any news from his son. He occasionally receives a call from his son. The boss in the mall screams Fang Qiu, his voice is shaking with excitement. Nowadays, Mr. Yang, who is rich in wealth, is about to show off the health care products his son bought from the UK. "Holland&Barret, you see, this brand, my son knows that my femoral head necrosis has bought it specifically for me." With a proud and nervous look, he took out a few bottles to us.
Mr. Yang’s favorite moment is after get off work, sitting in the car and smoking a cigarette, because only then is the real solitude, you can calm down and think about your life. In this city, how many single fathers are sitting in the car tiredly, thinking about what dinner will be given to the children tonight, and thinking about the informal love of recklessness when they were young. Life is like a barren field. Every seed you plant will be harvested by yourself. When we were young, we always wanted to do something rebellious, even the most beautiful and pure love, we have to be "informal". A handsome and cool boy in his 20s has not considered how to answer the child's question of "Where did the mother go?" after ten years.
Informal love, can you really afford it?
(Editor in charge: Han Chong_NBJ11345)