Is derailment becoming more and more "normal"?

Li Xiaolu and pg1 incident, a new video was released. In the

video, the two people look like a pair of men and women who are fully in love with each other. Seeing them,

thinks of many stars who have cheated on them and reaped their fans on TV after a while. They staged new popular variety shows and created new characters.

And once you mention that they cheated, fans will occupy your entire comment area and scold you bloody.

I have been scolded before, and I was impressed by the terrible level.

I don’t want to comment today. Just want to discuss, I am thinking about a question: Is

derailment more and more "normal"?

1,

discussed the issue of "derailment" with friends two years ago.

He holds the view: Don't test one person, because you will find that everyone will cheat.

At that time, I had a relatively simple view on feelings, because I thought I "absolutely won't," and I had an argument with him.

I asked him, "Then why can anyone remain loyal to a relationship?"

He said, "For example, if a man goes to open a room with a woman, something will happen, but what this man can control is, no Let yourself appear in this room.”

Later I seemed to be persuaded, at least I accepted, from the perspective of a boy, this is how I think about this issue.

And his attitude made me feel that despite the truth, there are still people who choose to be loyal to love.

But after that, I still got a pessimistic conclusion in my heart, that is-

people will gradually become numb to the derailment in the future, until they think it is normal, even if it happens in the surroundings or on themselves.

2,

Two years have passed, and I have no longer contacted this friend.

vowed to tell me that "everyone will derail, but he can control his loyalty." He has been practicing derailment physically and energetically.

And his girlfriend is like a silly white sweet, will tell everyone around me that I can not believe in the whole world, but I absolutely believe in him.

Her maintenance and starry eyes created a perfect image for him in front of family and friends.

Every time I see her, I feel angry, but I don't know if it is a good thing to tell her the truth.

So I decided that I would not interact with this friend anymore.

Later I heard that the matter was still exposed. The boy cried bitterly and swore a poisonous oath in front of both family members, and the girl chose to forgive him.

A lie is like an iceberg in the sea. When you see a lie, there will be 10,000 lies under it.

forgave countless times, causing even more irreparable damage. No matter how blind love is, there is the last straw that crushes the camel.

Boy friends left all the endgames and left, unpaid debts, unpaid rent and utilities, and even more.

For the last time, his mother said to the other girl on the phone, "Not married yet, what does it matter to you for his cheating?"

The girl was stunned, she laughed, "So it's like this", she hung up .

She didn't speak any more, and she cleaned up the mess in silence. Before leaving,

was also quiet, tearing up the photo in front of the window.

3,

I wrote an article for Wang Jingwen, which said that after being cheated by her first love, she still chooses to compound.

One year on Mother's Day, she bought a bunch of flowers and went downstairs to their house and called his mother.

connected, and the other mother said, "Since my son has made a choice, don't come to us anymore."

Wang Jingwen threw the bunch of flowers into the trash on the way home. She has never bought flowers for her mother.

The name of the article is called, give up to someone, how long have you used it?

is like every mother will cover up the truth of cheating for her own children, just like every fan will wash away these things for their idols.

"Don't you just cheat, as for?", this is also slowly appearing.

As for? Wang Jingwen and the girl didn't know either.

But they know that under the joint efforts of all family and friends, one day they will still be like okay people, with new friends, new boy and girl friends.

Lucky and happiness will also come to them, they don't have to worry about whether they have caused a lifetime of harm to others.

4,

, ​​there have been many cheating stories around, in my opinion, it is very helpless, the popularity rate of this matter is actually very high, and it is getting higher and higher.

I recently watched an American drama called "Modern Love", which is about some love stories that happened in New York.

One episode tells the story of a middle-aged and elderly female reporter.

When the female reporter was young, she agreed with her lover to meet in Paris, but in the end the other party did not keep the appointment.

Decades later, at the female reporter’s new bookmark sales meeting, an old grandfather showed up, and he handed him a ticket.

It turns out that he was the boy of that year, but he did not miss an appointment that year.

Two white-haired old people with a family decided to start a late date.

They did not go to the hotel, but sat on the benches by the lake in the park and leaned on each other's shoulders for the night.

After dawn, the two decided to separate. After

went home separately, they made completely different choices-

the man offered to help his wife with housework to make up for the guilt in his heart;

and the female reporter sat down and said to her husband that we should be over.

What surprised me was that for a female reporter, to find that she fell in love with other people was already a betrayal of existing feelings. Even if she would not be with that person, she also mentioned separation.

5,

I remember one night when my friend Tan Min came to the hospital to see me. I walked with him and walked. I asked him, "Will you cheat?"

He categorically told me that he would not.

I said, lie.

I looked at the front of the road, and then said, "If one day, I mean if you have the idea of ​​cheating, can you tell the other party to break up first?"

then walked back to the hospital.

When he left, I saw a girl waiting for him.

He waved at me and walked towards her.

That was the last time we met, I smiled and watched them leave, thinking to myself, it's great.

Later, when I saw every "good" on the street, I would be very scared to think, what is behind it?

I really like a song that I have shared many times, Lin Erwen's version of "You Only Cannot Be Replaced".

In the comment area of ​​this song, the most highly praised comment is: Never throw away the people who have been with you because of the freshness.

Today I want to add one sentence:

If one day you decide to throw away the people around you, please sit down and tell him the truth, okay?

A few days ago I wrote a paragraph on Weibo , I want to use it as the end-

love is really strange, everyone here is your favorite, but there will always beThe next one is more love. Which one is the true love?

Joey Yung has a lot of questions in " Flowers and Trees ":

She said, "Who can guarantee that you will not regret it for the rest of your life, and it is better to wait in front of you." "Together", "I'm afraid that I will choose this person today and meet a certain gentleman to give him a more dynamic kiss."

but if this question ask me.

I will not go to the forest again, nor would I want to wait for the next one, because I don’t know why love is so complicated, my answer is only a simple sentence-

is "Mr." by Miriam Yang "If you travel around the universe, there will always be something better, but you make me super happy"

love someone, I never want to know what is better in my whole life, I will always believe that now is the best, and I will die. Flow is also good.