The concept of husband and child is lagging behind, the role and role of father in baby early education

The concept of husband and child is lagging behind. The role and role of father in baby early education (parents are the best teachers series)

baby has the ability to learn from the date of birth, this time he/she is the first to contact It is not a teacher or a parenting expert, but a parent or other family member. At this time, the words and deeds of family members play a vital role for the baby, because the baby's learning starts from imitating, so the best enlightenment teacher for the baby at this time is the parent.
The old saying goes: three years old look old, seventy look young, science also proves that before the age of 3 is the fastest development in the baby's life, the learning ability is relatively strong and the most important learning period. Therefore, at this stage, parents should implement early education as soon as possible and grasp the critical period of baby learning. I believe this is also a problem that every parent is particularly concerned about.
So what important role can the father play in early education? What role should it play?
1. The role of fathers in early childhood education
1. The influence of empathy and social skills
Performance: Studies have shown that babies have a strong attachment to their fathers from birth, and they tend to be very active when they have a father. Longing for a hug. Babies who are in frequent contact with their fathers are more adaptable, showing that they are relatively easy to be embraced by strangers, and respond more to strangers' language.
method: The father must play his own role from the beginning of his infancy, which can be done specifically in operation. Whenever you’re busy, you should also take time to get in touch with your baby. Whenever you have time, you should feed your baby more, hug, tease, and communicate more emotionally. For older babies, you can also do more interactive games or participate in some outdoor activities.
2. The influence of personality and IQ
performance: The children brought out by fathers are often more naughty, smarter, and more capable. Of course, the social skills we mentioned above are also stronger. This is because in terms of baby education, the father is more cheerful, easy-going, informal, and his father is more energetic, has a stronger thinking logic and is more athletic than his mother, and is more rational in handling some issues. Children educated by fathers tend to have more perseverance and patience.
method: Fathers should give full play to their skills in thinking logic and practical skills when educating their babies. For example, take the baby to do some tedious hands-on activities to cultivate the child's patience and thinking logic. You can take your older baby to participate in some physical activities and do some relatively adventurous activities to cultivate your child's hands-on ability and build a firm character.
2. The role that fathers should play in early education
1. Baby’s game partners and friends
Many fathers tend to play a "stern" image and treat their babies more preaching and discipline, don't you know that this kind of education is in the early education of children Among them is absolutely undesirable. This method will not only hurt the child's self-esteem, but also encourage the child's rebellious psychology. At this time, what the baby needs most is why, rather than not.
method: Be your baby's game partner, be his friend, guide the child's curiosity in the game, and understand the child's seemingly childish behavior from the perspective of a friend. For example, the editor will play some games with children, playing the characters in cartoons such as Ultraman Fighting Monsters, and then tell some little truths through playing games.
2. Baby's role model and backing
has its father and must have its son. This is an old saying, and it is also very popular now. However, research shows that fathers have more influence on daughters than their sons.
method: Children at this stage are often insecure and full of curiosity. As a father after get off work, no matter how tired or hard you are, don’t come back and plunge into the sofa or into the TV, let alone watch your phone. But should You should interact more with your baby and communicate with your family. Establish a good father image. Spend some time alone to communicate with the child about topics that he is interested in, such as: on the way to send the child to kindergarten, ask the kindergarten interesting Or something the child is interested in. Say some words of encouragement: such as "You are great", "Dad supports you!", "Dad loves you very much" and so on. The role of
for father The editor hopes to play a role in asking for directions, and also hopes to stir up waves with one stone, so that everyone can join in the discussion. Don’t get me wrong about only writing about father but not mother. Because of space reasons, the editor will elaborate separately.

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