, there was a video of a female teacher discussing the definition of "friend" in class. It is said that the female teacher was a professor named Chen Guo from Fudan University. Once the video was uploaded, it attracted countless netizens' likes and reprints. She said in the video that "a friend is not a drinking partner, a friend is not a playmate, a friend is not a solace in loneliness, a friend is not a refuge for your spirit, and a friend is not a transporter of benefits."
Then, she explained: "True Friends of you should not eat, drink and play, because they are just friends with wine and meat; you should not talk to friends when you are sad, because friends are not your punching bag; when you encounter difficulties, you should not ask friends for help, because friends are not your safe haven; true friends Usually more severe to you than anyone else, because he wants you to improve; a true friend is enough as long as I feel that you exist..."
Her point of view has the resonance of countless people, but the editor thinks I didn't reach that state, so I basically didn't agree with it. The editor still respects the friend view of Andy Lau, and others. Let me share with you the following.
One, Andy Lau
Andy Lau is well-known in the entertainment circle with good character and popularity. When he was most frustrated, he got help from Xiang Tai, Wang Jing and others, so he said in the "Stars Classmates Association" program that he would do whatever Wang Jing told him to do. This also made Wang Jing's bad movies constantly, and he still insisted on Wang Jing. Similarly, Andy Lau also helped countless people, Li Keqin , Zhang Weijian and even Lan Jieying, etc. have all received his righteous shots when they were most frustrated and desolate.
Andy Lau said in "Zhiyun Dinner": "Friends are always blind. Many times I do the right thing and you have to support me. If I do something wrong, you must also support me. If you see friends fighting with others, I Whether that would be the wrong friends or the other, I will go apart from anything else rushed to help a friend fight. If what should be talking about right and wrong, then there is a judge on the line, but also a friend to do? "
the year in which the financial crisis 97 Zhang Weijian almost went bankrupt because of blind investment. When he was about to declare bankruptcy, Andy Lau found him for filming. Zhang Weijian took this opportunity to say to Andy Lau, "Boss, I will declare bankruptcy soon, can you help? I got through this difficulty." So Andy Lau wrote a check to him without saying anything, and gave him a sentence, "What you learn should teach people, and what you earn you should help others"
three, Nat Chan
Nat Chan and alan Tam grew up together, what degree of relationship between two people to do good? Chen Baixiang once said,The two bankruptcies he experienced in his life were helped by Alan Tam and . When he went bankrupt for the first time, Alan Tam just made the first installment of 30,000 yuan in his life. At that time, Alan Tam’s family was looking forward to the money. In the new house, Alan Tam actually lent the money to Chen Baixiang.
In 1987, Alan Tam encountered a major setback in his life. At that time, rumors about him were everywhere. Newspapers kept reporting that he had spent money to buy awards. In desperation, he announced his withdrawal from any competitive awards. As a result, there were repeated reports that Alan Tam was afraid of the rising of Leslie Cheung and had to announce that he would not accept the award. When Alan Tam was on the cusp of the storm, Chen Baixiang stood up and said something against Leslie Cheung. Because Chen Baixiang still has a certain influence in the Hong Kong entertainment circle, the focus of the news immediately shifted to Chen Baixiang. Later Leslie Cheung called Chen Baixiang and Alan Tam to his house a few months before his death. Leslie Cheung asked Chen Baixiang, "Ala, we are all good friends, why did you say that to me?" Chen Baixiang replied, "Yes, We are good friends, but his Alan is a better friend of mine. For him, I have to say this." In Chen Baixiang’s view, he knows that saying those things is inhumane, should not be, and even has no conscience. However, in order to help the person who lent him the first installment of a Dalian property since he was a child, shift the focus and get out of the difficulties, he can only bear the infamy alone.
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