"To our dying youth": Youth is a catastrophe we cannot escape

Text: The Only Qiao Qiao

Foreword: Filmmaker Shi Hang wrote for "Fang Siqi's First Love" in the testimonial, there is such a sentence: After the crisis-ridden growth, each of us is a survivor of youth .

really means it. Youth is not only the most beautiful years of our lives, but also the most dangerous journey. Some people were lucky enough to escape the catastrophe of youth, and some unfortunately lay down with a gun and were deeply wounded by it, and we had no way to wait for it to heal on its own, or just like that with pain and continue walking.

At the beginning of the movie, four girls from different places were admitted to the same university and were arranged into the same dormitory. They became good friends walking side by side.

Zheng Wei: Dare to love and hate, act decisively, and love passionately. Even if you are hit by youth, you can still live freely and easily.

​​Zheng Wei is the most lively and outgoing of the four girls, and the reason why she applied for this university is to pursue her first love-a boy who was four years older than her and was with her childhood sweetheart, Lin Jing, you know, that was her four People who are anxious to marry when they are old!

Unexpectedly, just before her arrival, Lin Jing went to the United States without leaving her a word. She was sad, depressed, and even followed Ruan Wan to drink alcohol to relieve anxiety.

looked back after many years, in fact, it was just "sorrow for new words". How can there be a piercing pain, as she said: turns out that love is not dead. , We can all live if we lose whoever we leave.

Compared to later, this unsuccessful love affair was just the lightest one in Zheng Wei's youth.

It didn't take long for her to have a new love partner, and the other person was the boy who said "hate herself"-Chen Xiaozheng. The two people pinched each other from the very beginning, but they were able to love unreservedly afterwards.

Look, sometimes love is such a bastard, coming silently and caught off guard.

Chen Xiaozheng is indifferent in appearance and low self-esteem. From childhood to adulthood, his mother's dogmatic education has brought him a fear of poverty and a desire for success.

As for Zheng Wei, pure sunshine, never fearing the eyes of others, and living frankly and frankly. Such two extreme people are destined to not go far. What's more, from the very beginning, Chen Xiaozheng has been at the commanding heights of love. No matter how sincere his love is, it can't match Zheng Wei's purity. Therefore, Zheng Wei's troubles are not without reason.

The more you love actively and humblely love, the more you are afraid of losing, you will really lose in the end.

When Chen Xiaozheng chose to go abroad to give up his love, Zheng Wei realized that the ending of some stories is long predestined, and no matter how hard you try and accommodate, you can't change the trajectory of fate.

is like in the end, going around for years, they have what they want to have, and they also lose what they don't want to lose, maybe they are together again?

is like two broken and reshaped clay figures, who can be reborn after experiencing Nirvana. But the pain and suffering are indispensable.

Fortunately, they all rushed through the rapids of youth and stomped to the safe side.

Ruan Wan: Introverted and beautiful, the temperature is graceful, and he is only tempted by a man in his life, but the ending is the worst!

The most sad thing in the movie is the accidental departure of the school flower Ruan Wan.

She is the goddess of many boys, but she has been entangled with Zhao Shiyong, a mabao man who has no responsibility and no responsibility.

How mummy is Zhao Shiyong? After he let other girls become pregnant, the first thing he thought of was to find Ruan Wan for his aftermath, completely ignoring how much the incident caused Ruan Wan.

In the hospital, the girl said to Ruan Wan: Leave Zhao Shiyong, he is not worthy of you!

But before getting into the car, Ruan Wan just said to Zhao Shiyong plainly: Let's not blame the past, let's not take it as an example! After getting in the car, a person cried secretly, but still couldn't let it go. A few years after graduating from

, she wanted to get married, so she told ZhaoShi Yong said he was pregnant.

But this man looked frightened: Why are you so careless, you know that my mother disagrees with the two of us!

At that moment, Ruan Wan finally died, she smiled and said: I lied to you.

After returning, Ruan Wan asked Zheng Wei to accompany her for the abortion operation.

Yes, she is really pregnant, but that mom Baonan dare not marry her! I thought this time, she really let go, and finally could start a new life.

did not expect that before getting married, Zhao Shiyong called her to go to the concert, but she still agreed. Although she simply wanted to say goodbye to the past and make a break with him, we all know that she couldn't let go of that man at all.

Therefore, even if Ruan Wan does not have a car accident, she can successfully marry a blind dated man, and eventually will be disturbed by Zhao Shiyong and even divorced. For Ruan Wan, youth is an inescapable disaster for Ruan Wan.

Li Weijuan: A bit selfish, but she lives to understand the reality, so her youth is all-around, except for the episode in the third year of high school.

​​Li Weijuan is a girl who passed the exam from a small county. She was admitted to the ideal university after repeating studies. She knew exactly how she wanted to live.

She will not fall in love in college, and she will not waste time in love. She studies hard in order to be able to choose that person in the future.

And he must be a man who can give him a good life, not the boys who have nothing in school, let alone the boy who met her in the repetition class with the same conditions and did not even pass the college entrance examination.

In the end, she was able to live the life she wanted. Although he is a teenage man older than herself and has two children, Li Weijuan doesn't care.

Life is a game of constant loss and gain. As long as you think clearly about who you want to give up and get who, what you want to give up and what you want to have, as for what will happen in the future, who knows?

Zhu Xiaobei: Youth is the life she wants to kill most. Among the four

, the most innocent is Zhu Xiaobei, because of her youth, not because of love.

Zhu Xiaobei is from a poor family, and her sister relies on a small bun shop to support her for college. Even so, she is still sunny and confident.

However, an ordinary shopping, but changed her life trajectory. She was suspected of stealing and even forced a body search on the ground in public. How could she, a girl, bear this insult!

In the end, she smashed the small supermarket angrily, in exchange for being persuaded to leave, and what followed was that her destiny was changed.

Therefore, for Zhu Xiaobei, youth is more like a rest from a previous life. Since then, there has been no Zhu Xiaobei in the world.

N Many years later, Xu Kaiyang met a memory trainer who looked exactly like Zhu Xiaobei. He approached and asked, but was politely told: You have admitted the wrong person, I am Liu Yun.

can let go of the past, sometimes it really takes courage. If Ruan Wan could be like Zhu Xiaobei, how could there be such a tragic ending!

Conclusion: Zhang Jiajia said in "Passing Through Your World": Youth is always like this, touch everywhere, it is pain.

Only those who have experienced it will understand: the catastrophe of youth can be avoided, it is luck, but it is destiny.

just, too few lucky people.