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Reported on November 24 On 24th, Zhang Peimeng issued a long article in response to rumors of domestic violence, and published a number of medical certificates of injuries. According to the counterclaim of his wife's domestic violence, he claimed that during a quarrel, his wife would chase herself with a knife and scratch her testicles. At the same time, he denied cheating and domestic violence. He took the child away because his wife was negligent in pursuing pleasure in Beijing. He was persuaded not to be the woman's pick-up man before marriage. All the pictures and texts of
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What I have to say
I have always wanted to be quiet, but after 40 days of tolerating it, I was forced to helpless and had to use my privacy to tell the truth.
Today is a full three months after the girl returned to her home in Beijing. The time that I spend with my girl every day is my happiest time and gives me the strength to continue living.
I am experiencing the darkest days of my life. I am under the stigma of "domestic violence, derailment, prostitution, illegal entry into the house, snatching children, and violence". Some people want to make me "disintegrate".
I have been reluctant to speak up for 40 days. After all, the people who took care of me were the children's mother and grandma; they were relatives and original family members.
I still want to redeem all of this, and endure it again and again, but what is waiting is waves of slander and lies.
I can't bear it anymore.
I don't know if there is any shameful family like ours. I am really confused and have to force myself to search for memories. Some things are really hard to tell.
一
Zhang Mohan and my mother-in-law have always played the role of "weak + victim", hoping to make themselves "spokespersons against domestic violence." If I were not the client, I might also believe them. But this is not the case.
When Zhang Mohan had a dispute at home, he often ignored it, not serious, and chased me with a knife many times. Once, because I went home two hours later than I had agreed with her, she unexpectedly waited for me at the entrance of the corridor with a kitchen knife.
, who had gone through many dangerous moments, didn't want to be entangled, so I turned and ran subconsciously, but the kitchen knife she threw out directly slashed on my body, cutting through the down jacket, and the filled feathers fell on the ground.
Afterwards, at the gathering of friends, Zhang Mohan would even use this as a joke, showing off that she could catch up with the sprinter and successfully hit me.
Zhang Mohan and my mother-in-law put pressure on me together at home. This pressure is both physical and mental damage.
There was a quarrel. I wanted to go out to calm down. My mother-in-law blocked me and hugged my waist desperately from below, causing Zhang Mohan to slap me from above.
While doing this, she shouted loudly: "My daughter is pregnant with your child, so what's the matter with you?"
I broke free and ran out of the house, Zhang Mohan chased it out and jumped straight down the stairs. Fortunately, I turned around and caught her, but the result was unimaginable, but she took the opportunity to continue to beat my head..
Zhang Mohan has been working hard to produce evidence of my "domestic violence", trying his best to strengthen my control.
On May 7, 2020, in a dispute, she scratched my lower body so hard that she trimmed her sharp long nails and broke during this scratching. And my testicles were scratched by her.
Men know that their testicles are injured, how painful it makes people crazy. In the resistance, I reluctantly threw her away, kept my distance from her, and did not fight back.
She called the police that I had beaten her. At the police station, she strongly demanded that the police detain me, forced me to write a letter of remorse, admit unnecessarily derailed and domestic violence, and knelt down to apologize to her. Thinking about it now, fortunately, I didn't agree to her request in order to calm down the situation, otherwise it would be another so-called "real hammer" incident.
In the hospital, I was identified as "testicular trauma". I don't want to be a laughing stock because of this kind of injury, and I have been ashamed to speak out. However, she was unscrupulous on the Internet and wrote about her "domestic violence" and adapted the truth into the script she needed.
March 24, 2020, I was maintaining the motorcycle, and she ordered me to go home immediately. As soon as I got home, I was scolded. After I returned my mouth, she picked up a music box and slammed it on my head, then tore me.
My clothes were torn, my arms and waist were scratched, and nail scratches were clearly visible.
March or April 2019, I don’t remember why I quarreled. She hit my left ear with a fist, which immediately caused my tinnitus and almost perforated my eardrum.
During the examination and treatment at the China-Japan Friendship Hospital, the doctor took out a large amount of fluid from my ears caused by being beaten. The doctor suggested that in order to prevent the effusion from recurring and exuding, it should be sealed with a cast. I felt that it would affect my image at work, so I refused, which eventually led to hyperplasia and hardening of the auricles. The medical records of this visit were kept in the hospital. The ear injury caused me to sleep on my left side and press the left ear for a long time. In training, every time I wear the helmet of the steel framed snowmobile, it hurts like a tear.
Zhang Mohan, who accompanied me to the hospital for an examination, clearly knew the harm she caused me. If it was not me, but Zhang Mohan, she would have called the police.
I still have a good face...
And all this, I tolerate it, and still maintain her public image. Take care of her and swallow everything into your stomach.
Two
After reading the above, many people think that I am talking nonsense, and I have described Zhang Mohan, who is in front of his head, as an unreasonable "lunatic".
I don't know what your life experience is, but I did meet such a wife.
She dares to take any radical actions in order to gain the upper hand in life and establish her own right to speak in the family.
The usual process is to argue first, then chase me. When I ran away and couldn't beat me, she harmed herself.
I don’t know what hysteria is like. You have seen a couple talking in the car, but they just stopped in the middle of the road. Shun Climbing to the top of the car with the hood, yelling at the people on the side of the road, just to embarrass your husband’s wife?
Zhang Mohan did just that.
see youMy husband escaped and ran to school to avoid quarreling; in the end, he chased the school reluctantly, with a big belly, climbing the two-meter-high barbed wire fence of the school, threatening her husband that if the miscarriage is caused by you-such a wife ?
Zhang Mohan did just that.
So I can only get frightened again and again. In order to save my face and the child, I followed her anger and apologized to her, saying "Okay, I listen to you, I was wrong." Then, in accordance with her request, write her an inspection and ask her to leave all kinds of "evidence" that can further control me. There are too many things like
, I can't remember them all, and I can't write them here.
She frequently reports to the police and finds various channels to report to me. Even once I was recording an online class in the office alone without wearing a mask, she immediately called the police and reported. It is a crime to say that I did not wear a mask. I should be arrested and expelled.
I urge those of you who have read this text and have common sense to think about it. As an athlete with a height of nearly 1.9 meters, what would be the consequences of domestic violence against her with this physical fitness?
If I took the initiative to reach out, she would have fractured and lay on the ground. In fact, every time there is a quarrel at home, she is the first to do it; I am the frightened bird who is overwhelmed, retreats, and wants to escape.
I want to go out and hide quietly, avoid her unreasonable troubles and irregular hysteria. But she pulled me, dragged me, not letting me go; scratched me with her nails, and threw me whatever she could get.
I endure the anger, have to prevent her from hurting me, and have to prevent her from hurting herself.
Among the various pictures shown by Ms. Zhang Mohan, there was a bruise on her leg, which was the result of a bickering between us.
At that time, the two of us said something wrong, I turned my head and didn't want to go back and went to the bathroom to take a shower. Zhang Mohan chased to the bathroom, facing me, who was covered with bath foam, directly gave me a crotch and knees. I subconsciously used the hand shower to protect the crotch, which caused this mark on her leg.
Zhang Mohan ran back to the kitchen.
Given past experience, I know she is looking for a kitchen knife again. I also had to rush into the room naked and wrap my right hand and arm with a piece of clothing to prepare for defense.
turned around and Zhang Mohan opened the bedroom door with a single blow.
I'm really not afraid of everyone's jokes. One small fight in three days and one big fight on five days have become the norm in my family. After she couldn't cut me, she raised the knife in a self-harm gesture, and I had to persuade her.
Zhang Mohan has a strong desire to control me. She has to review my mobile phone, itinerary, social networking, consumption records, WeChat chat history, and friends who likes me at any time.
The "house rule" of our house is that she can look at my mobile phone at any time.
She doesn't allow me to go against her wishes, otherwise she will embarrass me with all sorts of strange tricks, some of which are simply incredible.
Zhang Mohan likes to win, and she must win, even paranoidly.
Faced with me, she did everything possible to make me kneel down, flattened, and yielded; she wanted me to believe that my IQ, quality, personality, and three views were lower than her; she wanted me to be her tool of tame.
In her published article, she slandered me and said, "Athletes have high male hormones, so they want to hit people." As a professional athlete, how can I humiliate myself by saying this?
This is precisely the core content of her constantly brainwashing me.
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In the past two years, I have spent the past two years in such an extraordinary state of mind. I have personally experienced an unprecedented plot of terrible blood. Onlookers find it incredible. As a teacher of the people and a party concerned, I have to pretend to be laughed in front of people and suffer from the pain behind them.
Under such extraordinary mental pressure, I am really a bit stupid, because I have never seen such a woman before. She can be as sweet as oil on the front feet, but because of a discord, she will directly pour hot oil on you.
In August 2018, we officially announced our relationship. People in the circle would often give me talks about her disgraceful past between married and unmarried men in the circle, reminding me not to be a "catcher".
She explained to me that others had harmed her before, and I was her true love. I believe her because I think those are Zhang Mohan's past.
For this reason, I alienated many friends.
I understand that it was not easy for her to survive in a competitive environment in the past.
In life, Zhang Mohan pursues a vanity life and likes to show off his high class. Every time after the quarrel, I transferred her money and swiped her card to get a peaceful day.
But after all, I am just a family of physical education teachers, not the rich and powerful Zhang Mohan imagined and cannot stand her squandering.
In July of this year, I stopped transferring money to Zhang Mohan, and also took back the credit card I placed with her. She immediately regained her tenderness to me, so good that it disturbed me.
And the biggest nightmare, also began from this.
On July 17, when I got up early in the morning, I found Zhang Mohan and the baby had disappeared from the nursery. There is only one pillow under the bedding on the bed. So I hurriedly called her and my mother-in-law, but received no response. The
community surveillance video showed that Zhang Mohan held a box at 4 o'clock in the morning, avoided the elevator monitoring, and walked down the fire exit to the garage to leave.
I immediately called the police to look for them.
At that time, the new epidemic had not yet ended, and my 10-month-old daughter and mother were missing and madden me.
Zhang Mohan did not answer the police call until the evening, but refused to reveal where she and the child were, saying that it was her privacy. Later I learned that she and her child had arrived in Harbin. It was the nanny who had been fired to help her take the child away.
In the days that followed, Zhang Mohan repeatedly showed her life as an exquisite lady in Beijing, drinking big wine, celebrating birthdays, and doing hair and beauty on Weibo and Moments.
My mother-in-law has not retired yet, and she has to go to work normally. So Zhang Mohan threw the child to the care of a nanny in Harbin, showing a mother's "sense of responsibility".
Zhang Mohan knows me too well, knowing that children are my biggest weakness.
I asked her to bring her child back to Beijing many times, but she resolutely refused, even completely ignoring that the child still had a vaccine to be given. When she left, she did not even take the birth certificate and vaccine booklet and other necessities for the child.
I have insomnia all night, and I can't imagine whether my daughter is in Harbin and my parents are not around. Will it be dangerous? What should I do if I am sick or injured?
Many people have persuaded me, "Forget it, just throw the child in Harbin, you just save your worry", "They are not good, you will definitely suffer", "You are busy with you, just wait, they just take the child Be a bargaining chip", "this kind of routine is quite common, don't be sad".
But I can't do it. Children are my life and everything. The child will soon be one year old and must go back to Beijing to get a vaccine.
In the slander against me, Ms. Zhang Mohan said that I cheated. Let me ask, if she took her daughter away, and I was an irresponsible man, wouldn't this kind of thing be just what one wanted, and I would be free to find my own life.
And all this is a lie. I didn't have any affair at all, so I fell into the trap of threatening me with her child.
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On August 24, I arrived in Harbin. I know the law will support me. I am the father of my daughter. As long as I can hold my daughter in my hands, I can protect her.
During the whole process, my hands only stretched out to my daughter and only touched my daughter. We didn't hurt anyone. My daughter
has no strangeness to me, she knows me completely, as if we have never separated, and I burst into tears with excitement.
As the child's father, I lived a humble life, and my heart was full of deep humiliation. God pity me, my little angel returned to me more than a month after we were separated.
My mother-in-law insisted on falsely accusing me of beating her, went to the Gongle Police Station in Daoli District, Harbin, crying, threatening to jump off the building and demanding that I be detained.
even made a special video to perform a so-called on-site restoration to create public opinion. But their videos just proved the absurdity of their lies.
According to the mother-in-law's explanation, in the narrow entrance hallway, a person like me who is nearly 1.9 meters tall was held by her lying on the ground, and she was able to "turn back and punch, and hit him on the stomach." On the right eye of the person"? This is totally unreasonable.
According to the mother-in-law’s explanation, she experienced “being knocked down from behind, kicked, punched; staggered to stand up, knocked down by a number of punches; dragged for several meters, and then knocked down and unable to move; The long process of people leaving.
But in fact, according to the video they released, it took only 27 seconds from entering the house to holding my daughter until I came out. How can I create so many dramatic scenes?
I can use my life as a guarantee, we didn't beat anyone, she was lying! She is making a false accusation!
I am the child's biological father and her only guardian in Harbin. When my wife was pursuing her own enjoyment in Beijing, I took my own children and took care of her personally.
is sympathetic! reasonable! legitimate!
From that day on, Zhang Mohan and my mother-in-law played their usual tricks and took a multi-pronged approach to clean up me.
Except for the mother-in-law who went to the police station to check in, taking the path of "who makes trouble, who is justified"; Zhang Mohan reported everywhere, put pressure on my unit, and threatened me and my parents.
Zhang Mohan also sent threats to my friends, and at the same time slandered my personality; in the community mother group, deceive the kind people who don't know the truth into the water.
Zhang Mohan's public opinion offensive is unstoppable. Clear and powerful expression, exquisite shooting techniques, well-lit interview editing, well-organized concealment of truth and falsehood, and just right tears, set off her strong personality.
Before that, Zhang Mohan praised me when he saw people, praised me as a "good father + model husband" on Weibo, and now he pours dirty water on me in tears. The methods are breathtaking.
The level of sewage is almost a dictionary.
Many people remind me: Zhang Mohan has such a pusher resource around him. As my wife, when I get better, she increases her popularity; when I break, she increases her popularity.
So you see, she raised the banner of feminism and anti-domestic violence, and portrayed herself as an idol of contemporary family persecution.
As the host, Zhang Mohan is very eloquent, and understands Internet communication, knows how to shoot videos, and know how to perform. I seem to be caught in a net that is tightening and suffocating.
daughter is my only source of strength.
Zhang Mohan is a child who grew up in a single-parent family, and she is actually unfortunate; and our daughter’s native family is also very bad.
No matter what, I hope that we can calmly solve our problems and give my daughter a quiet, undisturbed childhood that both parents love her normally.
Thank you for reading my statement.
(Editor in charge: Hu Mengyao_NK5655)
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