A good drama that I almost missed because of the title, "A Story of Raising a Vulgar Girl", Douban 9.1 maxed out the ratings record

This year's Taiwanese drama can be said to be an explosive blowout. In the first half of the year, there will be "The Distance Between Us and Evil", and in the second half of the year, there will be Netflix's first original Chinese drama "Sin Dreamer", and during the broadcast "Lingyi Street No. 11", "Sin Eater" and others have a good reputation, and people simply can't catch up. Unexpectedly, in the bleak approaching golden autumn, accidentally harvested another 40-year-old vulgar girl.

"A Story of Raising a Vulgar Girl"

A self-produced drama produced by Taiwan China Television, whose premiere ratings directly surpassed the hit Taiwanese drama "The Distance Between Us and Evil" in March. Not only that, it also created China Television’s self-produced drama for 13 years The best viewing record.

and Douban got a score of 9.1, which also shows how much the audience likes the show.

heroine Xie Yingxuan, a new actress. Last year, he defeated Zhou Xun, Zeng Mei Huizi and others with "Who fell in love with him first" and won the Best Actress in the 20th Taipei Film Festival and the Best Actress in the 55th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards.

"My name is Carina Chen, a Tainan daughter who lives in Taipei but is never a Taipei native. The best thing in her life is to close her eyes when taking pictures." At the beginning of the story of

, Carina Chen introduced herself with this opening remark.

Carina Chen was born and raised in Tainan, and went to Taipei for nearly 20 years. She is 39 years old this year, she is an out-and-out older "vulgar woman". She was neither born of a rich family, nor did she have a beautiful face.

and now she is an assistant to the chairman of a company. Although it sounds very advanced, in fact it is to follow the boss all the time to help him clean up the mess.

In order to survive, she did things that violated principles, such as helping her boss to cover up her extramarital affairs. She endured the picky supervision of her mother-in-law. She didn't dare to conceive and give birth easily. She has a boyfriend who has been in love for four years and lived together for three years. Half, they are now more like roommates living together than their loving lovers.

She tried her best to be a good employee, a good girlfriend, and a good person, but she couldn’t get rid of her doubts: "Why do I feel more and more tired and heavier?" There is no particularly praiseworthy achievement. The boyfriends around me have been dating for four or five years and have no further plans. The whole person reveals an awkward atmosphere.

However, she is a portrayal of our personal reality, not exaggerated, not magnified, unavoidable, and nothing special to remember.

So at this moment she realized: She, who is 39 years old this year, seems to have nothing. Carina Chen, who had been trying to force herself all the time, finally got a good shot at the crossroads of her life.

So, after quitting the job and breaking up the hands, the free-spirited Chen Jialing started the "self-inflicted-lost-collapse" life model.

The most commendable thing about "The Cultivation of a Vulgar Girl" is that it has two intersecting timelines. Here, the 39-year-old Chen Jialing is standing at the fork in her life and hesitating, while little Carina is worrying again. Growing up carefree day by day. The two lines

are intertwined in parallel in the play, inheriting each other, and fully depicting the gradual integration of the heroine's past and present life. The editing is natural, skillful, and the use of age elements is appropriate, without a sense of stacking.

Many people's lives have gradually become unrecognizable in the so-called "going to the big city to live a good life" so-called people's journey of struggle; and Chen Jialing dared to roll back and be a "loser".

She went back to her hometown and wandered. After meeting some people and doing some things, she finally figured out what kind of life suits her. She didn’t have to feel defeated when she returned to her hometown and settled down. When she reached her forties, there was no need to use others. To limit their own arrangements.

40-year-old Chen Jialing was embarrassed at the wedding of her ex-boyfriend. She broke up with her fiance who had been in talks for more than four years. She rejected her young handsome man, Duo Jin, who liked her, and quit her job she had always complained about. 4The 0-year-old Chen Jialing is very brave, and life always has her own way out, and Chen Jialing finally found her own way at the age of 40. It takes a long time and there is always a chance to come again.

After the play ended, Chen Jialing in Taipei was pushed by the interviewer's question "What do you think is happiness?", and cut off the glitz of Taipei and the first half of her life. Her slightly nervous laugh also conveyed a little bravery to Chen Jialing in Shanghai.

In a moment of life, how a girl should live is the standard answer. This drama does not tell us. When you enter a certain stage of life, you can forgive yourself that is not good enough, you can shake hands with yourself who is unsatisfactory in your work and love life, and you can also accept your own ordinary and ordinary.

Dear Carina Chen, since when have you forgotten, a lifetime is actually very long, until you can fall and stand up again, dreaming and waking up again; since when have you forgotten, forgetting that this lifetime is actually very short, Too short that you have no time to force yourself, no time to hate yourself. Dear Carina Chen, from now on, from here, don’t forget. The real fact of

is that you are not so good and not so bad. As long as we advance step by step, everything will become better, regardless of the shit social standards. The fearless me is the best me.