"Thirty Only" has made many people understand the truest truth in marriage.
Qian Zhongshu once said this sentence: "Marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city want to go in, people in the city want to come out."
Now think about it carefully, this sentence is not wrong, when we see When Gu Jia was cheated, we were extremely angry. Perhaps in real life, there are many women who are like Gu’s family. They continue to pay for their families, children, and husbands, but in the end they are still being treated by the other side. Dislike it. Marriage like
is actually the saddest thing for us women, but it is precisely because Gu Jia was derailed that we really understand it.
In a marriage, men want femininity, not mommy.
Not long ago, a friend of mine just went through the divorce procedures with her husband. After the divorce, when she was having dinner with us, she said something that I can hardly forget.
She said, I have been married to him for so many years, until the divorce, I found out that he is not inseparable from me, he can not be separated from his life.
I should have discovered long ago that what he loves is not me, but my care for his life.
Indeed, my friend and her husband have been married for more than 20 years. From the day of marriage, she has taken care of the house in good order. Every time her husband comes home, she will prepare meals for him, no matter how late.
Every time before going to work, she also prepares everything for her husband in advance. Others say they envy her husband to find such a good wife, but every time she faces praise from others, her husband always Without saying a word.
They have been together for more than 20 years, and their children are now in college.
This has made her life somewhat relaxed, but in the past 20 years of marriage, her husband has not asked about family matters except for work.
She understands her husband very well, so she is willing to bear it silently behind her back. She originally thought that everything he did could be exchanged for her husband’s understanding and distress, but she did not know that everything he did in the end touched only herself.
In the end, the husband still chose to betray.
She said that after watching the TV series, "Thirty Only", she really understood that in real life, there really are women like Gu Jia.
She said that after seeing Gu's family, she thought of herself.
The reason why she chose to divorce was also because she didn't want to continue to make mistakes in this marriage.
In real life, there are not a few men like Xu Huanshan, eating from the bowl and watching the pot. It is extremely difficult for men like
to be satisfied, but as women, we should also understand that children who are too sensible do not have sugar to eat. In real life, there are many green teas like Lin Youyou.
Then why do men choose to cheat because of such a woman in the end? Because children who can cry have sugar to eat, in family life, men actually want women not strong, but gentle.
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Coquettish women are the best
Napoleon once said this sentence: "Why women who do not want to conquer men are not good women in real life?
In fact, the answer is very simple, because they know how to use the weakness of men.
man is a signThe obsessive is very strong, and they also need more presence when facing women, and such women can often stimulate their desire for protection.
Therefore, in front of men, women must learn to act like a baby, and you can be your own heroine, but in front of men, you must learn to show weakness. Only in this way, men will love you more and even cannot do without you.
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Femininity is a passport
Why some women can make men fall in love, the most fundamental reason is also because of their tenderness.
A woman is like water, she should overcome her strength with softness at all times.
When we are facing a man, what we should do most is to radiate our femininity. If you are like a man in front of a man all day, how can a man love you? The femininity of
is also a passport for a woman. Only such a woman will make a man fall in love with it.
In real life, there may be many strong women like Gu Jia. In career and family, they can take care of everything, and such a woman will also make men afraid, because in front of such a woman, a man has nothing. There is no sense of existence, Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan are together, and everything helped him take care of only one day, so he was given the opportunity to derail.
In front of Lin You with such green tea, Xu Huanshan can find his own sense of existence. Such a man is not worthy of having love, but his derailment also gives us a great reminder, that is, in a period of time In relationships, a man wants femininity instead of motherly.
In front of a man, don't be too strong, and don't be too sensible. Only when you know how to rely on him, your life will become happier.
Being a woman who is soft on the outside and strong on the inside will make men love you more.
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