Ten years of burns, hot search on Selina’s father’s letter: I saw 5 truths from it

Selina Dad wrote her letter

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when she got up early in the morning to read the hot search on Weibo, and she was brought to tears by a letter. The letter

came from Ren Jiaxuan Selina's sharing, and the person who wrote to her was her father.

Selina said that every year on this day, she would receive a long text message from her father, because on October 22nd, she experienced burns, and her life changed at a turning point that is unforgettable and helpless. But ten years have passed, and now that she mentions the past again, it is calm and graceful. While feeling the present, she is grateful for everything is well. This day of

is also true for her father. It is very unforgettable and difficult, and everything in the past can be vividly remembered.

So every time it comes to this day, the father of will write a long letter to his daughter: first encourages his daughter to move on; second, he does not forget the pain and is more grateful for those who help in difficulties People who have lived by themselves.

Selina called this day "365 days a year, the coolest day" and said that her dad is also a cool dad. She and her father have a good mentality, the suffering has passed, and now they talk about suffering as a kind of temper, and use "cool" to summarize everything they have suffered. used to be really difficult, so painful, but fortunately, after coming over, can cool ?

I feel a kind of strength from Selina and Ren Dad. It is a living and positive force. No matter what they experience, they are brave to face and fight against everything with their hearts. Their family has never abandoned each other and let us see To the best family love, and the best interpretation of life.

burned for ten years, the letter Selina's father wrote to her made people cry. I carefully read the letter written by Dad Ren, and I saw 5 truths from Dad Ren's letter. I hope these 5 are about life. The truth of love and love can really inspire some people.

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First: Sudden misfortune is meaningless, only calmly pray to God, solve the problem

Ren Dad said, everyone has a story in their life, and everyone’s story is full of life.

We people can't predict when and in what way an accident will come. You don't even know why it will come to your head, but can only call it an accident. When the accident comes, everything is very plain, just like making a big joke for you.

Ten years ago, on October 22, when Dad Ren was told that Xuan Xuan was in danger, he subconsciously asked, "Is there a life-threatening hazard?" He immediately numbed his head to the soles of his feet as soon as he knew it was. But can you panic? No, only let yourself calm down, and then keep praying to God. This is a kind of belief in people's hearts. You don't know if it is useful. All you can do is pray. After

arrived at the hospital, Dad Ren did not blame the crew, because Dad Ren knew that "things have happened, and there is no point in blaming what has happened." Is it possible that the blame will be enough and the daughter will be fine? No, my daughter's pain will not be reduced or less. Only calmly face everything and solve problems one by one.

You have no choice, you can only accept and pray, and no amount of complaints seem pale.

Ren's father is really a person who has experienced big winds and waves, and he is also very educated. He gave his daughter the strongest support at the critical moment. You can’t be messed up, let alone blame, you can only be calm and calm. You have to be able to handle it, because your daughter is still suffering all the suffering, even life and death are unknown.

Second: Azhong is very affectionate and righteous. The Ren family is still grateful to him now when he mentions it

I still remember that on March 4, 2016, when Ren Jiaxuan announced his divorce from Zhang Chengzhong on the social platform, a lot of the truth was unknown People are scolding Zhang Chengzhong for being ruthless and unjust. But in fact, without experiencing what others have experienced, how do you know that he is ruthless and righteous. Ren Jiaxuan has no complaints about the divorce, which shows that she is really grateful for what Azhong has done for her.

Dad Ren said in the letter, “He calmly told Azhong during the first night in Shanghai, although you have already bookedMarriage, I think Xuan Xuan is now completely different. It is no longer the original Xuan Xuan. Let’s dissolve the marriage contract.” Dad Ren can accept the dissolution of the marriage contract, and he does not want to cause trouble to Azhong, but Azhong will not leave, he is affectionate and righteous. .

54% of severe burns, no one can imagine what will happen? Will there be disability, or how much can be recovered? Is there any possibility of surviving? Is it possible to return to the appearance of the past?

Everything is unknown, In such a situation, if the guilty man had already left, but Azhong did not.

Azhong still devoted himself to taking care of him day and night, and gave Dad Ren and Selina the best comfort at the critical moment. The fiance can do this already It’s not bad. If Ah Zhong abandons Selina at that time, I really can’t think whether Selina can make it through.

And regarding Selina’s treatment, Ah Zhong also helped, and tried his best to help through friends. Selina was seriously ill. At the time, Ah-Zhong accompanied their family and experienced a lot. For these, the most for Dad is gratitude and gratitude.

Third: The pain in the past is beyond words, only one family will never leave

I often think about it, Selina After experiencing such severe burns, what supported her to survive? It is love, the greatest love from her native family. Selina is very happy because she has parents who love her. Such a loving native family is loved A tolerant little princess can survive even suffering.

Because the power of love can make you full of courage and courage to fight against everything.

Seeing Selina on the bed is very painful, and Dad has no choice but to do it many times. I can only pray while crying secretly. Crying and sadness, but these can't solve any problems. The burn ward is very painful, because you always hear all kinds of miserable calls. Ren Dad can only let you I am strong in my heart and dare not let my relatives and friends come to visit, because I am afraid of causing some psychological harm to them. All the pressure of

is carried by my dad, and then he constantly gives Selina strength and shares some of the sufferings she has experienced People’s story made her carry on with perseverance.

likes Ren’s father’s philosophy of life: dare not ask God to give me a smooth life, I hope God will give me perseverance to face life.

This is a kind of fearlessness and life The fearlessness of

is also the fearlessness of suffering.

is painful, very painful; crying, crying, but after experiencing these, the road to the future must rely on strong perseverance. The pain of

is beyond words, but it is sustained If you go down, your family will never leave you, your family will never abandon you, you will also hold on to the strength of hope and love, and you will support it with your own perseverance. Dad Ren is cool, and Selina is really good, and their family is very cool. .

Fourth: To be a grateful person, the more you experience suffering , The more grateful that Ren's father is a very educated old man.

He told that one night in a dark parking lot, he ran into an old woman with her hands folded and blessed him and his daughter. At that moment, Dad Ren was also grateful. Blessing is an invisible power, and you don’t know whether blessing is useful, but blessing is the simplest kind of goodwill between people.

came along this path, Dad Ren thanked the doctor, thanked Azhong, thanked everyone who had helped Selina, and thanked Selina's fans. The more you experience suffering, the more grateful you are for being alive, and the more grateful you are for everything you have.

When you become a grateful person, you will be full of positive energy, and your life will be positive.

Fifth: Stay through, hold on, and you will do what you can.

Now ten years have passed. Selina has done it for running, climbing, and swimming. I thought Selina would not be able to survive, but with the support of her family's love, she was challenging herself step by step. You see, how powerful a person who has love can be who enjoys love. Although she has experienced the hardships in the world, she can still feel love.

Selina is a person who is wrapped in love, a person who is loved and spoiled, such a person will not be pessimistic, even if there is occasional sadness, there will still be encouragement from those around him. What is the truth we can see from it? If there is love, you won’t be afraid of pain, depression, and frustration, because there arePeople love you.

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I read the letter Selina's father wrote to her, and wrote so many truths about life and love. What do I want to tell everyone? Don't question the meaning of your life at will. Every one of us has meaning in this world. No matter what we have experienced and how difficult life is, please let yourself live with love.

Love can be really powerful. It will make you a strong person. You will find that the loving people around you have a positive life, and you can see from them. To enthusiasm, to see hope, to see a positive energy.

2020, it’s really difficult. We have also heard all kinds of news about everyone who jumped off the building because of depression, committed suicide, and didn’t want to live anymore. But in fact, in comparison, what is your experience compared to what Selina once endured. Only when you are in it will you feel that you have no way out.

is not necessarily so, it can survive.

I also want to give some advice and suggestions to my family: treats your children more kindly, love is very important, and the support and love from your family will always warm them the most.

This article is very long and it took me a long time, but I really hope that what I write can inspire some people. Because the letter written by Selina's father inspired me, and I also hope that through my own interpretation, more people can feel some power. Live well, live lovingly, this is the meaning of our life.

Life is hard, but how you live your life depends on you.

bless Selina, and bless those who have experienced suffering like her, and hope you all are well.

Today’s topic: What do you think can support you when you are experiencing suffering? Welcome to leave a message.

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★ Author: YIBAO; emotion original author, wrote this world warm feelings matter.