Introduction: is a utilitarian trend today. How to define success and failure? Many people have given a very one-sided definition. From this perspective, Wu Kequn is undoubtedly a failure. In love, I missed He Chaolian, the daughter of gambling king . In his career, he failed to surpass Jay Chou as he said. They are full of so-called "failures", but does a person's life have to be defined by certain settings? Tianhe knows that.
He Chaolian loves Wu Kequn very much, and can give everything, but sometimes, too heavy love can really bind people, especially Wu Kequn who has strong self-esteem. The family background of
is too disparity, so Wu Kequn always hopes that in this relationship, he wants to prove something. In fact, many people feel that this is not a very difficult question to choose. With He Chaolian, success is at least within easy reach, and at least being able to marry He Chaolian itself is a kind of success.
But obviously this kind of success was not what Wu Kequn wanted. For a time, he did not have a strong desire for marriage, but he did not deny that he and He Chaolian fell in love with each other. Two young people, regardless of their family background, are actually very simple little girls, pure affection for a talented idol.
He Chaolian is not a very snobby woman, at least in love, she can afford to take it easy, but she still vaguely feels that she is not the person the other party wants.
In love, it is difficult for us to define right and wrong. Sometimes it is not you who paid, and there must be a return. In the eyes of outsiders, this perfect relationship may be another scene for the person involved.
The two separated after 4 years. He Chaolian was not as stubborn as everyone thought, and she did not conceal her dissatisfaction with this relationship. Maybe she has given her sincerely. For her, there is no regret. This relationship of
may be good for Wu Kequn, but to a greater extent, it is a kind of relief, too much attention, and sometimes it is a kind of harm to love.
once stated that he surpassed Jay Chou within five years, and what he gained after that is more hurt in the eyes of outsiders.
I don’t know when it started, Wu Kequn was no longer popular, and disappeared, even if he was popular, and it was very popular.
transformed from a singer to a movie. He wanted to change himself and show his diversified talents, but in the end he lost hundreds of millions of dollars, but this is not the most important thing for Wu Kequn, because the "film dream" did not even let him. The last side when I saw my mother conscious.
Wu Kequn: "My dream is not that important. You can stop it. But at the time I thought my mother would be better. Then she left. That was the first time I found out that there was something that I couldn't catch."
Slightly hurtful and even sad experiences, Wu Kequn's whole concept has undergone a great change, and that rant that surpassed Jay Chou now seems to be of little importance to Wu Kequn.
is alive, why must we succeed? Sometimes some life experiences and some insights about life are our biggest gains. External success is done to others, and the gains in life are truly one's own. Which one is more important varies from person to person.
Wu Kequn now has an orderly life, and his career progresses more smoothly. As for love, he also has a very stable relationship.
For Wu Kequn’s current girlfriend, Chen Yu’an, she doesn’t have the feeling of pressure in the past. It is more of a kind of quiet companionship. Whether you are at peak or trough, this kind of waiting peace is sometimes for some men. In other words, it is the most attractive state.
Wu Kequn: "I have had a long relationship in the past, 6 years, 5 years, we are happy with each other, we may not go to the end, but those things will stay in my heart like a box, I will remember those A very cute moment, a great sentence or a characteristic of the other party, I think that moment is already very eternal."
Now Wu Kequn has no victory or defeat in his life. For him, he may have experienced and experienced.After experiencing it, he has created the best self for him now. For some people, this is like self-comfort after failure, but for others, it is a fruitful harvest.