Author: Shan Jia
had to attend a wedding, both parents speech. Among them, the bride's brother, on behalf of the parents, said: I hope my sister can inherit the traditional virtues of Chinese women, honor the elderly, care for brothers and feet, bear hardships and stand hard work, be kind and strong...
Hearing this, I immediately remembered the picture below. I wonder if you have any impression of the heroine above after you met?
all said that she is born from the heart and tells the truth. On her dignified and beautiful face, I do see kindness, loyalty, toughness, patience and restraint.
She is Huang Xuan. Today's heroine is not only the teaching assistant of Master Chen Yinke's painstaking retention, but also the patient whom Academician Zhong Nanshan sincerely respects.
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Huang Xuan was born in Nan'an, Fujian in 1910. Her father Huang Yi lives, yes, it's "living" not "zhu", it's very special.
But Huang's father's experience is even more legendary. He was a shaver in Nan'an. He trimmed the squire's hair once and hurt his eyebrows. The other party is unyielding and deceives others. Huang Yi had no choice but to take 36 silver dollars from the sale of his property, bid farewell to his parents, left his hometown, and set off in Nanyang.
, with his hard work and cleverness, as well as his good at seizing opportunities, Huang Yizhu's business grew more and more, and he eventually became one of the “four big sugar kings” in Indonesia.
In 1919, due to the wanton exploitation of the Dutch colonial government, Huang Yizhu resolutely decided to return to China for development.
The funds he brought back to China that year amounted to 22 million silver dollars. Take 36 yuan out and bring back 22 million yuan. Huang Yi lives this grassroots counterattack history, which is definitely a legendary inspirational blockbuster.
After returning to China, Huang Yi lived and settled in Gulangyu Island. He started to plan his business map based in Xiamen and set up industries such as industry and finance. Jiang) and others jointly initiated the establishment of China South Bank.
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didn't look at his person, first looked at his friend. From this, you can get a rough estimate of what Huang Yi lives in.
It is said that Huang Yi lived in Gulangyu and built more than 160 old villas. The most classic is "Huangjia Garden", which was called "China's First Villa". It is not an exaggeration to call him Huangdao Master.
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Huang Yi, who returned from Indonesia, lived in that year and took his mother and wife from Nan'an to Gulangyu for care. The 9-year-old daughter Huang Xuan came to Gulangyu with her mother and grandmother and happened to be studying in elementary school.
Huang Xuan’s mother is Huang Yizhu’s original partner Wang, 8 years younger than Huang. It is said that the child bride-in-law who had been sent to the wrong door had left behind. The allusions here can be unearthed. Wang's filial piety and virtuousness, diligence and good strength, have a profound impact on Huang Xuan.
's mother Wang always tells her daughter that she should do everything by herself instead of waiting. Therefore, in Huang Xuan, there is no sign of a rich girl.
Huang Yi lived in addition to the original match, there are also a few rooms and wives. And Huang Xuan is his only daughter. Because of his superior family background, Father Huang invited four tutors to teach Chinese, English, and music for his daughter who had studied in women's normal school. He was determined to train his daughter into a real lady.
Yan Yaoshu, a man in the late Qing Dynasty, had a profound influence on Huang Xuan. Looking at the background of this person, he also has a good background. He founded Zhiji School, the first modern elementary school in Dayang Township, Yongtai County, and served as the magistrate of Xinyu County, Jiangxi Province, the presiding judge of Jiangxi Local Judicial Office, and a member of the Provisional Advisory Bureau of Fujian Province. , Professor of Chinese at Xiamen University.
It is said that it was this old master who made Huang Xuan keenly interested in thread-bound books, and therefore gained a solid foundation in ancient Chinese.
The causal loom, eternally weaving the thread associated with you. The profound knowledge of ancient prose also laid the foundation for becoming the assistant teacher most recognized by the master Chen Yinke.Foreshadowing.
Gulangyu Huangjia Garden, Huang Xuan's teenage years, spent here
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There are hundreds of women in his family. Huang Yizhu is very open to her daughter's marriage and fully respects her daughter's own choice.
and Huang Xuan herself is very firm, must be a decent youth with knowledge and insight, never consider the young son of a wealthy family.
fate is destined, Zhou Shoukai, the son of Zhou Dianxun, Zhou Baoxiang, Xiamen, enters the Huang family's vision. After hearing about Young Master Zhou's school experience, Huang Xuan almost believed it was him.
Zhou Shoukai was admitted to Fuzhou Union University in 1925, and then transferred to Beijing Yanjing University the following year; he received a doctor of medicine from Peking Union Medical College in 1933 and became a well-known internal medicine expert at a very young age.
and Zhou Dianxun, the father of Zhou, had even more dazzling qualifications. In 1910, he entered the Beijing Conference Examination and passed the Dian Poetry Class A, and was the head of the Ministry of Authorities. Soon after he resigned and returned to Xiamen, he was the first library curator in Xiamen and the first Chinese principal of Tongwen Middle School.
Tongwen Middle School, are you familiar with it? It is also the alma mater of Zhong Shifan, the father of Academician Zhong Nanshan. It was from here that Zhong Shifan was admitted to the Beijing Concord.
Zhou's family background, as well as local reputation in Xiamen, Huang Yizhu appreciates it. It doesn't matter if I don't have money. I have money and I will marry the Zhou family. Father Huang is very willing.
But, on the day of rejoicing, the groom disappeared.
This makes Huangdao Lord, the famous Huang Caishen, what is the love? How can you face it?
At the wedding, the bridegroom did not show up, and the bride Huang Xuan suddenly became the focus. You can imagine the embarrassment of the Huang family, both in love and in scenery.
At this time, Huang Xuan showed awe-inspiring spirit and fearlessness. She sent a text message to Zhou Shoukai: Jun has no intentions, and I will no longer talk about marriage.
shows: You are ruthless, I am interested, I would like to keep this vacant room in this life and never marry forever.
To tell the truth, Zhou Shoukai is obviously doing something wrong. Since you don't like Miss Huang, why bother to sign a marriage contract with her.
must know that in that era, this would ruin the lady's name. Abandoned women, want to marry again, marry well, so easy?
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After receiving Huang Xuan's letter, Zhou Shoukai was deeply shocked. After much hesitation and entanglement, Zhou Shoukai finally married Huang Xuan in September 1935. Zhou Shoukai was 29 years old and Huang Xuan was 25 years old.
Actually, "finally" here is not appropriate enough. It seems that Zhou Shoukai was forced to marry. In fact, in terms of family history, talents, literacy, and appearance, why is Huang Xuan not outstanding?
According to Zhou Han (Zhou Han is the daughter of Huang Xuan and Zhou Shoukai), he later speculated that perhaps his father Zhou Shoukai felt that the wealth disparity between the rich and the poor had hurt his self-esteem and escaped? Perhaps among the talented girls in medical school, he already has his favorite figure?
No matter what, the important thing is that Huang Xuan married the man she likes. Regardless of the previous suspicions, the owner of Huangdao was overjoyed and went to Shanghai to get married in person. At the wedding of
, Huang Yizhu publicly invited his son-in-law to serve as deputy general manager of the China South Bank he founded.
has a wealthy father-in-law who can definitely fight for less than 20 years. Zhou Shoukai rejected the opportunity to be so jealous.
The next day, the couple went north together and began their common life.
Huang Xuan wins the marriage defense battle of his choice with her spirit of breaking the boat.
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During the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, Huang's family took refuge in Hong Kong, and Huang Xuan, who was with her child, also went there.
Zhou Shoukai at this time works in Guiyang Central Hospital. That's also Zhong Nanshan's father Zhong Shifan, where he is the dean.
Zhou Shoukai and Zhong Shifan, both of them are Xiamen fellows, but also the sameWenzhong alumni, plus all PhDs from Peking Union Medical College. Too many similarities, coupled with similar interests, both focused on medical research, and the two became best friends.
In order not to separate the family, Huang Xuan asked her husband to pick them up in Hong Kong.
Huang Yi urged his daughter: "You adults can stand it, but where can the children stand it? It's better to stay in Hong Kong." Huang Xuan was willing to listen, and he took the child with Zhou Shoukai to Guiyang, where conditions are bad.
In Guiyang, a city where people gather in Xiajiang, prices have soared, and it absolutely complied with the word "expensive". Later, when Huang Xuan talked to Chen Yinke and his wife about the ups and downs of the year, she still sighed and sighed.
Where did Zhou Shoukai think that the proud daughter of heaven, who was born in a rich family, did not smell of the rich second generation, and did not complain.
The peace of mind is home, and the treasure cover above the word "安" represents home; and there is a woman in the home to be safe. And Huang Xuan's hard-working nature played it to the fullest in a difficult situation, and also gave her husband infinite stability and peace. In Zhou Shoukai's heart,
saw the upgraded version of his wife Huang Xuan.
The only photo of Huang Xuan and Chen Yinke
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In 1950, Zhou Shoukai was hired by Lingnan University School of Medicine as the dean, and his family moved to Guangzhou.
is located in the southern suburbs of Guangzhou, Lingnan University, which is known as the Kangyuan Paradise, next to the billowing Pearl River. The school is lined with trees and well planned, dotted with dozens of European-style villas and teaching buildings with red walls and green tiles.
In the 1920s, the school invited American architects to make a unified plan for campus construction. So Kang Paradise has the style of an American university. Upon entering the campus, no one is impressed by the elegant and tranquil environment.
Zhong Nanshan's family also lives here. Zhou Shoukai and Zhong Shifan, his father Zhong Shifan, can be regarded as close friends, and the two have a lot of contacts.
was deeply taught by Mr. Zhou Shoukai when Zhong Nanshan was a teenager. Recalling Zhou Shoukai's Uncle Zhou, Zhong Nanshan said that he told me stories and taught me medical knowledge. I most remember his erudition, tolerance and patriotism. He is a respectable elder like a good friend and a role model for others. And teacher.
At Lingnan University, Zhou Shoukai, the head of the first hospital, has also seen a doctor for Chen Yinke and his wife. They have a good impression of each other.
self-help tutorial Xi left without saying goodbye, and his wife has always been Chen Yinke's assistant. It is really a dilemma to act as a housewife while also acting as an assistant teacher. It is inevitable to hire an assistant teacher. Although there are many candidates, there are not those who agree.
After the enthusiastic recommendation of Guan Songshan, the wife of Chen Guozhen, the professor of the same school, Huang Xuan, the wife of the dean, came to the home of master Chen Yinque in November 1951 to try as an assistant teacher.
People really have to talk about fate. Some people, just talk a few words, you can know if they are on the same channel as you. Talking with friends is not talking with friends.
At the sight of Chen Yinke, who was blind in both eyes, "seeing" each other, he determined that Huang Xuan was his suitable candidate. From the rich experience of the master, he has captured the "beauty of family learning" that he has always liked and tried hard to admire, so please enter immediately.
In this way, Huang Xuan started working with the master for 13 years.
It can be said that Chen Yinke chose Huang Xuan as an assistant teacher because of her introverted temperament and her character is the most important thing.
Zhou Shoukai once said that Chen Yinke's acceptance of Huang Xuan as an assistant without reservation was based on Huang Xuan's sincerity and faith, and he would never open up Chen Yinke's personal affairs casually.
knows his wife Moruofu, Huang Xuan chose Zhou Shoukai, she is indeed too discerning.
In the summer of 1954, Zhou Shoukai, who has been the deputy dean of the South China Medical College, wanted to move to the dormitory of Zhusi Village in the urban area. Zhusi Village is more than ten miles away from Sun Yat-Sen University. It takes two bus transfers and it takes at least 3 hours to go back and forth.Huang Xuan's commute suddenly became a big problem. Huang Xuan, who was 44 years old, made a request to Chen Yinke to resign as a teaching assistant.
was unexpected by Huang Xuan. Chen Yinke, who had always respected her opinion, disagreed with Huang Xuan’s resignation: "You have done a good job. You are going. It is not easy for me to find another suitable teaching assistant. Then I will Can't work anymore." It was just the sentence "Then I can't work anymore", which deeply moved Huang Xuan and made her withdraw her request to resign.
Since then, Huang Xuan's life has become very ordinary but also very extraordinary: every day at 7 o'clock in the morning, squeezed for two hours in the car back to Sun Yat-sen University in the southern suburbs, sitting in front of Chen Yinke at 9 o'clock and starting work; 1 o'clock noon After the work was over, I squeezed the car for another two hours and returned to my home in the city.
In 1955, Chen Yinke took advantage of the reprinting machine of the book "Yuanbai Poems and Notes" and pointed out in the appendix that the revision of the book relied on Huang Xuan's help. The name Huang Xuan was first known to academic circles.
During the long days when Huang Xuan went out early and returned late to work for Chen Yinke, Zhou Shoukai would go to the bus station to pick up his wife as long as he had time, and it was rain or shine again.
Once, Zhou Shoukai confessed to his wife very affectionately-if
chooses again among the many professors' wives, I will still choose you.
This can also be understood as Zhou Shoukai's self-blame and regret for his escape from marriage, and almost missed my love.
Yes, regardless of talent, cooperation with masters; or character, I have known each other for several years, and I have known each other deeply. Huang Xuan can afford such an evaluation.
However, the days of love are always short.
During the Cultural Revolution in 1970, Zhou Shoukai, an internal medicine expert with superb medical skills, was beaten to death and "dead" with appendicitis. Even Huang Xuan failed to see the last side, which is embarrassing!
In 1973, 63-year-old Huang Xuan retired from Sun Yat-sen University. In 1980, she moved back to her favorite Gulangyu Island, where she returned to her roots and quietly lived in the old villa left by her father.
In 2001, Huang Xuan was terminally ill and was admitted to the First Affiliated Hospital of Guangzhou Medical College and became a patient of Academician Zhong Nanshan.
The Zhong family and the Zhou family have known each other for many years. Uncle Zhou is a respected elder Zhong Nanshan. And Zhou Han was his childhood playmate. Now, the well-known aunt Zhou is sick again and deserves the most sincere care.
On May 8, 2001, Huang Xuan passed away peacefully.
At the memorial service of mother Huang Xuan, the daughter Zhou Han said like this-
Today, we are in this mother’s favorite flower bush, bidding farewell to her, and sending her a long journey-to my father who had been away for thirty-one years Go meet. ……Thanks to Academician Zhong Nanshan and the doctors and nurses of the Department of Cardiovascular Medicine and Respiratory Diseases of the First Affiliated Hospital of Guangzhou Medical College. It was their superb medical skills and meticulous care that saved her mother's life from the death line time and time again, so that she had enough time to enjoy the "big man" medical treatment and care during the last journey of her life; let her experience our whole family And all the relatives and friends love her and her irreplaceable important position in everyone's mind. At the same time, with this precious time, it is possible for us to carefully review the life path our mother has taken. ... The life of an ordinary woman is connected with the names of many career masters: Huang Yizhu's daughter, Zhou Shoukai's wife, Chen Yinke's assistant, Zhong Nanshan's patient... Maybe this is an accident? But it is more likely to be a necessity. This tells us that ordinary and great are not far away, as long as we behave seriously like mothers. ……