We often say that we hope that lovers in the world will eventually become married, but we forget that there is such a beautiful vision, precisely because it is too difficult to realize. Many men and women have gone through ups and downs and overcome difficulties from acquaintance to entering the marriage hall. They thought they were finally happy, but they did not expect to enter a new siege.
On the National Day in 2017, Su Yi and Zhao Yaoming tied the knot, and soon became a prospective father and mother. As the only child in the family, Su Yi wanted to return to her natal family for a childbirth, but she did not expect her to leave the family of three who should have been happy, and her happy life was in vain.
Su Yi said that since she returned to her natal family, her husband Zhao Yaoming changed his normal and never called to care about her. Even after the birth of the child, Zhao Yaoming never appeared, as if the world had evaporated, disappearing without a trace. Zhao Yaoming, who was a new father, is indifferent to his wife and daughter. Is there anything hidden behind this abnormality?
It is understood that when Su Yi lay on the operating table nine deaths, her husband was not accompanied; and his daughter was more than three months old, he never came to see him, not even a phone call.
When we accompanied Su Yi back to her husband's residence, we discovered that her husband had changed the door lock. Su Yi, who didn't have the key, was stopped outside by a cold iron gate. Afterwards, Su Yi dialed her husband's phone, and Zhao Yaoming told her: "I am in Zhangjiajie and there is no way to help you open the door. You contact my parents and mom and let them pass." This scene of
made Su Yi very embarrassed. The situation. And this call was the first time she took the initiative to contact her husband in eight months since she left home. Zhao Yaoming's indifferent attitude on the phone prevented her from having too much desire to talk. She could only hung up and contact Zhao's parents.
Soon, Su Yi’s in-laws met her at the door of the house and greeted us into the room. When we asked why the door lock was changed, they explained: "The original key was broken in the keyhole, and the daughter-in-law did not go home, so we had to change the lock without authorization." Faced with such a response, Su Yi was unwilling. Too much evaluation, just want to discuss various matters related to the child. At this time, the mother-in-law said that the birth of her grandson made the whole family very happy. She had also visited her husband, but her daughter-in-law was stubborn and avoided them. Not only that, the daughter-in-law's maiden brother took her and the child away with very tough means, and even the clothes were packed and taken away.
Through the intermittent quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we learned that before Su Yi returned to her family’s home, she did have an argument with her husband. But instead of dissuading them, the mother-in-law on the side fanned the flames and asked when they divorced. Su Yi couldn't swallow this breath, and simply carried the things back to her natal home, and was completely separated from her husband.
Her mother-in-law's fierce speech and her husband's refusal to show up made Su Yi's mood more and more excited. In the end, she went straight back to the bedroom and tidied up her clothes, seeming to want to completely disconnect from her mother-in-law. Seeing that Su Yi left the wedding room with large bags, Zhao's parents called their son who was far away in Zhangjiajie.
When we met Zhao Yaoming, he said that he had begged four times before his wife gave birth and hoped that his wife could go home with him and live a good life. But every time, Su Yi and her family's attitude was extremely bad, and they even uttered bad words to Zhao Yaoming's elders. In addition, he told us that Su Yi had been negative about this marriage three months before the marriage and felt that Zhao Yaoming was not the best choice. Because of this, he was also completely chilled and lost hope in this relationship. The
thing understands this, we understand the contradiction between Zhao Yaoming and Su Yi, but it is an emotional discord, and there is no economic dispute. From this case, it is not difficult to see how much the relationship model has on the quality of marriage. If Su Yi's attitude towards her husband was milder, maybe they would not be where they are now; if the husband could be more patient with the pregnant wife, maybe the situation would be more optimistic.
"As a husband and wife, love each other without doubt" is the initial wish of every coupleHope, but as the saying goes: young couples come to accompany each other. No matter which couple, they have to go through several decades of bumps and bumps before they can grow old hand in hand. There are no couples who do not quarrel, only men and women who can communicate. In daily life, as long as we learn to speak well and communicate peacefully, we will definitely be happy.
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