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is that Zhang Liangying forgot her words at the Dance Forest Conference, and then posted an apology twice.
Yes, netizens don't buy it.
On the afternoon of August 27th, Zhang Jianying’s rumored boyfriend Chen Qiushi couldn't help but post.
The article reveals the information that the two have been living together.
fans have blessed and lamented that everything is not easy.
Back then, after the divorce, Zhang Jingying once said in an interview that after losing love, she only left herself 3 minutes to grieve.
The host asked: "In the dying years, can you accept reputational scandals, but the night festival is not guaranteed?"
Zhang Jingying laughed at herself: "Didn’t I have swept the ground?" Those years of controlled life
Zhang Jingying rarely had negative news, and the biggest negative news came from the two most important and closest people in her life- ex-husband Feng Ke and mother.
Feng Ke's importance to her is self-evident.
, this man, is also a master and a father, a boyfriend and a manager.
Zhang Jianying's many career achievements, in addition to her talent and hard work, are also inseparable from Feng Ke's behind the scenes.
Zhang Liangying is dependent on Feng Ke; Feng Ke is nurturing to Zhang Liangying.
, as Luyu said: "He really believes and appreciates the talent of this girl."
He loves talent, not her.
In 2015, she "forced marriage" at a concert.
Feng Ke did not take the initiative, but did not refuse.
From the age of 19 to 34, Zhang Jingying has been entangled with the name Feng Ke for 15 years.
Feng Ke used to be unknown, but now he is a small well-known business agent.
There may be some inequality, maybe it is destined from the beginning.
Even though she has become famous later, but in this love, she can be called humble attitude.
broke the news that Feng Ke took Zhang Liangying's social circle so badly that the money was in his own hands. Zhang Liangying only had a credit card.
When the news of the divorce came out, Zhang Liangying had no fixed home and needed to stay at a friend's house...
was also revealed to transfer company shares and property privately.
concealed the fact of being married, so that Zhang Jianying carried the infamy of Xiaosan.
and his ex-wife divorced, but dragged on and did not want to marry Zhang Liangying.
In 2018, Zhang Liangying chose to terminate the contract of the company established with Feng Ke and left alone.
This also means that this love between her and Feng Ke has finally come to an end.
In fact, when Zhang Jianying wanted to join this marriage without hesitation, her mother had already opposed it.
When Zhang Liangying got married, Zhang’s mother published a document, claiming that her daughter had been brainwashed by Feng Ke and that Feng Ke had invaded most of her daughter’s property.
But all the people who read it have only one capital embarrassment, where is the tearing Uncle Feng, obviously it is tearing the daughter Zhang Jingying.
Just like Zhang Jianying said: " my mother is unique to my education, she has become a habit to make decisions for me. "
When the wedding was held, Zhang's mother did not attend, she did not bless, even I had already deducted my daughter's account book.
Zhang Liangying seemed to be trapped in a forced repetitive cycle, escaped from the control of her mother, and fell into the control of her husband.
Most girls who fly moth to fire in love have a childhood that is not paid attention to.
Zhang Jingying is like that.
Her parents divorced in the first grade of elementary school. She and her mother worked hard and the family situation was bleak. On the day when
was born, after his father knew that she was a girl, he asked: Did the child hold the wrong child?
Later, her parents divorced and she lives with her mother.
For the monthly alimony of 100 yuan, she often has to ride a bicycle all over the way to ask for it, but father doesn’t even know how old she is.
How much she hates her father, so much she yearns for his love.
For a girl who has lost her father's love since she was a child and has a precarious life, she is too longing for a man to rely on.
Mother has a strict desire to control, the more she controls, the more rebellious, so she eagerly flees.
is the most advanced ability in a woman's life,
If you meet a good man, you will save the match girl.
If you encounter a scumbag, you will be overwhelmed. Obviously Feng is not a beloved.
In Feng Ke's eyes, Zhang Jingying is just a cash cow.
At that time, there were also dog-blood stories of the two on the Internet. After getting married, Feng Ke finally understood this in a series of blatant operations by
.
where is love? But it is to complete the obsession in the heart, move and deceive oneself.
Zhang Jianying, who understood the truth, withdrew from this relationship and started the process of self-healing.
fluctuated in feelings, and many actresses turned their stories on their own.
Hong Kong female star Deng Cuiwen , who was also deceived by a scumbag when her career was booming, her reputation was discredited, and finally came back.
In 1996, I had a date with the male protagonist Jiang Hua.
The young Deng Cuiwen is not clear about the price she will pay for this love.
The paparazzi took photos of the two dating for dinner and traveling in the same car. They also exposed the news that they stayed overnight for 6 consecutive days.
Jiang Hua’s wife Mai Jiewen called her a "vixie".
and Jianghua wanted to protect himself, so he stood fastTeam wife, put the responsibility to Deng Cuiwen:
"I'm very passive, Deng Cuiwen wants to be active, I can't help it."
She became a slut that everyone screamed, her personality collapsed and her reputation was ruined.
was hidden by the company, entering the cold winter of life, the company urgently took back the script, stopped the announcement, and advertisers demanded compensation.
didn't have any drama to find her, she could only be a supporting role.
Until 2004, she starred in the harem drama "Golden Branch Desire", which became popular once again, with unprecedented pomp.
Then she returned domineeringly and won many major heroines.
The hardest thing to get out of in life is actually self-trapped.
and this comes from some kind of inherent defect.
After many years, Deng Cuiwen also began to examine the past.
She did a deep analysis of herself, and she saw the self who lacked love deeply.
her parents divorced since she was a child, she was fostered at her grandparents' house and she was never loved.
After the parents remarried, the mother even said to her:
"Don't call me mother, I already have another family, they don't know so many things about me."
helpless, deprived, and disturbed. Follow along, let her desperately fight the fire with moths for a little love.
What are the qualities of a woman who can turn her life back and forth constantly,
?
With these female stars, why not look back at our own destiny.
is a woman who is crazy about love, usually not in love with each other, but in love with the story of her own director.
Ma Dong and Cai Kangyong once talked about the topic of "forgiveness" in "Qihua Shuo".
Ma Dong said: "As time goes by, we will eventually forgive those who have hurt us."
Cai Kangyong said: " that is not forgiveness, that's forgiving.
There are so many rivers and lakes, why be obsessed with the right and wrong of the past.
We can grow up in the new world and reach a reconciliation with ourselves:
- 1, restore our lives as soon as possible, and maintain order.
Deng Cuiwen, who had suffered a love injury, turned on her firepower, honed her acting skills, and turned a bad hand into a king bomb.
because of her boyfriend's cheating, and the popular internet celebrity Ah Qin first exposed the truth on Weibo, and said that even if he hurts himself a thousand, he will be harmed by 800.
then packed things and left. Weibo has increased by 200w followers every day, and various advertising sponsors are gearing up for cooperation.
They all cried and couldn't bear it, but after they cried, they got up and revived.
Relying on the tolerance given by suffering, he takes his compulsion to the next level.
Continue the order of life, have one's own career, hobbies, where is there time to complain in love?
So remember these two premises:
First, rely on life to rebuild the sense of strength. The order of daily life has a magical healing power for people.
Secondly, cut the mess with a sharp knife, never to meet a better man, but to fulfill the best self.
- 2, find out the fear, start the growth mode.
"Talking to Strangers" has the theme of "Unspeakable Dink".
3 group chooses DINK and married guests, everyone has different degrees of childhood trauma.
Some people's father domestic violence mother, the mother domestic violence themselves.
Some people were torn from the bed by their mothers and ran away at three in the middle of the night.
After growing up, the emotional needs of the guests have been polarized.
either disregarded the wishes of the other half, desperately got married and had children, and did three test tubes.
either dislikes intimacy, but the need to love and be loved has become a burden. There is an unavoidable psychological truth about
:
childhood trauma, will settle into a person's subconscious, extremely hidden, but can affect the quality of a person's marriage.
We can make associations starting from the heart, and regard the original family as a mirror to see ourselves.
Find out the things we fear most, such as being degraded and abandoned.
is aware of the inner child to find the true focus.
- 3, return to the heart: distinguish want, necessary, and real need.
Why are so many people bothered by what they want in marriage?
First of all, many people have not seriously and independently thought about what they really want. Most of them come from the ideas instilled by their parents and relatives, and the mainstream thinking in society.
second is to understand the needs of marriage in black and white, either to fully benefit the marriage, or to fully emotionalize the impulse.
We can see a lot of elite women who, in terms of social status, have marriages that look happy, but they are extremely painful and cannot feel happiness.
This is because they put the problem-solving-oriented rational thinking on the choice of marriage partner and are bound by the template of the winner in life.
A woman who lacks the ability to feel emotions, the final choice made before marriage must be wrong.
When a woman has both the emotional level of perception and the rational level of problem-solving ability, she can obtain the happiness of marriage and the achievement of the workplace.
The so-called powerful is to come out of the heart of fear and see a more real world.
The so-called growth is to see the pain of the original family and choose to bravely break through.
Since no childhood can cure us, we must learn to heal ourselves.
Learn to let go sensibly, and learn to face the changes in life calmly.
Explore your own needs and determine your true needs.
If you love, you will devote yourself to it.
This is the most advanced ability in a woman's life.
It not only protects women's weakness, but also determines the second half of a woman's life.
has gone through hardships, and the sails have been exhausted, and when I look back, there is no wind, rain or sunshine.
Finally, I hope we can finally break through the darkness of the past years and meet a better self.
If you encounter any relationship or marriage problems during this process, remember to send me a private message, ask me questions, and I will help you.
@心之助卢悦, Founder of the Heart Assist Emotional Psychology Platform, Psychologist, Senior Media Person, 15-year Marriage and Emotion Expert; Specially Invited Psychological Expert on CCTV, Phoenix Satellite TV, and Beijing TV; Best-selling author, He is the author of "Love Is Toxic", "When Love Is Dead, Live Away", "Living is Like Playing a Game", "Reconstruction of Intimacy", all of which are available on all major platforms.
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