I used Douyin at home a few days ago, and I accidentally found a video about Angelababy's emotional topic. The creator of
said with emotion, saying that baby had been in love with William Chan and for five years before meeting the leader Huang.
Now the baby is married as a wife and becomes a mother, while the 34-year-old William Chan is still single and has no scandals.
's hot comment first is: "What is the difference between living together for 5 years and divorced women?"
I was really surprised.
The Qing Dynasty has been perished for more than a hundred years, and there are still feudal remnants in this show of IQ?
First, it is not a crime for both men and women to choose to live together after they have matured.
Second, divorce means that oneself pursues happiness again, shameless and pitiful.
But I don’t plan to be patient with this group of people today, because I know, no matter what you talk about, he is still that shit, living in a self-righteous patriarchal world.
I want to talk about another thing today.
Even if they scold me to the point that I'm so exhausted, I am willing to live with William Chan! It doesn't matter whether you break up or not. I have a good mentality, as long as I have had it. The most important point of
is that instead of growing up with a "primitive" boy, I am more willing to fall in love with an "old driver" who has experience in love. The taste of
is not too cool! ! !
01 ■
"First experience of kissing
-not sweet at all!"
When it comes to experience, I would like to say one of the most direct- kissing.
I still remember my first kiss. On the second day of the second year, two people were in KTV. He was stimulated by a close couple next to him and kissed directly without me responding.
In short-hard kiss.
is hard, no emotion, no skill, no intention, just to experience the feeling of kissing.
To be honest, I didn't feel it at all at the time. The first kiss was like eating the sweetest nang heart in ice watermelon.
I hate it!
later made a boyfriend in the third year of high school. After talking for a month, he kissed under an osmanthus tree in a remote corner of the school playground.
was the end of the second evening self-study get out of class. On the radio, Jay Chou’s "Rooftop" was shown. He walked with me around the playground, chatting about the teacher’s gossip, and then took my hand to the corner carefully, slowly Kissed it down.
Tension, anticipation, heartbeat, trust...In a moment, emotions are complex. The most important thing about
is that when kissing, he will gently rub my hair and rub my earlobes with his hands, so that my anxiety will gradually ease.
These details, people who have not experienced a few love trials, can't kill me, he can think about it.
Finally, Sabo Dog Food, this gentle flirt master, is still mine so far.
is no accident, we will be in the account book in two years.
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"Obviously a master of love,
never said that I love you"
I am currently a person with a high emotional intelligence and sweet talks.
just say a few words.
When tired- "needs a wife to hug to charge"
During the cold war-" you can't come, I will kiss you"
when cooking-" this food is not as good as a wife Eat "
when dating-" My eyes always want to prostitute beautiful women, but my heart only depends on my wife."
sometimesI wondered for a while, could he be the inventor of the local love story?
However, he is very restrained in caring for me, calm, and doesn't like to show off.
I went to learn to drive in another place and caught a cold. I was scolded by him on the phone the night I got home:
"I can't dress as an adult? Are you suffering now? I'm going through it myself!"
, He just waited in the most conspicuous place, the wind was blowing. When he saw me, he ran to stop me, rubbed my limbs, and said as he walked:
"I deliberately got off work early, and I burned the hot water when I went home, so I can wash it when I go back."
There is another birthday for me. It was twelve o'clock in the morning, and he didn't say a happy birthday, and there were no gifts. I sulked in bed and said he didn't take me seriously.
He just looked at me and smiled without explaining. It took ten minutes to say that there might be something in the cabinet.
I immediately jumped up, went through the cabinet barefoot, found a red gift box, and opened it to see that it was a small SK-ii bulb.
, you know, I just said inadvertently once when I was on Taobao: "It seems to be white."
But one thing is very strange, he rarely says "I love you."
, Pretending to be angry, he just doesn't say these three words.
Until one love anniversary, we had a candlelight dinner at home. I asked him why. He looked into my eyes and slowly said in the dimly lit room:
"If it changes, I will tell you."
03 ■
"Ex-girlfriend taught him to cherish
I just need to enjoy being loved"
My boyfriend, used to be a game madman. Where is
? In the words of his friend, as long as he is playing games, you can't contact his people. The game wins or loses too much.
But it's weird. After I was with him, I never saw him take the game like his life.
Before he played the game, he would take the initiative to tell me that even if I had something to do with him halfway, he would reply as soon as possible. We have never quarreled about the game.
His friend told me, because that's how he and his last girlfriend had a fight.
clearly said that in the afternoon he would go to find his ex-girlfriend and go shopping with her. As a result, the game lost his red eye, and he forgot about it. The girlfriend was so depressed in the bedroom. The number of times
has increased, no matter how sincere he apologized, his ex-girlfriend is still determined to break up.
tells the truth, after hearing this, I am not sour at all, but rather grateful, and even thank his ex-girlfriend.
With a heartbroken heart, she taught the boy how to treat the person she likes by leaving, and I directly enjoyed the result-being loved.
I talk about this relationship easily. My boyfriend doesn't need me to try my best to train. I learned respect and love early in my last relationship.
A relationship full of tolerance and understanding must go longer than a self-centered relationship.
Even though we regretted to separate in the end, at least, there are more sweet memories than sadness.
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"The tacit point is that
is our unique tacit understanding"
When did I feel that my boyfriend is experienced and eager to survive? That is when quarreling.
Our personalities are very different. I am noisy, direct, and angry. He is rational, steady and does not look for trouble.
Sometimes we have a disagreement on a topic, and he would not just throw the door and leave, or show me a face.
he would ask me first, why do you think ? What is your proof of view?
After hearing my statement, he began to talk about his ideas and his basis. The most important thing is that every time he speaks, he will say one sentence-"I understand your starting point, but X".
He didn't let me unconditionally because I was a girlfriend, and regarded me as an "ignorant girl" who only needed blind pets.
also didn't have patience, said that the woman had no brains, said that I was unreasonable, and then gave up the discussion with self-righteousness.
In fact, every time an argument ends, you basically insist on you. I agree with me, but we have at least listened to each other's most true thoughts and further understand each other's habits.
We all recognize one thing: everyone at is independent, and opinions are used for communication, not for persuasion.
has a saying that when the argument is irreconcilable and the war is about to start, he will immediately say to go downstairs to buy a pack of cigarettes, and then bring me my favorite dessert.
This means that two people have to stop.
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"Love is for happiness,
is not for teaching."
Everyone says that first love is the most beautiful and unforgettable in human relationships. I think this statement is completely beautified.
recalled the process of dating my first love, there was not much sweetness, but more grievances.
My aunt hurts, he only said to drink more hot water;
I am in a bad mood, he would only say that it would be good;
in a long distance relationship, he would only tell me not to think too much about
...
why people fall in love? Don’t you just want two people to face the bad parts of life together and make life more sweet and happy?
Maybe he is not bad-hearted, he really doesn't understand the girl's mind, but I really can't feel loved. After
met the incumbent, I knew what it was like to be cared for in the palm of my hand.
No matter where he goes to play, in order to avoid me thinking too much, he will report the itinerary with me in advance;
the night before my graduation, he quietly bought a ticket to the school to attend my graduation ceremony;
will be whenever I lose my temper , Look into my eyes seriously and say "I love you";
will seriously talk with me about future plans, work hard to save money, and fight for a good future. When
is with him, I feel at ease.
only taste the sweetness of love for the time being, but haven't tasted the bitterness of love yet.
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Whenever it comes to someone who is experienced in love and is an emotional veteran, many people sneer:
"This must be a sea king, and I am very concerned, is there any zzzz5 who can be dumped?" There is no basis for such remarks.
A person has some love experience, knows a little skill, and is good at how to make each other feel comfortable in getting along. It does not mean that he is a scumbag/girl.
On the contrary, Sister Nao personally feels that the right routine, casual romance, and flirting with the rain may be the warming gauge of love.
Of course, what needs to be emphasized is that the experience and routines in love are important, but what is more valuable is the sincere heart of the other party.
As long as the person really loves you, Xiaomeng believes that no matter how dull people are, they will take the initiative to change their personality appropriately so that you can feel reliable, at ease and loved in love.
If we truly love someone, we will be willing to give them time to tolerate, wait and take care of.
As I have read on the Internet:
"For me, you are the one who is infinitely beautiful, and you are the one who falls into the dust. The focus is on you, not who you are."
, No matter what you do, he will always be towards you.
Shandong people call this eccentric, and those who have studied say it is love.
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