"From disputes" broke out a lesson learned by the big brother Xu Nailin in variety show

Variety big brothers Xu Nailin and Tang Cong Sheng 's "Nai Cong Conflict" has flowed out of the film, and it has been more than 10 days. When the event ends and the audience disperses, we can discuss the accident fairly and objectively, without emotion.

This incident began with Tang Congsheng’s participation in the China TV "Genius Chongchong" hosted by Xu Nailin and Zeng Guocheng’s partner on September 26. The video was recorded on the same day and the show played word-guessing games. Tang Congsheng pronounced the absurd as a ridiculous "temple". Xu Nailin refused to pass the test. Tang Congsheng saw the answer and thought that the meaning was the same. Xu Nailin "can't afford to lose" and "little-hearted". Shu Zichen, who was on the same team, said "picking the bones in the egg". The two sang the double song once and twice, and finally detonated. Xu Nailin was so angry that Xu Nailin cursed "Absurd, am I wrong? Am I wrong?", and then a series of swear words rushed out.

Xu Nailin is full of anger, 3 word sutra and 5 word sutra constantly cursing. At the moment of the recording, a staff member in the assistant control couldn't watch it. He picked up his mobile phone to take a picture of the conflict on the screen, and passed it to the media after work that day. After breaking the news, I saw that the reporter who received the news did not deal with it. Two days later, they uploaded the news report to the commune, which finally caused a strong earthquake. The scolding scenes were continuously broadcasted by various news stations, and the image was severely damaged. The weak who were scolded but did not return their mouths, the emotions that were originally digested, coupled with the emotions of their mothers, broke out in the live broadcast after drinking late at night, threatening to sue Xu Nailin, and China TV came forward to deal with the employees who evacuated the film, and finally remembered

. Let’s talk about the whole thing. Every incident has a cause and effect, and there is a succession and transformation. The employees of Huashi believe that they are righteous, but he has cut an incident in half since he started scolding, and the second half is open to the world. After the first half, the audience only saw Xu Nailin scolding wildly, but did not see the main reason for his scolding (of course, employees can’t predict the incident, so they took out their phones to shoot from the beginning). Whether this justice is really just, everyone can calm down. Think about it. After the news of

came out, the reaction was polarized. The vast majority of the people, including a small number of insiders, blamed Xu Nailin on one hand. Of course, it is not right to speak foul language or curse from the country. This is absolutely unquestionable. He is usually outspoken, even the media. I was scolded by him for 8 minutes. In those 8 minutes, he helped me review all the swear words I had learned and known in my life, but he has one characteristic, that is, he gets angry after he finishes cursing. Disperse like a cigarette, and will not bear hatred or revenge. After I was scolded by him that time, he had smiled and greeted people again, and the relationship between the two parties was better. Many people in this circle of

smile on the surface, and do things that hurt and cut people privately. Xu Nailin is easy to get angry, but he only focuses on the present. After the end, he will not settle accounts after the fall, and will not follow you. , So many people describe him as true temperament. Chen Meifeng said, "It's instinct to lose your temper, and it's the ability to control your temper." Of course, I have never seen so many other big brothers in variety shows. Xu Nailin certainly deserves public comment. After the news of

came out, some netizens used a simple metaphor to describe this incident. It was unexpectedly appropriate. Everyone knows that the mastiff is very fierce. He is there quietly, in fact, he will not bite people, and those who know his personality will not be casual. To fight, but a kid knew he was fierce, and even took a stick to make fun of him. In the end, the mastiff went crazy and rushed to bite the kid. The moment of biting was photographed by people passing by, everyone scolded the mastiff for chaos. Biting people, but no one saw the section where the kids were fighting with the stick.

For Tang Congsheng, Xu Nailin is not only a senior in the entertainment industry, but also a show host. He has the obligation to control the rules and rhythm of the program. In other words, he is responsible for the success or failure of the program. Xu Nailin and Zeng Guocheng do not blame the guests, so Xu Nailin was impatient and angry, and was made many times, not just for this video, but on several occasions when I met Tang Congsheng, they all had the same situation, and the emotions accumulated to a gap. The video was interrupted, and finally something went wrong.

Many celebrities criticized China TV on the show, believing that the employee pointed out the injustice in the entertainment industry and did the right thing. Why should he be punished?

But regardless of the name or the public, he must have his professional ethics in doing any work. Doctors should not publish patient records, lawyers should not post the client's information on the Internet, and even if the agent or propaganda thinks the artist is wrong , Shouldn't take the private side to public trial. Although the episode in this video took place in front of you, as a TV station employee, he has the duty to keep it secret. Whoever grants him the right to be a self-righteous demonthing? What's more, he did not disclose the "full picture", but some fragments, which is unfair to Xu Nailin.

And if viewed from another angle, the film does not flow out. Tang Congsheng has digested his emotions (he said on the live broadcast), and Xu Nailin feels sorry when he disappears. When they meet again, they know the bottom line and how to follow. The other party gets along, but the film flows out, and it is another situation. Tang Congsheng is injured and his family is also injured. Xu Nailin bows his head down, and the TV station has to accept accusations from all sides.

Let me talk about Xu Nailin’s attitude in handling the incident. He knows his temper. After scolding Tang Congsheng and chatting with other staff the next day, he already regretted it. He even felt sad for two days. He immediately talked to the agent after the news broke. Someone discussed how to apologize and deal with the aftermath, held a press conference, bowed publicly for 5 degrees and said sorry to Tang Congsheng. A few days later, the entertainment circle announced that Tang Congsheng was going to be blocked. He couldn't control other programs. His own program was OK, so he called immediately. The producer said, "Don't, even if you have an idea, you can't do it." He turned around and called Tang Congsheng again, asking him to rest assured.

Xu Nailin apologized and said at the press conference, "My EQ is not enough, not enough experience, not enough growth, and I have not reached the age I should be in all aspects of IQ. I am sorry to follow again and I will be more cautious in my words and actions in the future." From his subsequent crisis management, it shows that he has learned an important lesson.