Many female friends were nervous when they first met their mother-in-law, and didn't know how to express themselves. Today, the editor will share with you the strategy of meeting your mother-in-law for the first time. As long as you pay attention to the following five points, you can definitely behave well. Let’s take a look.
1, avoid heavy makeup
A good complexion and a good face will make people love and pity, after all, people like beautiful things. Therefore, you can use light makeup appropriately to make yourself more beautiful and more confident. However, heavy makeup is really a big taboo. Not only will it not increase your in-law’s favor, it will also label you "prodigal daughter", "humeizi", and "unsafe".
2, avoid rushing to help the prospective mother-in-law
The first impression is very important. The first time you are diligent, people will ask you according to this standard, and you will almost think that you are lazy or showing off. In order to avoid being too demanding of you in the future, don't do too well for now. It's not about educating sisters to be slackers, but just teaching everyone when to do and when not to do.
3, do not blindly say to please in-laws and sister-in-law,
sisters want to leave a good impression on future in-laws when they visit for the first time. This is true in itself. What's wrong is that some people eat soft things and fear hard things. The more you please, the more mistakes they make. People don't treat kindness as politeness but as you fear him. If your mother-in-law's family is the kind who knows how to respect each other, then try to please, this will increase the relationship.
4. Don't bring money when you see your in-laws for the first time
. Don't bring any money. First of all, it is the question of how much. Maybe in your eyes it is a proper amount. In the eyes of the in-laws, it is drizzle. Maybe you will be called stingy. Or you can give more, so that people can't find reason. Have you thought about the future? The more you give at the first visit, the greater your expectations of you in the future.
5. Avoid being supported by a prospective husband in front of your in-laws.
There is always one dominant in love or marriage. That person can be your husband, but you cannot let your in-laws know. When people see their son being so tough in front of his wife, can they still treat you as a dish? Husband listens to her own words, does her mother-in-law dare to look down upon you? Is she not afraid of losing her son together? So you can't be swayed by your husband in front of your mother-in-law, and you can't be afraid or hard-hearted.
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