Mylittlesunshine, Iloveyousomuch’s dad treats his daughter as a lover than Wen Shenghao

December 15, 2015

Interview writer/Dai Yun

photography/Su Yiliang

dressing/Johnny

clothing editor/Shelly

clothing /VivienneWestwood,Ferragamo4,Chloe4zzz1,Chen3zzzzzz, you think of the name of Yoshizzzzzzzzzzz/VivienneWestwood,Ferragamo4,Chloe4zzz0 In "Dangerous Mind", the resolute teacher Zhan, the affectionate senior Yunho who guards the queen of the defeated dog, the loyal male champion who loves to play tricks, or the cheating husband Ruifan who makes Xie An really a sharp wife? From a model to a first-line actor in the theater circle, Wen Shenghao in front of the screen can switch between different roles freely. In 2013, his daughter Xiao Qingtian (Wen Yongqing) was born. He is also very handy in playing the role of father in his life. His private life has always been low-key. This time he took his baby daughter to accept an exclusive interview with this magazine, exposing the sweet interaction and interesting life of the father and daughter in private, and sharing his thoughts on investing in the women and children market for his daughter. Want to know how the stylish man Wen Shenghao turned into a heart-warming dad at home? Come take a look at the cover story of this issue!

cute baby Haruharu has a personality to instruct her dad to pose.

Haruharu, who has a fair skin and a pair of smart big eyes, smiles a bit like the Japanese acting child star Aina Ashida. She was originally hiding in her mother's arms and acting coquettishly. After getting acquainted with the environment of the studio, she simply took off her shoes and ran around, watched the camera assistant sorting out the scenery, and walked around in Dad's big leather shoes. Her lively personality is very popular. . During the filming process, she is as personal as Wen Shenghao, not only will take the initiative to run to the monitor screen to check her own photos, guide her father to pose on the prop sofa, but she will also arrange clothes in front of the mirror when changing clothes, just like Professional little model.

The program "Where is Dad Going" in mainland China is hit, and I asked Wen Shenghao if he would like to bring his cute daughter to the program and cultivate relationships by the way? He said that Qingqing is still young and lacks stability, and currently does not consider taking her on the show. As for whether you will agree to your daughter entering the showbiz in the future? He disapproved and said that if she just wants to be a star and want to be popular, it is not necessary, "Unless she has a clear goal and knows what she wants to do, then I will see what resources are available to help her."

Becoming a big doll for a daughter, riding a toy car and chasing a baby

Many men are confused about how to play the role of a father. Therefore, it takes a period of time to explore and adapt after the child is born, but for Wen Shenghao, being a father is completely natural thing. His self-supporting role changed quickly. After he had a daughter, his work goal became clearer. He said frankly that "I want to do more for my children." This sense of responsibility for the family has allowed him to develop a more mature attitude towards life. Improve your perception as an actor. When it comes to the concept of the word "father", he believes that the father is not only the navigator of the child's life, but also the lighthouse when the child is lost.

Qingqing was born two years ago, just when Wen Shenghao was preparing to step across the bank. As the filming took many months, and was not at home for more than half a year, I asked him how to maintain the relationship with his wife and daughter? He said that he used video to chat with them every day, filling the gap between getting along with his daughter with full care. Compared with many fathers who have been on business for many years, every time they contact their children, they ask "Is it good at home?" The most common conversation between Wen Shenghao and his daughter is "Qingqing do you want Dad?" "Dad, I miss you and me so much. Love you", the sweetness index broke the table! Wen Shenghao laughed and said that his daughter had to finish talking with him every night before she agreed to go to bed. During the filming time, Qingqing, who was held by her mother in her arms, shyly replied "I am Dad's little lover" when asked what you are of your father. As a "little lover," Qingqing also showed a caring side when Wen Shenghao returned home. Not only would she take the initiative to help her dad pick slippers and push the suitcase; she would also help her get his glasses in the morning and have a good night before going to bed. Kiss. In addition, Wen Shenghao sometimes pretends to be injured deliberately, and Qingqing will fly to Dad's side to help him wipe the medicine and whistle, which makes him very relieved. He laughed at himself and became his daughter’s big doll when he returned home. One day, Qingqing was playing at home on an electric scooter and asked her father to sit behind her. Wen said, "Dad has a big butt, so I’m afraid of breaking the car." Gu The spirited Qingqing dragged a toy trailer and wanted Wen to chase her behind. Wen had to reluctantly sit in the toy car and useThe feet move slowly and slipperyly. Brother Yilin paid so much for his daughter, one can't help but sigh the power of father's love.

The democratic education study room turns into a graffiti wall for daughters

Usually, once the family is separated, it is easy to feel distance, but Qingqing is very sticky. Wen Shenghao, who sleeps in the same bed with her dad and mommy, once cried because Wen Shenghao was absent. Looking for dad. In response, Wen Shenghao said emotionally: "My daughter is very close to me." When Qingqing was 6 months old, she flew to the mainland to explore. She was not impressed by her father. She logically felt strange to Wen Shenghao, but she got off the plane. He reached out for his father to hold him, which made Wen Shenghao very heartwarming. With such a deep relationship with your daughter, what restrictions do you have on your daughter's future boyfriend? He said that it’s difficult to plan for a child’s love with parents. Basically, Qingqing supports everything he does, but hopes that she will not have too many secrets that she can’t tell her parents. "I dare not say that I can help her solve problems, but I want to be her. The object of consultation.” Although there is still some time before Qingqing grows up, Wen Shenghao also said that the future is too far away, but as a daughter’s "little lover", he actually thinks deeply; "It is inevitable on the road of life. There will be collisions. When she feels frustrated, I hope that she will be her backer so that she will not feel helpless.”

is different from most celebrities and celebrities who let children learn all kinds of talents and grow up under strict parental supervision. Howe knows that if a child is forced to learn talents, he will only "do everything and loosen everything." He hopes that his daughter can freely explore what he really wants to do. As long as he does not learn badly, he will give his full support within his ability. However, seemingly democratic, he admitted that he had been unacceptable to his daughter’s naughty behavior in the past, and even asked his wife "How did he teach a child?" But then he reflected on "a child’s childhood is only once. If adult thinking kills her creativity, She won’t have a chance to do the same thing in the future.” Recently, Qingqing became obsessed with painting, and she used crayons to paint on the glass wall of the study when she became interested. Wen Shenghao said that originally she would tell her daughter not to paint, but later Just let her play freely. If my daughter wants to be a painter, she will support it? He emphasized that “it’s okay to cultivate interest. Whether it’s a meal or not is another matter.” In the entertainment industry, he knows many friends who are engaged in art work and understands the reality of this industry very well. “Unless a rich dad can make money. Help you, otherwise it’s difficult to live by art.” He felt that as long as his daughter has an appreciation for art and an aesthetic concept, she can play a piano or dance a dance, and her life will be very beautiful. What if Qingqing showed a strong passion for art? He laughed and said, "Then I might sell my old face to ask someone to ask, and help her."

Spoiling or not spoiling Timely values ​​

Talking about the personality of his daughter, Wen Shenghao laughed and said that Qingqing is usually very gentle, only when angry. Slightly crazy, for example, she would stamp her feet if she didn't give her candy, but once it was given to her, she would become a little angel and share the candy with everyone. In order to maintain the image of a warm man's father, Wen Shenghao usually walks away silently when Qingqing loses his temper, and changes his wife Jun to communicate with his daughter. Don’t you be afraid that your daughter will eat your father? He bluntly said that he usually doesn't spend much time at home. If he plays the role of a strict father, he is afraid that he will be separated from his daughter. For this reason, he and his wife have reached a consensus.

Even if the division of labor is implemented in discipline, Wen Shenghao admits that he will inevitably have frictions with his wife during education. For example, he would interrupt when his wife was disciplining his daughter. Jun would say, "Qingqing is usually taken by me, so she won't know whom to listen to, and what if she moves out of you as a shield in the future?" So later When Xiaojun was teaching his children, he stood aside and didn't speak. Even when his daughter used his eyes to signal him for help, he turned his head and ignored him. This "pampering but not indulgent" education method also makes people realize that the "white face" of the original warm man's father is not necessarily to obey his daughter everywhere, but to adhere to principles when necessary and to educate his children on correct values.

invests in maternal and child products to create one-stop service

Wen Shenghao, who has been interested in investing in maternity and child products since the birth of his daughter, recently established a joint venture with a friend to establish a maternity and child boutique website "kiskisbaby". At present, it uses European brands as the main sales force, learning tableware, straps, and Strollers to the baby room and bedding are all available, and he was promoted to "Boss Wen" a few days ago and he personally flew to South Korea to talk about new product agents. The boss and publicist, he spared no effort to promote his own products. During the interview, he showed off the functional temperature-sensitive butt clothing previously given to Xu Ruoxuan's son Xiao V Bao and Kun Ling daughter Xiao Zhou Zhou. He explained that it is usually difficult for parents to detect when a baby has a fever. The color change of the fart clothing reminds parents that the baby’s body temperature exceeds 37.Degree, quite practical. But he does not deny that the unit prices of the agency products are not low, so he aimed at the gift market, emphasizing that "it can be a gift for the birth of a baby or the full moon." The mainland’s second-child policy has been fully lifted. Kiskisbaby, who is optimistic about the potential of the market on the other side, has set up physical counters in Xiamen and Chengdu through the platform of the Confinement Center. Ask him next plan? He said that once the performance reaches the expected standard and the purchase cost is reduced, he hopes to lower the price and promote the product to the entire Chinese circle, so that more moms and babies can enjoy the noble and inexpensive exquisite maternity and child products.

There are many artists who invest in side business, but not many have succeeded. Ask Wen Shenghao how to take care of side business even when the filming schedule is full? He emphasized that "professionals should be held accountable by professional people." Since the partners have medical backgrounds, they have been deeply involved in the domestic confinement market for more than 30 years and are well-known in Taiwan's maternity industry. Therefore, the management team is familiar with maternal and child medical care. . Other professionals including management, marketing, and public relations perform their duties. He is responsible for media coordination and artist liaison. Although the work schedule is very tight, he usually talks about the agency in person when time permits. Frankly admitted that there are huge business opportunities in the maternal and child market. The confinement center invested by Wen Shenghao also provides services such as medical beauty and childcare. He also discussed early education cooperation with the Montessori Children’s Education Society, hoping to expand the related industries from confinement to preschool. Integration to create a one-stop service.

has been deeply involved in the mainland market and launched the "Wen Shenghao" brand

. He has a lot of experience in the sideline business, and his performance in the actor industry is not inferior. In the past two years, I have filmed 5 dramas in the mainland, and each of them ranks in the top 3 in the local ratings. Recently, the TV series "Mom Like a Flower", which was popular on Jiangsu Satellite TV, even rushed to the top of the ratings. However, due to the contending of a hundred schools of thought on the opposite side of the market, the 40 episodes of the TV series were broadcast within 2 to 3 weeks, and the front end was soon overshadowed by the scenes. The response from mainland audiences was not as strong as expected, so he called out, "The brand "Wen Shenghao" is still in the investment stage on the other side. I have to work harder." Next, besides intensively going to Shanghai and Beijing to promote the show, he will participate in activities and accept Magazine interview. He once climbed the peak of his acting career as a cheating husband. He also said that he clearly distinguishes work and family. He will not reject negative images because of his concerns about his daughter. He will continue to cultivate in the mainland market in the future.

Participating in daughter growth. Wife is the biggest promoter.

Behind every successful man is a woman who silently pays. For Wen Shenghao, his wife Xiaojun plays such a role appropriately. After giving birth to his baby daughter Qingqing, Xiaojun quit his job and devoted himself to the family, allowing Wen Shenghao to sprint his career without any worries. The two have met and fell in love since the age of 17, and they have gone hand in hand for 20 years. They are even more precious in this era of fast food love. Ask him the secret of 20 years of love? He thought for a while and said, "Respect each other, just like I won't interfere with her in doing housework, and she won't go over the line to guide my work." Jun, who has the right philosophy of "letting go", is not like Some girls will restrain their husbands by staring at people urgently. Except for occasional visits, they never show up when Wen Shenghao is filming. This may be the biggest reason for the long relationship between the two.

In order to be a competent "family CEO", Xiaojun, who had previously worked in the financial industry, did a lot of homework and actively collected a lot of parenting information on the Internet during pregnancy. When educating children, she used to communicate instead of punishment. When Qingqing was crying, she would pull Qingqing aside and ask her daughter to look at her eyes attentively, and repeat it after she finished speaking to deepen her memory. It can be called a textbook Wen Shenghao admires the parenting model of the template; "She is really patient, and she often watched her teach her daughter next to me. I had been mad, but she still took the trouble to communicate with Qingqing." Put Wen Shenghao in her life. First in the middle, she always prioritizes her husband in everything she does. Even after giving birth, she didn't ask Wen to stay with her in Taiwan. In the past few years, Wen Shenghao has been a trapeze between the two sides of the strait. In order to prevent her husband from missing her daughter’s many "firsts", she has made meticulously filmed videos of sunny and full moon, turning over, and learning to walk to her husband, so that Wen Shenghao can Indirectly participate in the growth of her daughter. For this, Wen Shenghao is very grateful. "She is doing her best for this family, so that I can do what I want to do outside. I really thank her." The daughter of

is blessed and must know how to be grateful for contentment &. Ask Wen Shenghao what would you like to say to your baby girl Qingqing? He thought for a while and said, "Actually, my daughter is very fate.There are a group of uncles and aunts who love her, so I want to remind her that others are not taking good care of you for granted. The gifts you get are blessings. You must know how to be grateful and content. Speaking bluntly that he hates people who follow the crowd the most, Wen Shenghao hopes that his daughter will grow up to be an optimistic girl with her own life orientation. "Be assertive, but not stubborn." He hopes that his daughter will be clear even in a chaotic environment. Positioning yourself, knowing what you want, "to live a life consciously." This shooting of

allows us to see the other side of Wen Shenghao after taking off the actor's coat. Regarding sideline investment, he speaks eloquently, showing the dominance of the flag-planting women and children market; for family wives and daughters, he is very affectionate, showing the courage to shelter his wives and children. At the age of 37, he has set a new watershed for himself, hoping that Wen Shenghao, who has multiple jobs, will be able to take the next step in the future and produce better works in various fields.

(Source: "Baby and Mother" December 2015)

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