Nandu News It's the school season again! Colleges and universities ushered in a new batch of freshmen. Many parents don’t worry about their children, and go to school with their children with their luggage to help organize the dormitory's housekeeping and school-related matters. Recently, the topic of “with or without parents for college freshmen” has been searched on Weibo, with 250 million readings and 16,000 discussion posts. Netizens have divergent opinions on whether college freshmen should bring their parents with them.
In response, Nandu Education Alliance and Nandu NDX Lab launched a hot-spot team interaction on "whether new college students should bring their parents when registering". According to data as of September 4, more than 60% of netizens said they would bring their parents with them when registering. However, some netizens said that caring and independence are two different things.
Over 20% think it is "parents want to go"
Did you bring your parents with you when you register for college? According to survey data, 63.3% of netizens said they did. So, what is the reason? According to survey data, netizens take their parents to the university for various reasons. Among them, 26.8% think "parents want to go", 19.7% think "too much luggage", and 15.7% think "by the way".
netizen "AKB-Grandma Xu" talked about his college experience and said with emotion: "I used to go to university far away, and my parents are also looking forward to seeing the new school with me. By the way, I will take them on a trip to meet the world. It can reduce a lot of the burden at the beginning of school. Why not do it? There is no need to make a small matter online."
But netizens "DaDaDa" hold different opinions. He thinks that he always depends on his parents and easily loses independence. Ability. University is to learn to take care of its own "factory". If you don't even have a good beginning, then what is the point of cultivating independent ability in university?
When asked, "Do you feel regret when your parents didn't go to the university with you", 45% of netizens said they would not feel regret, while 30% said they would feel regret. In this regard, netizens "how many are left in the bald" think this is a "false proposition": "Parents are naturally warm and happy to be with them, but it cannot be used as a reason for you to force your parents to accompany you to school. Many things can be done by yourself Just do it yourself."
Super 60% said that taking parents to report is not independent
From the interactive survey data, it can be seen that most netizens are relatively optimistic about the start of school with their parents. 60% of netizens said that if they were parents, they would choose to accompany their children to the university registration; 26.7% of netizens said they would accompany their children depending on the situation; 13.3% of netizens said they would not.
Does it mean that the child is not independent enough to bring his parents when he reports? Regarding this issue, 63.3% of netizens hold a negative view, 26.7% of netizens think it is not necessarily, and only 10% of netizens think it is not independent.
netizen "Niuhuang Sweet Potato Pills" said: "As a person who has not been accompanied by my parents to start school, I can feel the feeling of envy. I envy other parents why they can bring so many delicious foods with them, why can they help each other? I’m so busy, and I have to do everything by myself. This doesn’t mean that I’m not independent. I just long for the feeling of being cared for, because I think the love of my parents and my own independence are two different things."
netizen "Bao Jinyong" also I feel that in fact, this delivery does not need to complicate this issue. It is also a good ceremony for parents to visit their children's school, learn about the city where the children are located, and then make a difference with the children.
: Southern Metropolis reporter Ye Siming, intern Cao Yi
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