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birthday should be one of the best memories of childhood for children, children are very looking forward to birthday cakes and birthday gifts Yes, of course, for children, the favorite thing is to wish.
has a birthday once a year, and the children feel that their birthday wishes will be fulfilled, so they must be very enthusiastic about birthday wishes. Children most hope that all their wishes will come true, and they can also hear from their children’s wishes. The truest voice of the child.
The 7-year-old boy’s birthday wishes "I hope my father will die soon", and the wish becomes his last word.
7-year-old Yang Yang is a very timid boy because he has a father who is alcoholic and domestic violence. Yang Yang’s father only needs to drink alcohol outside. , Going home will find various reasons to fight Yangyang and his mother, little Yangyang is full of fear.
This day is Yangyang’s 7th birthday. Mom took advantage of Yangyang’s father’s absence to buy a cake for Yangyang and sang a birthday song. When the birthday wish came, Yangyang whispered, “I hope my father and I will die soon. There is no need to be beaten."
When I went to bed at night, Yangyang's father came back drunk, and he went into the house as before and began to beat Yangyang and his mother. Yangyang was beaten motionless, and Yangyang's mother was scared and hurryed to send the child. hospital. When
arrived at the hospital, Yang Yang had no vital signs. No one thought that Yang Yang's 7th birthday wish would become a last word, and his 7th birthday would also become a memorial day.
Violence is a lingering shadow of children’s psychology
Although we have been resisting violent education, we have not really been controlled. Sometimes parents just want to use force to scare their children, but because of anger, they can’t control themselves at all. Gradually get used to using violence against children. But violence is the root of all evil, leaving a shadow that will never go away in children's hearts.
Violence turns a child’s childhood into gray
Children’s childhood should be full of joy and laughter, but violence keeps the child spent in fear and worry. The child not only tends to become timid and introverted, but parents who use violence for a long time will make the child more Feeling helpless, insecure, and my childhood was clouded with gray.
Violence can be transmitted to children
Parents use violence to educate their children to make children genetic violence very likely, because parents have the greatest impact on their children, being treated with violence since childhood, children will use violence to solve problems when facing others in the future. Conducive to the growth of children's mental health.
Violence is more likely to make children rebellious.
Children who are beaten by their parents are often "dare to be angry but dare not speak" and even deliberately fight against their parents in order to resist. They have developed a rebellious character after two visits, even if they are beaten to the end. . Once the rebellious character of
is stationed in the heart of the child, he will follow the child for life. When the child is young, the parents can use force to frighten the child. The older the child is, the more difficult it is for the parent to manage, and the extremely rebellious character will cause trouble.
Children who grow up under violence are more likely to become "white-eyed wolves".
Every time a parent beats a child, the child may remember a grudge in his heart, and the parent-child relationship is stretched a little bit. Children who grow up under violence over time treat their parents more Most of them are "resentment". When their parents are old, they will not support the elderly. Instead, they become "white-eyed wolves" in the eyes of the elderly.
Whether in the family or entering the society, violence cannot solve the problem fundamentally. Only by communicating and understanding between family members can the problem be solved and a good atmosphere can be created.
For children, the growth environment and parents’ education influence is very large, so parents should control their emotions and tempers as much as possible, and give children a sunny space to thrive.
I am a C mother, a professional baby nurse, and a 3-year-old baby. If you have any troubles and problems with raising a baby, you can consult. Of course, I prefer to listen to all the ups and downs of mothers, except for bringing A baby can also be your best friend~
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