41-year-old Luo Zhixiang was ruined because of his mother: maternal love without a sense of boundary is harmful to children

41-year-old Luo Zhixiang was ruined because of his mother: maternal love without a sense of borders harmed the child

. In recent days, Luo Zhixiang has been on the top search list because of a breakup letter by his ex-girlfriend Zhou Yangqing.

Ordinary people who eat melons never expected that a handsome male star on the surface would have such a different private life behind the scenes. The rotten private life of surprised many people.

Faced with this incident, Piggy Luo Zhixiang was the first to apologize to Zhou Yangqing and admit his mistakes, but frankly said he did not regret it. This means that Luo Zhixiang directly admitted that what Zhou Yangqing said was the truth.

is not all "dare to behave" and admit mistakes will win the understanding of netizens. Three days have passed since Zhou Yangqing released the open letter, and Luo Zhixiang's microblog attention has been dropping continuously, only on the 23rd to the 24th. Today, more than 2 million fans were lost.

In this era of fan economy, the collapse of human settings means the demise of "money way".

​​Before this, how hot was he?

Luo Zhixiang was born in 1979 in Keelung City, Taiwan Province, China. He is a Chinese pop male singer, host, dancer and actor. After

debuted in 1995, Luo Zhixiang, who was not yet 16 years old, said: I will always occupy the stage until the last moment.

Later he did it. In 2005, Show Luo held his first solo concert at the Taipei Arena, becoming the first pop singer to step into the Taipei Arena , and the second was Jacky Cheung.

became the annual record sales champion in Taiwan for four consecutive years from 2010 to 2013. As long as you attend the event, there will be 20 vehicles behind you.

During this period, Show Luo became the annual record sales champion in Taiwan for four consecutive years with his "Rashomon", "I Am" and "Lion Roar" . At the same time, the singers who competed with him are Jay Chou, Jolin Tsai ...

He is the only idol who can fight the Korean Wave very early. When

has not yet become a trend in star chasing, Luo Zhixiang proved that the word "idol" is not a derogatory term.

Some netizens said Luo Zhixiang: "A star can be so popular that my parents know it, and my grandparents have also heard of it. It is really popular. I don't know exactly how Luo Zhixiang is known, but I just know him. It's also a kind of fire."

Today's Luo Zhixiang ended up in such a fate, and it's only for himself.

Maternal love without a sense of borders harms children

But most everything in the world can be answered in the native family, and Luo Zhixiang is no exception.

After Luo's father died in 2005, Luo Zhixiang was left with only one mother.

may want to love his mother well. He has shown love in public many times, ranging from mouth-to-mouth kisses to tongue-to-mouth kisses.

mother bird nestled in her son's arms, at the same time Luo Zhixiang did not forget to tease her mother is a little woman...


Many singers have written songs for their mothers. Show Luo also wrote a song to his mother, but the lyrics are like this:

A man in his 30s and 40s, in public, he does not shy away from his mother's " love" , and he always kisses, screaming in porn...

sees this , Could not help but trembled, his private life was chaotic, perhaps in his early behavior of being too intimate with his mother, it hid a clue. It can be said that is now ruined, which has nothing to do with his mother's attitude towards him .

Left: Luo Zhixiang’s mother Right: Zhou Yangqing

On this matter, Luo Zhixiang’s mother said that Zhou Yangqing wanted to destroy her son.

Taiwan media reported that Luo Zhixiang’s mother responded: emotional matters should be handled privately, not openly torn apart, Zhou Yangqing wanted to ruin Luo Zhixiang.

It is reported that Zhou Yangqing and Luo Zhixiang’s mother had a very good relationship with Luo Zhixiang’s mother when they were in love, and they often interacted online.

Taiwan media revealed that Luo Zhixiang's mother is very angry and thinks that she regards Zhou Yangqing as a daughter-in-law. Unexpectedly, Zhou Yangqing will not leave Luo Zhixiang behind after the breakup, and directly wants to ruin his career.

has never reflected on what his son has done wrong, maternal love without a sense of boundaries is harmful.

The story of Luo Zhixiang and his mother also reminds us that in raising a child, we must let him know the sense of boundaries, so that he will not make detours in the future, and his parents will also feel relieved.

There are more than 50 million languages ​​in the world, there are 73 kinds of . But there is one word that makes the language of almost all humans have a wonderful overlap.

That is "mother"-this word is the way we use to call the closest person to us in this world.

There is no doubt that mothers are the greatest people in the world, and the love for children is of course the most meticulous love.

French educator Rousseau once said: "Do you know what method you can use to make your child an unfortunate person? This method is to be obedient to him."

Parents must know how to restrain education.

If takes the child's requirements as the center and unconditionally meets the child's wishes, the final result of is that the child only knows his own needs and never considers the consequences or other people's ideas when doing things.

never consider the feelings of others, and become an arrogant person at home "only me" . Is this the result that parents want to see after hard education?

Doting is like a chronic poison, bit by bit cannibalize the heart of the child.

Their growth process seems to be smooth sailing under the protection of their parents, but once they start to live on their own, these chronic poisons of attack together, completely crushing the perfect fantasy in front of the children and their parents.

I remembered a piece of news I read before:

A hot pot restaurant in Wuxi, Jiangsu, where adults are all dining in the seats, and there is only one child running around in the aisle, and his mother slowly follows behind, without stopping the child’s behavior. . When

ran to a corner, it happened to hit the waiter who was turning. The waiter still had a pot of grilled fish in his hand. The child's forehead just stuck to the hot grilled fish pan. The tragedy happened instantly and the child was burned in many places. .

After the incident, the parents of the child arrogantly demanded 390,000 compensation without any identification and no legal procedures: "It is not important that money is not. Whose child is burned to such a value of 390,000?"

The responsibilities of children and parents have been completely eliminated.

Why do Chinese children generally lack the awareness of rules? Because in the eyes of many parents, children's nature is higher than the rules.

In China, more and more children ignore the rules, and more and more tragedies are caused by this.

, former CCTV host Fan Deng said, “If parents don’t want to be the person who harms their children the most, the way to crack it is to become a lifelong learner.” The

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