The news that a 3-month-old baby was trained to sleep on his stomach and died of suffocation triggered a heated discussion among netizens. The mother of the child looked at the monitor outside the room and heard that he was crying and was very anxious. The mother did not go to see the child the first time, but kept asking Group friends "Is that all right".
It can be seen from the live broadcast that the child is very painful and crying all the time on the bed.
After nearly 1 hour, the child was found to have a nosebleed, his lips turned purple, and he was not breathing.
During the two hours when the baby was crying, the mother sent all the video of the child to the group, which is equivalent to broadcasting the child’s death, which is very sad.
On April 24, actress Ma Yili reposted a post she posted 5 years ago on social platforms, and accompanied by a thought-provoking text, sternly denounced the inhuman crying immunity training sleep method, and advocated more children Only by holding more accompany can you grow up healthily.
Ma Yili is deeply aware of the dangers of crying immunity, and vents the anger of being a mother every word. Hearing a child crying and not asking, especially in a real case, a living child was unfeelingly indifferent because of the improper care of his mother, hearing the crying, and eventually was smothered in the quilt. Ma Yili deeply accused these so-called experts, who were clearly "executioners" of murder.
What is the crying immunity training method? Literally, when the child is yelling and making noise, the parents will ignore it and let the child cry. When the child is tired of crying, he will naturally be quiet To fall asleep. According to the founder, Watson, this kind of training is to help children get rid of dependence on their parents as soon as possible and cultivate their independence. Although this method of
makes sense in theory, it has been complained by many mothers in real life. First of all, many mothers said that when they hear their children crying but ignore them, they feel very uncomfortable. After all, they are the flesh and blood of their own body, and crying is really distressed. Secondly, some studies have shown that although this allows children to become independent quickly during childhood, the lack of parental kisses and hugs can lead to disability in the children's personality, which can easily lead to revenge against society.
Ma Yili's eldest daughter Emma, when she was one year old, Ma Yili also tried this cruel sleep method. I have to say that after two days, it was really effective, and the one-year-old Emma learned to sleep the whole time. But after a while, Emma often woke up at night, crying again and again. Finally, under the persuasion of her mother, Ma Yili let the child sleep next to her, and hugged her when she cried. Now Emma has finally grown up healthy.
Ma Yili also reflected on herself in the long article, saying that mothers should not be rushed, and children have their own growth rhythm. Two-year-old children cannot control their bowel and urine because the sphincter muscles have not developed well. At this time, the forced urine is pulled out to promote growth, which is not good for the child's spine. Therefore, what these experts say cannot be fully believed, and mothers must also learn to grow up with their children.
Of course, the use of the method also varies from person to person. Ono, the daughter of the famous writer Han Han, also used the crying immunity method when she was a child, but now she is very happy and lively.
Under Ma Yili’s dynamics, many Baoma netizens commented that this method is not practical and is not good for children’s growth. "Children's growth needs the care of their parents", "cuddles when they cry, breastfeeds when they are hungry, and their own flesh and blood must be hurt by themselves." Perhaps, foreigners’ methods are not suitable for us Chinese. As long as the method allows children to grow up healthy, it is a good way to raise children.
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