Introduction: In this society, incredible things are prone to happen. Sometimes one's thoughts can easily cause harm to others!
A woman in Yinchuan, Ningxia, was washing her hands in a barbecue restaurant when she was suddenly pulled into the toilet by a strong man to molest her. The woman kept yelling and attracted the staff of the barbecue shop to come, and the man fled in a hurry.
When the woman's boyfriend heard the movement, he rushed to the scene as soon as possible and then called the police.
"I just finished using the bathroom and was washing my hands, and then a strange man pulled me into the toilet partition, knocked me down and locked the door, molested me, I kept calling for help, "Please let me be respectful and let me go Your hand" or I will call the police." He ran away later. "Even if the police arrived, the woman was still in shock!
It turned out that after the woman had finished the barbecue, she went to the bathroom on the second floor to wash her hands. The suspect Zhang followed and saw the woman alone and thought that she was alone. There was no surveillance video in the toilet, so he acted boldly and arrested the woman into the toilet indecently!
After the incident, the man took advantage of the chaos and ran away. When the police investigated and found that Zhang was suspected of committing a major crime. When the police arrested him, he was alive and well. He didn’t admit it, because he didn’t think there was a camera.
Finally, under the police’s multiple investigations, Zhang broke the law!
Qing said:
In this case, the woman is not wrong, and no reason can change the fact that the man committed the crime. For this man,
is really heinous, whether it is his drunkenness or his nature. If he does it, he must be severely punished by the law, and he must bear the price of his actions!
If the law teaches him Being a human being, then someone will teach him how to be a human! Although
said that a woman is not wrong, I still have to tell her, "Next time I will ask my boyfriend to follow. Man, maybe something went wrong! "
woman, please wear your pants tighter!
So, how can girls protect themselves?
The elder said: "Girls should be calm, witty and brave when things happen, and the adults will help you."
The wise man said: "Female Children must be clean and self-respect in life, and everyone will respect you." The teacher said: "Girls must be upright and generous in making friends. The sun always shines on you."
1. Make friends carefully.
A person will meet many people in his life. Who can be friends and who is worthy of trust is something that girls must study deeply. The ancients said: near Zhu is red, near ink is black. Not without reason.
Good habits can influence each other, and bad habits are more likely to be contagious to each other. Doesn't it mean that it is easier to learn from bad habits? There are some bad things that are popular in the society. Men are not bad and women do not love. Remember that good men don't like bad women. If a beautiful bad woman can cause a man's fantasy, it is only temporary. A man will never maintain his happiness on a woman who is unreliable and will cause trouble, even though some men are not tired of having fun on the spot. The stability and unity of the home is what those men with brains want most. We must believe that this world is still full of good people. Therefore, you must be cautious when making friends, same-sex friends should do this, and opposite-sex friends should be more cautious.
Second, pay carefully.
No matter how good a man is, he can’t get past the virgin plot knot. Maybe he doesn’t say anything because he loves you on the surface, but he always has lumps in his mind.
Love is selfish, and people are selfish. Girls can think about it the other way around. Would you be happy if you knew he had an affair with an ex-girlfriend? Yes, you will remember when you are unhappy, and then you will feel a little pain. Therefore, before meeting the man you are going to hand over for a lifetime, protect your body. Since ancient times, men have been in love with Bi. This is the point. Too casual girls, men will only treat them casually.
Therefore, as a girl, you should learn to keep yourself clean, don't fall in love casually, break up casually, and give your first time casually!
Three, learn to be strong and learn to love.
people will encounter many setbacks in their lives, this is everyoneWill encounter. Some people use frustration as a stepping stone and climb higher and higher; some people regard frustration as a mountain on their shoulders, and they can’t breathe!
What is frustration for? It is used to hone people's will. Being frustrated is not a shameful thing. When you are hit in love, you must reflect on yourself.
Many people will suffer setbacks in love, this is normal! So, don’t lose faith in love. Life should continue. "I was bitten by a snake for ten years and I was afraid of well ropes."
Someone will ask: Should women let go of being strong and learn to be weak!
I think it depends on the situation. When you should be strong, you still have to be strong, and when you should be weak, you still have to be weak!
To be honest, women play an important role in the family! A man can't be weak, because he wants to support the family. But women can, because men need women's tenderness like water!
Fourth, follow the teachings of the elders.
For the elders, many of the experiences they have summed up in their entire lives have passed the test of time. So, they can still listen to some words.
When they selflessly dedicate their wealth to you, don't think that those ideas are outdated, but learn to accept these ideas humbly, take the essence and discard the dross.
Maybe the way the elders teach and teach is not what you like, but there is a correct starting point. They all hope you will have a good life! I hope you will grow up healthy and healthy.
If you must wait until the age when you fully understand and consider the words of the elders, many things may not be changed. Because time has slipped away, and the elders are gone!
So, girl, protect yourself for the happiness of your life.