In Bao Yuming's sexual assault case, her adopted daughter committed suicide many times: Why did she not escape? Answer by Lin Yihan

Bao Yuming's sexual assault case, after many reversals, has aroused some people's suspicion. Some people questioned whether the adopted daughter had committed suicide many times and why she did not escape. Is the purpose impure. Some people even claim that this is the second wife's failure to take the lead, and Bao Yuming was jumped by the fairy.

More sadly, a special article on Caixin website described the sexually assaulted adopted daughter Lan'er as a “girl who lacked love since childhood.” The author posted to Moments and mocked the adopted daughter as a story-telling personality. Such ignorant judgment caused an uproar in the public opinion. Wu Zhihong said on Weibo: Caixin.com's professional reputation in Wuhan's fight against the epidemic was ruined by such a strange and disgusting question.

Wu Zhihong, as a professional psychoanalyst, can accurately insight into the depth and breadth of the trauma of sexual assault girls. For more onlookers, although they are distressed by the girl's experience, they cannot realize that they are not afraid of death. Why can't they escape from the criminal?

wants to understand the plight of adopted daughters, and return to Lin Yihan, who has recently been pushed into the hot search. The protagonist of Lin Yihan's posthumous work "Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise" was seduced by the 50-year-old teacher Li in the cram school at the age of 13. He continued to associate with Teacher Li after college, and finally became mentally disordered. Similar ages, similar experiences, walking into Fang Siqi's inner world, can understand Lan'er's helplessness in seeking death.

The 12-year-old Fang Siqi lives in Taipei and faces the pressure of entrance examinations. She was white, with the water spirit unique to girls, and more outstanding than girls of the same age. He loves literature. There is a wall of bookcases at home, full of books Fang Siqi loves to read. Literature is a bridge, carrying her fantasy of the future, including love.

and parents can never keep up with the growth of their children, ignoring the psychology of adolescent girls. When Fang Siqi's good friend uttered the word hand in front of the parents, he was immediately punished to stand. When love is ignorant, parents choose to hide their ears. Fang Siqi is a good girl. She avoids getting too close with boys of the same age, but forgot to watch out for Teacher Li who lives in the same building.

50-year-old teacher Li, who teaches Chinese, saw Fang Siqi's cabinet of literature books, he knew the opportunity had come. When he met Fang Siqi himself, he broke the previous practice of not touching children from wealthy families. In the name of tutoring composition, Teacher Li found an opportunity to get along with Fang Siqi alone.

Teacher Li has many years of experience in sexually assaulting students. He has recognized Fang Siqi, a self-respecting girl who dare not tell her parents about her being defiled. He raped Siqi easily, and Siqi did not dare to resist or speak up. Just when I take a bath, I feel a faint pain.

tuition is still going on, and Teacher Li continues to occupy the young Siqi in a grandiose way. Just under the eyes of her parents, Teacher Li could take Siqi away from home, saying that she was going to see an exhibition, but she actually went to a small hotel. In the process of seduce Siqi time and time again, he used a literary coat similar to "Cao Yi brought water, Wu took the wind" to capture and deceive the little girl who did not know the world.

Fang Siqi is immersed in the trap designed by Teacher Li that is wrapped in a love coat: because I like it, I do it, and it is legitimate to happen to the person I like. The identity of teacher

, coupled with the identity of his lover, made Siqi unable to relax after a series of excitement. She is like a puppet without a soul, following the instructions of the teacher. Sometimes, I really fall in love with the teacher. Observe him while he is asleep.

For a veteran of over fifty years of sexual abuse, Siqi is just a piece of fresh prey, but for pure Siqi, this is her first love, her love. When love comes, it will make everyone dizzy, let alone a 13-year-old child.

was overwhelmed and unconscious, and Siqi, who was sexually assaulted, had been mentally controlled.

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Siqi is a smart child after all, she is kind by nature. Teacher Li has a wife and a daughter. His daughter Xixi is only two years younger than herself. What is she doing with a married man like this?

Teacher Li has already preparedThe line said to her: "Meeting you, it cost me a lifetime of luck."

There are also examples of Lu Xun and Xu Guangping, Zhang Ailing and Hu Lancheng. The sweet words of

melted Fang Siqi's vanity, but Siqi, who was gradually regaining her senses, understood that it was wrong for them to do so.

One morning, Siqi ate breakfast and tentatively asked her mother about sex. Although pretending to be talking about classmates, my mother reacted fiercely and was very shameless.

's mother's reply blocked Siqi's mouth and also blocked her way out of asking her parents for help.

After graduating from elementary school, she went to another place to attend junior high school. Living in a good friend's house, Siqi, who was slowly awakening, was crying bitterly every night. She relieved her depression by writing a diary, but after writing the diary, she still had to cry for a long time with her pink pillow. Overwhelmed by

, she told her good friend about her relationship with the teacher, but the good friend not only didn't care about the harm she received, but also expressed envy and hatred. Naively thought Siqi was just showing off that she could be favored by the teacher. This friend

has no ill intentions, but he has blocked Siqi's other way out for help. It also made Siqi completely closed her heart and fell into a huge trauma alone.

There is no other way for Siqi to go out with Teacher Li. Teacher Li has an apartment for deceived students. In order to welcome Siqi's arrival, he drove away the last girl and gave Siqi the key. .

Siqi has thoroughly seen the true face of the "Wolf Master", his rhetoric, his literary coat, and his animal behavior are all accumulated over the years. This "first love" is an outright criminal act and has nothing to do with love.

Siqi was walking on the road, not knowing how to look, and was almost knocked down by a car. She understood that she wanted to die subconsciously. Being pursued by boys of the same age, Siqi never forgot her identity, the little girlfriend of a 50-year-old man. She felt that she was no longer worthy to have pure love, not worthy to live anymore. The more painful

is, the more he cannot do without Teacher Li. This pain is caused by him, and only he should understand. Siqi sent a message to Teacher Li before cutting her wrist. It was too painful to live.

Teacher Li realized that this prey is no longer suitable for predation. Quietly alienated Siqi, and continued to seduce the next target. Siqi couldn't bear the burden of her heart and was mentally disturbed, and she was admitted to a nursing home in Taichung.

Conclusion

Fang Siqi did not take the initiative to leave Teacher Li until she had a mental breakdown. For a 13-year-old girl, it is difficult to make correct judgments in an environment where her body is abused and her spirit is manipulated.

People often think that they are not afraid of death, but that they are still alive. In fact, when a person encounters a major trauma, they will find that living well is the thing that needs courage and wisdom the most.

The case of Bao Yuming's sexual assault on her adopted daughter has aroused the attention of the whole society. When people strongly criticized Bao, they were most worried about how to protect their adopted daughter Laner. On April 13, the Supreme Procuratorate's Ministry of Public Security jointly supervised Bao Yuming's case. Hope that the dawn of justice can illuminate the future path of the victims, and there will be no next Fang Siqi.