"Red Sorghum" Lian'er: Take the initiative to commit himself to Yu Zhanao, revealing why "Uncle Control" is so rampant!

"Red Sorghum" Lian'er: Take the initiative to commit himself to Yu Zhanao, revealing why "Uncle Control" is so rampant!

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In the TV series "Red Sorghum", there is a special emotion, namely Lian'er and Yu Zhanao. As Jiu'er's maid, Lian'er was raised by her brother and sister-in-law, and was taken to the single family compound by Madam Wu. He could have lived peacefully and peacefully in this way. Unfortunately, there are always unpredictable emotions in troubled times.

's impression of Yu Zhanao, Lian'er went from imagination to reality, from Jiu'er was about to break up with Yu Zhanao to find a gap, followed Yu Zhanao up the mountain. From the bottom of his heart, Yu Zhanao only uses Lian'er as an emotional substitute, but Lian'er feels like a treasure. The ending seems to be set, that is to be abandoned.

If you look at reality in the opposite direction, those women who have uncles in their hearts can probably find traces from the lover. All "uncle-controlled" women are directly caused by unsound factors in their personality. In terms of personality, Uncle Fan control, just like the continuation of the Electra complex in psychology, is an expression of lack of paternal love. In the love and marriage market, even if there is a woman like a lover who actively commits herself to an older man, it is mostly a tool to become a man, which will eventually lead to tragedies. But the people in it do not know that their risks are coming.

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Lover takes the initiative to commit himself to Yu Zhanao and regards him as a great hero. This is a total cult of personality. Under such a adoration, everything about him is good, but such goodness is what he imagined, which is a fiction. space. In fact, anyone in love, especially those in secret love, has such a complex.

For example, when Xu Zhimo was obsessed with Lin Huiyin, Lin had something to say. She knew clearly that Xu Zhimo was obsessed with Lin Huiyin, not Lin Huiyin in reality. So rejected his pursuit. From here, Lin Huiyin is wise. In the

TV series, Lian'er sees Yu Zhan'ao as flawless and perfect. Therefore, when following Yu Zhanao, everything she did was obeyed his arrangements. But it is this arrangement that has created its own cheap label.

It can be seen that there are fantasy elements in the women controlled by the uncle. Although the uncle's behavior seems to be very good, he is indeed trustworthy, but the uncle is not perfect, and we must realize this in order to avoid tragedy.

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Love and marriage should be the existence of personality equivalence. Once out of balance, it often fails. Lian'er is obsessed with Yu Zhanao, this is wishful thinking. She put herself too low and lost herself, so she was abandoned.

On the contrary, Jiuer is an autonomous person who can prove his existence. It is precisely because of this that respect can be won, not a man's vassal, otherwise the fate will be doomed long ago. Uncle

is very arrogant, but he didn't catch a glimpse of a real man. No one is perfect, especially a man. The women controlled by the uncle are actually hard to eliminate. Not only is the age factor, but also psychologically incomplete. The TV series just give us a chance to reflect.