Emma Watson once said on International Women's Day: "What we are fighting for is not women's rights, but the freedom of both sexes." The
movie "Jin Zhiying Born in 1982" won the box office champion as soon as it was released, but it also caused huge controversy. Arouse the evaluation of polarization between men and women. Male score: 2.59, female score as high as 9.51. The famous Korean girl group member-Pei Zhuxuan, was criticized and boycotted by the entire South Korean network just because she recommended this original book, declaring her "feminist". Is this movie
really a radical feminist movie? The
film is adapted from the novel of the same name "Jin Zhiying Born in 1982". The text of the novel is simple and simple, and it is even considered a novel whose social value is far greater than that of literature. It tells the story of a girl who lived from childhood to marriage and childbirth for more than 30 years. There is no ups and downs, no counterattack, just an ordinary living story.
is such an ordinary girl. Through the nonsense after the postpartum depression, she can tell the depression and pain behind it that seems to be a matter of course, like Maimang stings every woman's heart a little bit. Many netizens even ran in tears: "This is not a novel at all. Our sisters, mothers, and grandma also live like this!"
Kim Ji Young is not only in Korea, but they are in every corner of the world. They are daughters who are not taken seriously, women in the workplace with narrow ascent channels, wives who work hard at home, and mothers who nurture children. They struggle to support between various identities. They are perfect identities, but they are not the only ones. Yourself.
Stripped of their identities, women are also flesh-and-blood individuals, but they urgently need to establish a sense of self-identity, bravely take the initiative to speak up, and be seen by the world; but change is two-way, family, school, workplace, and society should work together to improve their plight .
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01 The women behind Jin Zhiying
When she was a child, she and her sister ate her brother's milk powder, which would be severely taught by grandma. The younger brother’s things are not something that cats and dogs can touch; it is delicious. She shared one share with her sister and one share with her younger brother; she shared a room with her sister, and her younger brother lived in a room alone.
was bullied by a male classmate in elementary school, but the teacher told her that it was a boy's way of liking you. When
was in junior high school, there was an exhibitionist who often exposed her body to female classmates in the building opposite to the classroom. A few bold girls tied the abnormal five-flowers to the police station. They were punished by the school and penalized, writing a review and self-reflection. When
was in high school, I was followed by boys in the cram school for late self-study and asked my father to pick him up at the station. But my father scolded her instead. Why did she go to a place so far for tuition, why talk to strangers, why the skirt is so short?
is actively working hard at work and has excellent abilities, but for good projects with growth potential, the company still gives priority to the boy who is "unreliable" by his predecessors. Of course, sexual harassment, drinking table culture and other bad habits are not rare.
also received higher education. In the end, between family and career, Jin Zhiying compromised to become a full-time mother.
was a rare free time, pushing her children to drink coffee in the park, and was joked by white-collar workers: "Mom bugs who only depend on her husband for survival"
saw Are these things very familiar? Jin Zhiying grew up like this. A man has absolute dominance in the family, even if he is a little boy who is still young. Regardless of any problems encountered, girls must first reflect on their words and deeds. If the family needs sacrifice, women will give priority to compromise. Women’s sacrifices and compromises have resulted in an orderly family order. Men take it for granted, and women work hard to support them. However, they themselves think that women should bear for their lives, but they continue to run into walls and get frustrated.
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02 Self-confidence and self-love can save himself
The heavy life in the novel made Jin Zhiying finally depressed after giving birth, and occasionally mental disorders would change roles.
She will turn into a senior sister who died because of the birth of a second child. She patted her husband on the shoulder and said: "Recently, Zhiying may be a little exhausted because she is in a stage where her body is gradually recovering but her heart is very anxious. Remember to tell her often. : "You are great" "Thank you" for these words. "
She will also become a mother when she prepares meals for family gatherings at her mother-in-law’s house during holidays. She turns into a mother: "Oh, mother-in-law, in fact, every time our family’s Zhiying is over a big holiday, her whole body aches." Is it important for your family to be reunited? Except for the holidays, we have no other chance to take a good look at the three children. Since your daughter can go back to her natal family, we should also let our daughter come back."
Jin Zhiying finally expressed his inner desires through the status of a school sister and mother, but after reading the book, there is always a sense of powerlessness with a fist on the cotton. Why can't they speak out in their own capacity? 's lack of parental love, maternal love, and the attention of the outside world, "not worthy of being loved" has been deeply imprinted in their hearts. Therefore, the awakening of true self-awareness can make them act.
Every time I want the best things, I bravely speak out
Every time I am treated unfairly, I will desperately shout
Every time I am asked to give up, I will keep my boundaries
Let yourself behave The woman herself is alive, don't try to resist all the heaviness secretly.
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In the movie "The Most Beautiful Distance in the World", the heroine is a typical middle-aged version of Jin Zhiying. She has to take care of her mother-in-law with Alzheimer's, her husband whose career is not going well, and an extramarital affairs. Daughters, sons who are ineffective, and brothers who love gambling. Being teased by life every day, I have to endure physical pain at the same time. She told her husband, who is a doctor, to go to their hospital for an examination. Her husband is not willing to go with her, so she can go to the pharmacy to buy some medicine.
finally went to the examination until the pain was too much to bear. It turned out that the bladder cancer was advanced. Husband regretted it and told her that you could have been a little bit selfish, and you wouldn't have ruined yourself like this. In the last two months of
's life, the family members discovered the hardships of most of her life, and began to support and sympathize with each other. After her death, everyone in the family learned to take the initiative, and the disorderly and chaotic life returned to peace.
If she had long been aware and believed that everyone could take on their own responsibilities, and that she was happy and healthy to bring her family a sense of security, tragedy would not happen.
"There are few people in the world who can walk" said: "The ideal way of marriage is to nurture both parties at the same time and promote the common growth of two hearts. Both parties have the responsibility to take care of the rear camp and pursue their own progress. We must climb to the pinnacle of life to realize personal values. "True love means loving others, but also self.
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03 I saw and admitted that this was the first step to change
The world has changed a lot, but many rules or habits are still sticking to it. If you want to change, this is not Jin Jiying alone. This can be done because the culture, economy, and social environment jointly responded to their shouts. At the end of the
movie, Jin Zhiying became a writer. However, the ending in the original novel is that Jin Zhiying is still receiving mental treatment. I think this is the reality. Most women in life are still in a difficult situation and they need to be seen in large numbers.
However, it is gratifying that such a women’s life report has caused such an uproar, indicating that more and more women in this era are beginning to awaken. They take the initiative to speak and discuss, and take the initiative to let the society see. This is the beginning of change. . A grain of ash from the
era, falling on a person, is a mountain. But a glimmer of light from the times, shining on an individual, can illuminate her entire life. Every woman in the world uses her intelligence and hard work to live what she wants, adding new strength to this beam of light.
sincerely hope that every daughter in the world can have a bigger and more infinite dream.
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