"Our group of parents are'parents who never look down on', that is, you are not at ease to death, because you will always have something to remember." The "group of parents" referred to here by are the parents of mentally handicapped children. , And Wang Ji was thinking about her son.
31-year-old cooperating with Jiang Wen, starring in the "Beijing People in New York" directed by Zheng Xiaolong and Feng Xiaogang. When this drama was broadcast, it could be said that it was popular all over the country, and Wang Ji also won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Female in one fell swoop. The protagonist can be said to be famous overnight.
But behind this glamour, Wang Ji also has a lifetime pain. This pain point is her mentally retarded son. This can be said to be Wang Ji's most sad thing.
Wang Ji was born in Beijing at the age of 31 and became famous overnight
. She is a typical Beijing girl, straightforward and sincere. Wang Ji was born in a red background. Her father was in the Guizhou branch. Because her mother was busy with work and had no time to take care of the children, Wang Ji and her sister were in a state of stocking since they were young.
Wang Ji joined the People’s Liberation Army Art Troupe when she was 13 years old. When she was 18 years old, she was spotted by a Hong Kong company. She was electrocuted for the first time on the big screen and participated in "Treasure Beyond the Great Wall". It was also her first performance experience. I like acting and want to be admitted to a formal acting school for systematic study.
At first, Wang Ji was planning to take the exam for Chinese opera or Nortel, but in the end he accidentally ran into the Beijing People's Art Institute and became classmates with Song Dandan. Although his major is acting, Wang Ji likes to try different industries to bring her feeling, so Wang Ji hosted the entertainment show of Beijing TV in 1985. After
finished acting in 1987, Wang Ji planned to leave Renyi and go to America. At that time, Wang Ji and her husband Gao Feng were in a state of affection. The two met in the art troupe. They could be said to be childhood sweethearts. For Wang Ji's idea of breaking into the United States, Gao Feng expressed support. The two had agreed that Wang Ji would go first, and Gao Feng followed, but Wang Ji went there. After the United States, Gao Feng could not get a visa for various reasons.
In desperation, the two endured lovesickness and were forced to separate for three years. It is said that long-distance love is difficult to achieve a positive result, but Wang Ji and her husband are a good example. Although they are far apart, their relationship has not diminished in the slightest. After Gao Feng got his visa in 1991, he immediately flew to the United States to marry Wang Ji.
Their daughter Gao Liwen was born in the same year. After that, the couple successfully obtained the green card. In order to improve the quality of life, Gao Feng set up a trading company. Wang Ji naturally faded out of the big screen and assisted her husband in business. Naturally, difficulties were unavoidable on the road to entrepreneurship. During these difficult times, the couple had disputes many times because of their different opinions. Even so, neither of them mentioned divorce.
Perhaps out of love for performance, Wang Ji returned to Beijing at the age of 31, looking for opportunities to perform. At that time, Feng Xiaogang and Zheng Xiaolong's "Beijing People in New York" was collecting actors to prepare for filming. My friend Chen Daoming recommended Wang Ji to the director, so he had the role of "Achun". The "Achun" part of
seems to be tailored for Wang Ji. The wandering life in the United States for many years fits the theme of the whole show. So more often, Wang Ji is not acting, but showing her to the audience. Real life in a foreign country.
Two weeks after the filming of the crew, Wang Ji was sent to the hospital due to severe stomach pain. After an examination, she found out that she was pregnant. However, the doctor also admitted that Wang Ji’s situation was a foreboding because of the filming pressure and the heavy work of the crew. Fortunately, there was no problem this time. The child was saved, but Wang Ji was also advised to suspend work. Although
got the doctor's order, Wang Ji still couldn't give up this opportunity, or there were some flukes. When filming, Wang Ji often stayed up late to catch up with the progress. When the director called out a card, Wang Ji would squint in the chair next to him. During pregnancy, his appetite was not good, so Wang Ji lost a lot of weight.
Kung fu pays off, and the stars don’t ask for travellers. With the popularity of "Beijing People in New York", the series set the highest ratings on CCTV, and the actors in the series also became popular. Wang Ji is no exception. Not only won the award for "A Chun with style" , It's still overnightname. Self-blame after
became famous
Following the hit of "Beijing People in New York", his son Gao Xiaofei was also born smoothly. Because he was still filming when he was pregnant, and often turned upside down day and night, Wang Ji has always been worried about the sequelae of the baby after birth.
Wang Ji said frankly on the show after many years: When filming, she always touched her belly and let the child carry it. If there is another chance to come back, she will take good care of the child and be a qualified mother.
When the child was born, there was no lack of arms or legs, Wang Ji was still very happy, as if the stone in her heart finally fell. As a result, when the child was one and a half years old, one night suddenly there was a shofar wind, watching the child foaming at the mouth and twitching his limbs. Wang Ji was frightened and just kept praying for the child.
After a doctor’s examination, the child had epilepsy and mental retardation. This is also because Wang Ji was too desperate when filming, and malnutrition hurt the body. That’s why the child is in this state. Hearing this result Wang Ji was already crying without tears, and now it was too late to say anything.
At this time, Wang Ji regrets nothing, except self-blame, but grief. Because of the child, Wang Ji's temper is getting irritable and often quarrels with her husband. Out of guilt, Wang Ji has also taken the initiative to propose a divorce, but every time Rejected by her husband, Wang Ji rekindled her fighting spirit after seeing her husband's persistence, holding her child and searching for a famous doctor.
In order to treat his son’s illness, the family spent most of his savings, and the husband’s company benefits were not good, so Wang Ji began to take the show frantically. With the efforts of the family, the son finally reduced the number of convulsions, so Wang Ji again I started to take my son to do mental rehabilitation training. Although the intelligence is not the same as that of ordinary children, a little better than before is enough to comfort Wang Ji.
In the stage of crazy reception, Wang Ji received more than 100 plays, such as "Skybridge Dream", "Pink", "Thunderstorm", "Wrong Love", etc. Although it was on the basis of making money, Wang Ji still did not Forget the quality of the script, all the plays received are of good quality.
It is worth mentioning that in 2008, a thing that made Wang Ji very unpleasant. That year, Wang Ji took his son and his elderly mother on a plane. Because the son was very energetic and the cockpit was not closed, the son wanted to get into the cockpit. The captain drove Wang Ji and his mother and son off with "unsafe factors." aircraft.
felt that his son had been insulted, so Wang Ji tearfully accused Air China. At the time, there was a lot of noise: "Why do you want to happen to a child and an old man with intellectual disability? Why do you treat them this way?"
It has become a lifetime regret, but Wang Ji’s daughter Gao Liwen has developed very well. Not only did she win the 2011 New York Chinese Miss "Most Photogenic" Miss, she also co-starred with Andy Lau in "I Know Women's Heart" at the age of 20. Collaborated with the article "Young Marshal", although the star road is not a big fire, but it is still smooth.
Because of her daughter’s straightforward character, Wang Ji is always worried that her daughter will offend and be hurt in the entertainment industry, but at the same time, Wang Ji also bluntly said that she will protect her daughter and fulfill her responsibilities as a mother.
Regarding the 26-year-old son who is mentally handicapped, Wang Ji still blames herself: I am not bad, I only rely on myself. It is because I am pregnant and filming movies that my son has become like this. Perhaps the son's affairs will be Wang Ji's lifetime pain. Concluding remarks
Whether it was the foreign adventure before fame or the overnight fame, Wang Jidong had never complained about other things, but he was the only one who complained from the beginning to the end. After experiencing the ups and downs of life, now Wang Ji Can better understand the suffering of the world.
all say that women are weak when they are mothers, and children are both weak and armor. Whether it is Wang Ji or Ni Ping, we have experienced the selfless love of mothers for children.