For the movie "囧Mom", many friends have a feeling when watching it, that is, being on the scene.
especially when watching this movie with parents, the feeling will be stronger.
For example, "Mom thinks you need to drink water", "Mom thinks you are hungry", "Mom thinks you are full", "Mom thinks you are tired" and so on.
After puberty, we who go out to grow up and grow up still often receive our parents' concern in this regard. Sometimes
gets bored.
There have been many views in recent years. These views think that this behavior of parents is a kind of "selfish" behavior, because they have not regarded us as children as independent individuals, and still regard us as "ignorant babies." .
and even we ourselves sometimes agree with this point of view and use it to quarrel with our parents, but the result of the quarrel is often very unpleasant.
This year’s Spring Festival is a bit special. Many of us have spent a whole Spring Festival with our parents. This year’s movie Spring Festival is also very special. We watched the movie "囧Mom" on the headline for free with our parents. When
watched "囧Mom" with our parents for the first time, we had some "quarrels". The topic of
is the question of "eat and sleep". Let me restore the dialogue scene at that time.
Mom: Do you also bother me like this every day.
me: That's for sure. Mother
: Shameless bastard, is it easy to get up so early every day to cook for you!
Me: Uh, watching movies, watching movies.
Mom: Take a good look at how Xu Zheng treats his mother. You have to be half patient with him.
Me: Uh.
This is a short conversation I had at the time, and there are many similar fragments throughout.
Actually, after watching "囧Mom" for the first time, I didn't feel much, but after watching the second time, my thoughts changed a little.
When I watched it for the second time, I had already left my hometown. I watched "囧Mom" silently in a home without parents.
had tears in his eyes during the whole viewing this time, and he understood two simple truths.
1, only mother is good in the world, of course, father is good.
We are tired of the nagging of our parents, but think about it, except for our parents, no one else would nag us like this.
Who will make breakfast for you day after day, besides accepting your bad temper and calling you to get up?
Who will carefully think about what fruit to eat after you finish your meal?
Who else would say when you are the most helpless, "It's okay, come back first!"
think about it, really only parents can do this completely.
is like the 囧 mother in "囧囧", she talks, but the logic is very clear, and she arranges the little things in life in every detail.
And we are often like Ivan in "囧Mom", we are always tired of caring for our parents and try to get rid of their "nagging circle".
Quietly think about it, after leaving their "nagging circle", who else will nag you?
2, don't quarrel, quietly help them
. As mentioned above, parents and children must have different views, which can easily lead to quarrels.
In many cases, there is no right or wrong point of view between the two sides, it is just a question of position.
is like the 囧 mother in "囧 Mom". As a mother, in the past decades of life, she has long been accustomed to the care mode, that is, to take care of children.
Parents really don’t know that their children are independent individuals. It’s just this habit that they are reluctant to discard. This is the last way they leave to their children.
This habit of parents can only exist in their children, and children can only find this love in their parents.
it is unique!
Therefore, when facing disagreements with your parents, don’t quarrel with your parents. If your parents’ opinions are indeed wrong, please listen quietly.Finish, and then find another way to help them.
The above two principles are very simple and many people know them, but they can only understand deeply when they are in a foreign country. I don't know if you have a joke?
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