Once wanted to give up Jay Chou! Kunling: There is a certain sense of insecurity about feelings

once wanted to give up Jay Chou! Kunling: There is a certain sense of insecurity about feelings

Kunling said that the current self is on the way of growing up, learning to experience the world, feel people, and see others through the accumulation and contact of life experience. When I saw her, I also saw herself.

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Traveling is a life experience

I think Cuba has upgraded me to another level. Kun Ling said. I used to think that traveling was a kind of relaxation, so I focused on eating well and staying well. Of course, I felt that everything needed to be comfortable for vacation. However, after I arrived in Cuba, I suddenly felt that the world is so big.

because it is different from the world I have known before, because it is really not that convenient. Kun Ling smiled. Because where I used to go, I suddenly wanted something to eat, or wanted to know where is the popular check-in point, just slide off the phone to find it, but the Internet here..., hehehe, so you have to Look for it yourself, try it yourself, you may step on thunder, or you may have unexpected surprises. You have to experience it with your own feelings to know yes or no, right or wrong. We are too used to let the Internet help us decide many things, but when you can't rely on it, you can only experience it yourself willingly.

From the first day I didn’t have the Internet, I was very panicked. I slowly got used to the slow pace here. Then I started to enjoy the life without the shackles of the Internet. I started to truly feel this country frozen by time and all kinds of antiques. Cars running in the street, loud music from street corners and people dancing casually, oncoming smiles that greet you enthusiastically, here, you will feel that the distance between people is very close.

Havana, Cuba, Kunling dances freely in the sun, looking up at the sky and overlooking the city. She said that the world still has a lot to know and learn. She wants to experience and feel slowly and truly.

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Now she is walking on the way to grow up

"It's also because of...", her sentence stopped, thinking about what kind of words Only then can I express my thoughts appropriately. "Is it called catering? As long as I used to follow everyone's ideas, even if I feel weird in my heart, I feel not sure, but because of the pressure of time and the pressure of people, I will follow along. If everyone is like this If it’s easier to handle things, so be it, but after seeing the results, you will regret it again. Then why do you have to take on things you don’t want because of the urgency? You can choose to slow down and not take that step. Ah, don't you always say that mature people don't regret things? I may not be mature enough now, but I am at least on the way to growing up."

I think courage should be that you set a threshold for one thing first, but you have a kind of enthusiasm and dare to try something you think you can't. The greatest courage in my life so far is probably to get married at a young age, marrying Jay under everyone’s skeptical eyes, I once wanted to give up during the relationship, but it might be because of my personality. Momentum, it may be that I regard love as my heaven, or I want to have a Wonderful Family with the person I love, so I said to myself, why not.

My biggest optimism is that the sky will not collapse because of some trivial things. As long as you are alive, you have a chance. It may be due to the divorce of your parents since childhood. There is actually a certain sense of insecurity about feelings and a certain pessimism about feelings, but Fortunately, my significant other gave me a lot of love, so I don’t feel upset. When

is in a low mood, I like to read books that are very positive, and I can often find the strength to stand up from them. Then I really feel that as long as I live on that day, there is still a chance to come back, and giving up is the real end.

Kunling: You can make yourself proud to become a real sense of accomplishment.

always wanted to prove yourself, so I cared very much about other people’s opinions and hoped to break everyone’s stereotypes of her, but slowly realized To, caring about the people who love you think of you more than caringIt’s not that the people around you think about you are important, "Because what those people know you is the you they imagined, not necessarily the real you"; "It’s too difficult to control others, rather than change. Others, it’s better to let go of yourself and put yourself in a comfortable state"; "I think it’s really important to be comfortable, because only if you feel right and good in your heart, is your own sense of accomplishment; it can make your heart truly lead Only those who are proud will become the real sense of accomplishment." If

becomes an interviewer, Kunling said that the question she most wants to ask Kunling is, everything seems to be on track, and what else she wants to try or break through. The answer she gave herself was, yes, I want to learn psychology, which I really thought about.

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Because of participating in the reality show "How do you look so good", she feels that she has experienced a big idea of ​​life Ascension, she used to live in a familiar and fixed world. Because of the reality show, she walked into the homes of different amateurs. In the events or difficulties encountered in their lives, she saw the needs of people and saw the broken pieces. In my heart, I saw that many people obviously started from love, but because of their attitude and angle, love became a sharp knife to cut wounds... This show puts a lot of pressure and challenges on me. I am not afraid to see an unhappy world, but I am afraid that I will be unjust, and I am afraid that I cannot give others the comfort that they really need. And after being deeply involved in many problems, I really feel that everyone should have a psychiatrist. After all, there will be too many encounters in life, and we don’t need to be as strong as we thought. Comfort yourself in the way we feel, because maybe, in fact, there can be a better outlet.

【Writer　许丽玉】