My heart has a thick barrier, and there are many guards standing outside, all to prevent sadness. However, your presence made the soldiers put down their guard and easily melted my arms. My heart is your captive.
@诚永恒
"Father's Love" This play mainly tells the 50-year love life of the navy officer Jiang Defu and the capitalist Miss An Jie who met, knew, fell in love, and stayed together. The enlightenment that Jiang Defu and An Jie’s 50-year love and marriage experience showed to people is also the most appropriate experience of all love and marriage life. The play is well received by the audience, and the 2020 Spring Festival Gala will be staged on the Spring Festival Gala in the form of a comedy sketch, becoming one of the highlights.
An Jie said:
It’s not weird if you say that this fate is strange. It’s not windy or rainy, and the windy and sunny will make fun of people. Who would have thought that An Jie could marry a day without a book. The countryman who had read had a stomach full to give birth to him.
Marriage is a complex of moral, ethical, secular concepts, responsibility and responsibility under the framework of love. With the changes of the times, it has gradually evolved from the stable shape of the past to the more deformed. But no matter how evolved and deformed, it is always hard to escape the pain of adapting to each other.
01. Love and marriage are inherent contradictions. How to resolve this contradiction is a subject that couples must resolve.
This plot is based on the love and marriage of naval officer Jiang De and his lover An Jie as the plot axis. Jiang Defu was highly regarded and loved by Principal Enshi Cong. In order to match Jiang Defu's remarriage after the divorce, Principal Enshi Cong and his lover took advantage of the National Day ball to force Jiang Defu to go to the ball to meet fate.
Jiang Defu, who was born in poverty, was disgusted with dancing as a bourgeois thing in his heart. It was a coincidence that Jiang Defu fell in love with the beautiful young girl An Jie at the ball.
An Jie is a capitalist-born eldest lady. She likes to read classics and longs for love as described in "Anna Karenina". So, when she looks at the object, she doesn’t look down on her pocket. Two pens, fake intellectuals. Jiang Defu moved An Jie's heart with his sincere love. The differences in background, knowledge level, and living habits of the two will inevitably increase the difficulty of integration in married life.
Everyone who lives in the world will have his own personality. The differences between people are called personality differences. Two people living together is equivalent to "a pot of trouble", and the two contradictions have to be entangled by marriage. At the same time, as the saying goes: "It's not that friends don't get together".
"Happy marriages are all similar, but unfortunate marriages are different." Love is like water, marriage is more like a boat. No wind and wave boat can sail smoothly, but with a wind wave boat, it will sink. Two people's marital personality complements each other to calm down, but insisting on personality is only war. A marriage will always vacillate in peace and war, seeking balance.
In my opinion, the ups and downs, twists and turns of love between Jiang Defu and An Jie in this drama are like a boat, experiencing ups and downs, risking sinking at any time, and enduring the hardships of married life, telling about the previous marriage The hard-to-read sutra of family
02. The process of love and marriage is to endure the pain of resolving and alleviating conflicts
Marriage is like a new car that has just been bought. The dealer will tell you that this car must have a low speed of thousands of miles. It is the running-in period, when driving a new car, like a newlywed, cannot be driven by temperament. No matter how beautiful the marriage is, it always walks into the whirlpool of happiness with mysterious hope.
One year of madness, three years of itching, seven years of pain, after more than ten years of long running-in period. Some people can cultivate a positive result without any surprises; but how many marriages are in the vortex of marriage. All marriages entering the palace of marriage are singing a concerto of joy, anger and sorrow accompanied by pots and pans amidst bumps and grievances.
Love is meaningful and marriage is interesting. Love is an ideal and marriage is a reality. To mix the two together, you must experience the phoenix nirvana before you can be reborn from the ashes.
In this plot, the marriage life is more miserable because of mutual adaptation. As a military officer, Jiang Defu was an officer who grew up from an ignorant old man. He was grinding his marriage with An Jie.In the process of rebuilding, he almost experienced the pain of "reborn", such as asking Jiang Defu to wash his face, feet, and "body" before going to bed, making his comrades laugh as " three washes husband ". The process of Jiang Defu's transformation also made An Jie break his heart for her husband, and made his capitalist eldest lady condescend to become the wife of the old and crude officer.
In my opinion, the foundation of love and marriage is loyalty, trust and compromise. And two people seem to love each other, but they are not willing to give up part of their lives for each other. This is not long-term love.
03, life is really like this cup of strong wine, without repeated refinement, it will not be so delicious
how beautiful a happy marriage is. Everyone who lives in the world longs for a happy marriage. However, reality is not a fairy tale, nor are we the so-called prince charming and princess. We are just ordinary people, we live in this realistic society, and happy marriages are not easy to get.
We must know that in this world, no one can get the happiness of marriage casually. At this time, we should understand that when two people are together, our marriage happiness also has to go through the pains of the running-in period.
Everyone is a unique individual in this world. We can never ask others to obey ourselves in marriage. Only when two people accommodate each other can a beautiful marriage withstand the painful experience of the running-in period and finally Get a happy rebirth from the fire of marriage.
All happy marriages have to experience crushed self, and then merge into one. It is normal for two people to be together in a marriage to have conflicts. We must learn to adapt to each other, understand each other, and consider issues for each other. A truly happy marriage is not 1+1=2, but two people can subtract half and become a body.
summarizes:
, the plot of "Parents Love", although it only interprets the 50-year marriage experience of Jiang Defu and An Jie, it represents the mutual adaptation and mutual adaptation experienced by thousands of love marriages. The "Phoenix Nirvana" of marriage and the rebirth from the ashes.
Why is the divorce rate of modern people so high? It is because they can't stand the pain of adapting to each other after marriage, which has led to many marriages breaking up and rebirth. . whirlpool and really be able to withstand the test of marriage to get a happy marriage .
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