As more and more marriageable people have been slow to enter marriage, the single group nicknamed "leftover men and women" has grown stronger. TV series with leftover men and women became a popular theme around 2012.
"Big Man When Marriage" was released on in October 2012. It is sincere and truthful. uses the method of polyline projection to fully explain the difficulty of "being married". won the 2012 "Top Ten TV Series of the Year". The editor and director are ingenious. Through white-collar Cao Xiaoqiang’s trivial mortal affairs, 6 top girls of different identities, different statuses, and different backgrounds all have a feeling for the food sales supervisor who is paid 10,000 yuan a month, because in this flashy society, find one It's hard to be steadfast and quiet, and Cao Xiaoqiang is the gold of the sand.
The honest and kind Cao Xiaoqiang (Xu Zheng) is a sales manager of a food company. He does not have a prominent family background and his job is ordinary. I was living a peaceful and well-behaved life, but all this broke as my friends and classmates around me got married and had children.
The 35-year-old "leftover man" Cao Xiaoqiang became a lonely man. As the only child in the family, his mother was even more anxious "to go to the doctor at random."
Cao Xiaoqiang followed up with the strong-looking sword Ma Dan Guqing (Mei Ting), the innocent post-90s teacher Wu Xiaoliu (Cao Yuan), the realistic material Cai Weilan (Ma Su), and the foreign company executive Xu Ruoyun (Car). Xiao), Zhao Kai (Song Jia), a workaholic who only has a career, and Liu Chenxi (Zhang Xinyi), a divorced old classmate, unfolds a love story that ends without a disease.
In the mighty blind date team, can Cao Xiaoqiang finally embrace the beauty and step into the palace of marriage?
In my opinion, Cao Xiaoqiang, the protagonist of "Big Man When Marriage", uses a unique screen image to show an affordable man who is still playing alone at the age of 35: his parents are anxious, and he is not quiet. His life is full of ups and downs. And the classic of this play is that no one in the play is "fake", "make-up", "in the martial arts drama", sincerely using very realistic stories and vivid characters to show The "big man should be married" problem.
He is realistic, he is sincere, he is steadfast, he will face the current situation where he still needs to repay the mortgage even though his salary is good, he will not delusion about beauty beyond his own ability, nor will he belittle himself , he just works hard to find happiness.
is just like Mao’s song: "A good person like me should have lived a splendid life, how come in more than 20 years, still floating in the sea of people" In this article, let’s appreciate Cao Xiaoqiang’s first love, The ups and downs between the strong appearance and the fragile knife horse Dan Guqing:
- Cao Xiaoqiang and the world, men are difficult, good men are more difficult, Cao Xiaoqiang is difficult, Cao Weiye is very simple
- Cao Xiaoqiang and family, every love There is a mother behind them, who are the incarnations of family resistance
- Cao Xiaoqiang and Gu Qing, strong girls are insecure, it is hard to believe that it is not a man who loves
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- loves each other: love comes from two people, the world view Differences will condense and disperse the power.
- Separation: always defeats love, and always destroys love. They are often suspicious of
- . Question: How can people who love each other be honest, and white lies are exposed. , Is the drug cited of suspicion
- final chapter: People who love each other are not necessarily together, nor do they have to be remembered for life, loved and forgotten, just like Cao Xiaoqiang’s plaster
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z3 Even more difficult, Cao Xiaoqiang is difficult, Cao Weiye is very simple1. Cao Xiaoqiang’s emotional world is difficult, and a "good man" needs to be responsible for the world
Cao Xiaoqiang meets all the characteristics of being an "affordable man" and has a stable income. Reluctantly entered the middle class. Work hard, treat people sincerely, and have a high tolerance for parents and relatives. Treat feelings loyally,I have some persistence and always want to find a soul mate who can fight together. But such a man was left.
came home alone at night, not only had to face Cao Xiaoqiang, who was in the cold, but also had to deal with the three times a day of the mother who was out of town and the endless persecution, forced laughter and the mother's gagging, behind a 35-year-old "economic The difficulties of "applicable to men" are evident. If
is a man with bluffing talk, or a man with different appearances, as long as Cao Xiaoqiang has more scum points on his body, he may have already left the single, but the reality is really like this. is like an article, lacking metaphors and exaggerations, the whole article is straightforward, and it is not a beautiful article. But the reality is that good men can't have these, and it is difficult for Cao Xiaoqiang. This is one of the real pain points when the big man gets married. In reality, there are more men like this. This is also the place where is mentioned in the beginning of the show. In the play, does not have "fake", "facial makeup" or "protagonist" people.
2. Cao Weiye’s emotional world is very simple. To leave sincerity and to throw away responsibility is to remove the pain. The beauty of love
Cao Weiye is definitely a good brother that the public now generally hopes to have. I am very dedicated to my friends and always stand up in times of crisis. For Cao Xiaoqiang, there is only approval and support, and his attitude towards life is detached and independent, and he is Xiaoqiang's best buddy.
When Cao Weiye played the piano for Cao Xiaoqiang's nurse, that kind of pure love seemed so beautiful, and pure love was gorgeous. Cao Weiye's standard of love is also very simple, treat him sincerely, love if he still loves, and leave if he doesn't love. All that is left for the girl is beautiful love. Compared with Cao Xiaoqiang, Cao Weiye's emotional world is particularly simple.
Cao Xiaoqiang and his family: Behind every love there is a mother, the embodiment of family resistance
There is a mother behind every love. Cao Xiaoqiang's mother's attitude towards Gu Qing is a standard Chinese mother. was delighted and understood from the very beginning. To the gradual recognition and hospitality. Then slowly doubt and object. Until the end, after understanding the families of both sides, they resolutely opposed . This is a must-have package for many Chinese-style marriages, and there is a deep gap that even older age cannot cross.
1. Love is never a matter of two people.
Parents’ beloved sons have far-reaching plans. is an old saying more than a thousand years ago, and it is not outdated even now. Love is never a matter of two people. The love between Cao Xiaoqiang and Gu Qing went from budding to growing strong. Cao's mother, Cao's father, uncle, Gu's father, and cousin broke into their love world like a revolving lantern. Two older men and women under the gust of wind and rain that collided between families worked extremely hard to protect their rare love, love so hard.
When love needs to carry two families to sprint, the heavy pressure can make people exhausted. Love has never been a matter of two people. Throughout the ages, how could it be!
2. Every love that is cultivated into a true fruit needs to cross the two families
as a cousin but returned from the suburban school, setting off a wave again! He couldn't think about 10,000, but his cousin asked Gu Qing to discount twice. How could they still get together?
When Cao's mother heard her son's hand was discounted twice! exploded immediately, chasing Cao Xiaoqiang to find out what happened, Cao Xiaoqing couldn't hide it, so he had to recruit every one, five and ten. Although Gu Qing's family was burdened, Cao's mother accepted Gu Qing, but the fact that she beat people made her disagree with Cao Xiaoqiang's relationship with Gu Qing.
When Gu Dad made trouble with Cao's family for his daughter, Cao's mother insisted on asking the woman to buy a house! After disappeared for many days, Dad Gu came back with a large bag of change, saying that he had not slept for three days and made up one hundred thousand yuan to let his daughter buy a house. Just when Gu Qing gave his father a bowl of noodles, he found that Gu Feng could no longer wake up.
Every love that has been cultivated to a true fruit needs to face both families. It is marriage that lovers cross over, but love is left behind. When the flames of love swaying in the wind face the constant interactions of various family members,The flickering flame will still emit the light of love. In the face of all the right and wrong, Cao Xiaoqiang was determined and insisted on being with Gu Qing. He said nothing would let Gu Qing go. This moved Gu Qing, and both of them were unwavering...this is also love. The reason that makes people search hard, but do you think this is enough? It is far from enough. Tests from all quarters are already on the way.
Cao Xiaoqiang and Gu Qing: strong girls are insecure. It is hard to believe that it is not a man, but his
Gu Qing living alone with his sister. The independent life makes her strong and independent, with a hot personality. In order to prevent her sister from falling in love with Cao Xiaoqiang's cousin, Cao Xiaoqiang's arm was discounted twice by accident. And just in the constant contact under the farce, Cao Xiaoqiang has a good impression of Gu Qing, who is strong on the outside and weak on the inside.
1. Gu Qing is an independent person who protects herself and others. She loves sincerely and steadily.
There are few girls like Gu Qing. Perhaps it is the hard life and career that shaped her character. Without the weakness and willfulness of a little girl, she always tried her best to solve the problems in life. She did not rely on her parents, and took her younger sister until she was almost 30 years old. When such a girl loves a man, her love is sincere and steady.
Forget about the family conditions of both parties, Gu Qing is actually very suitable for Cao Xiaoqiang. Complementary personalities and consistent values are the standard good men and good girls. Life is as early as I saw it, what's the matter with the autumn wind painting a fan.
With the deep integration of the two families, various problems have surfaced one by one. This has nothing to do with love, but it is also closely related to .
2. The strong girl’s weak heart, peace of mind, Xiao Cao can calm his own heart.
Strong girls are often insecure. After fighting alone, they suddenly meet Cao Xiaoqiang, who is at ease, and both of them have experienced their sister’s puppy love, After a series of incidents such as escort, seeing parents, opposition from Cao's mother, and the death of his father, Gu Qing suddenly discovered that there is such a man who can give him peace of mind. I feel that I am no longer alone, and I feel more worried and at ease.
Love is such an unexpected encounter. When you meet someone who can give you peace of mind, what is there to be dissatisfied with for an older girl? Gu Qing firmly fell in love with this man.
3. It’s not Cao who doesn’t believe it, but the man
. Facing the opposition of Cao’s mother and the tossing of Dad Gu, the two quickly strengthened their love and determined to go down together . Cao Xiaoqiang moved out of the house and moved to the house of his best friend. Dating with Gu Qing frequently, Gu's father's death also came to an end temporarily. The seemingly peaceful love, but when the external force disappears, something goes wrong inside. The crux of
is also very straightforward. Gu Qing doesn't believe in men, and Cao Xiaoqiang and the other girls get rid of it a little. If they cause a little misunderstanding, they will subconsciously aggravate their inner world. After misunderstanding that Cao Xiaoqiang was watching a movie alone, this seed of suspicion finally broke out. Just like falling in love with peace of mind, when doubts make you no longer at peace, love faces a break.
In fact, Gu Qing also understood that it was not Cao Xiaoqiang or love that she did not believe, but men. Her mother and her father used real experiences to tell her that a man is unreliable, and even this unbelief has become the driving force for her to lead her sister through her own practice for so many years. It takes a long time for the anxiety in my heart to return to the gentleness of women. However, neither the older self nor Cao Xiaoqiang have such time. Ripe love can no longer comfort Gu Qing's heart, she chose to escape and leave.
Love: the power of love comes from two people, and the difference in worldviews will condense the power and disperse the power
draws like a spring mountain.
1. Resistance is often transformed into a boost
When Cao’s mother is very resolutely opposed, when Dad GuWhen making trouble at Cao’s house, the love between Cao Xiaoqiang and Gu Qing seemed to be precarious, but the hearts of the two were squeezed tightly together . A pair of older men and women, in the face of long-lost love, unanimously chose to know each other, stay with each other, and determined to love all the way.
Even the death of Dad Gu did not change their minds. Cao Xiaoqiang moved away from his home for love, and Gu Qing faced Cao's family directly for love. The remaining men and women can stick to their hearts and bravely pursue their love. I was moved by 's vivid interpretation of the toughness in love.
2. Without external force, the heart will chaotically block the influence of external force at
, can love be smooth sailing? The big man tells us when we get married, just the opposite. When you break through the cage to chase love, the kind of love that lacks blessings and family support pressure will follow you like a shadow . On the seemingly free surface, it silently magnifies the anxiety of the two loving partners.
has no pressure, but the internal forces of the two people will be offset, and they will no longer be the same as before. Maybe this is love. Everyone can't avoid vulgarity. How much love ends at this step?
3. Love is still a matter of two people, marriage is not
I love you, no reason. Love you just a very simple
Love is simple, but just a process of solving problems, the answer is marriage. Grandpa Mao once said: "Love that is not for the purpose of getting married is a hooliganism." How much love ends in marriage?
Love is a matter of two people, loving you is just simply liking you, nothing else. But love without family support loses its blessing, as if a rose lacking soil will eventually wither slowly.
Separation: who defeats love is always each other, and who destroys love are often suspected of
zz1. To defeat love, we have never been calm in the face of each other's z3. . He understands that Gu Qing needs a sense of security, and he also does a good job . But when the misunderstanding originates from each other, there is no other one who can support himself . It was painful to face Cao Xiaoqiang and Gu Qing, because this man penetrated her strength. Facing Gu Qing, Cao Xiaoqiang was helpless. Although he walked into the heart of this woman, he could not stand with her all the time. defeats love, always each other.
2. Destroying love is often suspicion
Sometimes we know that the other person loves us, but we still keep getting angry. He knew his character, but couldn't help but doubt it. It is not Cao Xiaoqiang that Gu Qing does not believe, but herself. Both her mother and her father used real experiences to tell her that men are not credible, and she could not persuade herself to calmly face possible misunderstandings. When the misunderstanding was solved, Gu Qing himself also clearly realized, "I will cause you harm!". But what can I know? She didn't have time to treat her heart, and Cao Xiaoqiang didn't have time. The relationship between the older men and women eventually broke down.
When Gu Qing stopped discussing and decided to leave Beijing, when Cao Xiaoqiang threw away the plaster with Gu Qing's contact information, this touching love finally came to an end. It started with plaster and ended with plaster, as if it were a reincarnation. And those who can destroy love with are all doubting .
Asked: How can someone who loves be honest, and the white lie is broken, it is the drug of suspicion that
Gu Qing finally chose to leave and take away his father's ashes. I can't help but feel confused, how can people who love each other be honest? Cao Xiaoqiang is already a standard honest person. Love needs a certain amount of space with each other. White lies should be the lubricant of love. But when it was punctured, it just becameDrug cited for Gu Qing's suspicion.
will sincerely bless each other at the end of each true love relationship, seems that only the other party can leave with confidence. Gu Qing found a new life and found a good job opportunity, but he also let go of Xiao Cao Xiaoqiang's last trace of worry, it is time to end! It seems that only this is a perfect love! Every end of
will be accompanied by new hope. Without hope, there will be no end. Hope is for myself and for my love.
Final Chapter: People in love are not necessarily together, nor do they have to be remembered for life, loved, and forgotten, just like Cao Xiaoqiang’s plaster
Xiaoqiang, Gu Xiaoqiang watching Cao Xiaoqiang in the background You are a good person, take care!" Doctor
tapped Cao Xiaoqiang's plaster gently, "Can I keep this plaster?" "What's the use of this, you keep it" "Oh, no use." Plaster, and finally plaster, this period of ordinary and vigorous feelings of older men and women brought us too much touch. People who love each other are not necessarily together, nor do they have to be remembered for life, once loved, and then forget each other!
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