has transparent and fair skin, gentle and decent behavior, two children around her, educated and polite... Not to mention us ordinary people, probably many female stars will envy her in such a good state! In the
show, she was impressed by her preservative-like beauty. Several artists who saw her with their own eyes also praised her again and again, saying that she is the most beautiful among the people I have met, and the ideal type of all Korean boys. .
But what makes me even more admired is her perseverance and courage to continue to cultivate herself and "root" for herself! And her super "down-to-earth" parenting method.
has to say that every time this appearance, the Chinese and South Korean media have caused a lot of fluctuations, saying that "that woman is here" and "Song Hye Kyo's most powerful competitor is back!" The female star, as a "master" and "mother" "The existence of "has some life wisdom, which is worthy of our reference and learning.
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48-year-old Li Yingai,
has become what all women want
For those born in the 90s and 95s, Li Yingai may be a bit strange, but when it comes to the hit drama "Dae Jang Geum" 16 years ago, I believe a lot Everyone has heard it slightly. How popular was
at the time? Its ratings (always maintained at about 50%), even the hottest "You from the Star" and "Descendants of the Sun" in recent years are beyond the reach (more than 20% and 30% respectively)...
even the whole nation The goddess Jun Ji-hyun also regards Lee Young-ae as a goddess! The two are good girlfriends, and Jun Ji-hyun also made up his mind to get married because of Lee Young-ae's happy life. The wedding dress and Lee Young-ae are the same brand, and it is said that Lee Young-ae recommended it!
Lee Young Ae participated in the wedding of Jeon Ji Hyun,
international big names also came to her door to beg her as an endorsement, captured the hearts of a large number of straight men, was elected "the most wanted woman."
Although she has been focusing on family rarely showing up in recent years, every time she shows up, she will inevitably cause a lot of sensation. For example, in the Miss Korea contest some time ago, Li Yingai, as a judge, was in the same frame with the young Korean girls in their early twenties. 48 The year-old Li Yingai has been crushed in all aspects both in appearance and temperament. Many netizens sighed and said: This year's Miss Korea, I will choose Lee Young Ae as the champion!
Last month, Lee Young-ae made an appearance at the Korean Blue Dragon Film Awards. At the age of 48, she is no different from "Jang Geum" back then. She has an excellent complexion, gentle and elegant.
In the past two years, a group of animated pictures when the 46-year-old attended an event, which surprised many people! In the photo, she was in a black dress, she was exquisite and thin, and she had a quiet smile on her white and compact face. As a homosexual, I couldn't help but look at it more. It was too beautiful!
Years are passing by, but Li Yingai seems to have taken preservatives, and she is still the "Da Jang Geum" that year. The only difference between
is that her eyes have become more gentle and firm, both feminine, and she can feel her calm and confident aura after years of precipitation.
This is also due to the changes brought to her by her mother's identity. She said in the program that family and children have given me a lot of nutrition.
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return to nature "slowly" raising a baby
simple and warm view of parenting is the best gift for children
although every time Li Yingai makes an appearance, she shines brightly. But after removing the halo of the superstar and returning to the family, she is an ordinary mother again. In the show, she would unconsciously chant about her children's homework, "My children's math is too difficult these days!" It can be seen that she really spends a lot of time with her children.
is different from professional brilliance. In parenting, Li Yingai has her own perseverance, is extremely simple and warm, and is also a high emotional intelligence mother.
1. Give your child plenty of company: “The child grows up only once. If you miss it, you will regret it in the future.”
2011,The 40-year-old Li Young-ae gave birth to a pair of twins in Seoul. The elder brother is Seung Kwon and the younger sister is Seung Bin. In an instant, the two children on the show were already 9 years old.
Although the older brother Seung-kwon came out only ten minutes earlier than his younger sister Seung-bin, there is a big difference in personality and hobbies between the two. The
brother Chengquan is introverted and rigorous, and wants to be a scientist when he grows up. He usually likes to read popular science books. The various knowledge he knows makes the four big brothers who are guests on the show feel ashamed. For example, octopus has three hearts. Using electric cars can reduce acid rain. He also knows the highest mountain and deepest in the world. Compared with the sea, which is higher.
sister Chengbin has an outgoing and lively personality. She wants to be a musical actor when she grows up. She feels that her mother's dream of becoming a singer will be fulfilled. After
got married and had children, Li Yingai basically revolved around the family. If not filming, the children's schedule is her schedule.
Send your child to school in the morning, and then go shopping for vegetables to cook for your child. When you see other parents, you will gather together to talk about parenting. At night, you will help your child with homework and sleep.
Li Yingai was at his best when his career development was at his best. After giving birth, he spent a lot of time with the children to fully grow up. In the highly competitive entertainment industry, such an approach will undoubtedly require great courage, but Li Yingai has his own balance:
before I get married I have already had a career in acting without complaints and regrets. I got married very late, so I hope I can spend more time with my children after marriage. The past few years are fleeting to me, and the number of years is not very meaningful to me. The role of
mother is irreplaceable by anyone, and the growth of the child is only once. We can only accompany the child as much as possible, and we will not regret it in the future.
2. Raising a baby "slowly" in nature, she said to give her children good childhood memories.
In order for the two children to grow up healthily, Li Yingai spent a lot of thought. During the child's childhood, the family moved to Yangpyeong, which is far from the metropolis, and moved back to Seoul after the child went to school. Because she felt that Seoul was too "busy and bustling" and would eat up the child's childhood. The aura that nature bestows on children cannot be given by cities.
She said: "I left Seoul to live here because of the children. I want to give them my hometown so that they can have good memories when they grow up."
Lee Young-ae and the children play in the countryside
sitting in nature In his arms, he personally cut the children’s hair
The children and their mother share the labor
There is a vegetable garden next to the house where they live. Li Yingai grows cabbage, radishes, green onions and other vegetables in the vegetable garden. He often takes the children to pick them and wash them with natural underground water as cooking materials.
She likes to cook for the children by herself. What she likes most is to hear the children say: "Mother's cooking is so delicious!"
Li Yingai’s parenting method is simple and grounded. She hopes that the children can do as much as possible. Get close to nature and return to growing in nature. "We didn't teach the children any special skills. In fact, we don't need anything special. Just let the flow follow the changes of the years."
3. Pay special attention to the politeness and education of children, so that they understand the "weight of language." In the
program, what is impressed is that Li Yingai always reminds children to pay attention to polite language. When the son introduces himself, he immediately reminds him to treat the guests with respect.
and the group went to the vegetable garden to pull radishes. The host cut a bit of radishes for the two children to taste. Li Yingai once again told the two children to "Thank you~"
Li Yingai was still gentle when he was educating the children, but There is already a strict language. Not only did she teach her children, but also took care of her children's emotions. In parenting, Li Yingai is also a mother with high emotional intelligence.
In addition to being polite, Li Yingai will also urge children to be grateful and express love.
She said that the distance between people is too far, so tell the child that it is best to express gratitude and love to others, so that others can really feel it.
As a mother, she does not have high demands on her children, and hopes that they will grow up healthy and happy, give them full of love, and teach them to express love.
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has never been disturbed by the outside world.
's indifferent and firm aura comes from past experiences.
Whether it is Lee Young Ae’s good state of adversity, or her child-raising “not hurry”, the passage of years does not seem to threaten her, she always Is able to follow his own life track. This calmness is enviable.
But in fact, her current "quiet years" and the blessing of time are inseparable from her previous efforts and perseverance.
1, returned to school twice, never stopped learning.
Li Yingai, born in 1971, has a rare high education in the entertainment industry.
is different from idols who are younger now. Li Yingai only entered the entertainment industry after receiving higher education. Graduated from Hanyang University, which is ranked second in Korea, majoring in German. After
entered the entertainment industry, she went back to school twice and received a master's degree and a doctorate degree in film and drama from the same school.
Whether she feels that she doesn’t have enough knowledge, she returns to school after filming a few movies, or is still going to get a PhD in the same year of marriage, it’s not difficult to see that Li Yingai is a person who doesn’t like ease and she is more willing to continue Improve yourself.
In 2009, 38-year-old Li Yingai and Korean-American entrepreneur Zheng Haoyong married
. It is obvious that she can rely on her appearance, but she strays from the internal and external style. It is also this persistent self-cultivation that has allowed her to be noticeable in her temperament and beauty in her nearly 50 years... Everything is born from within.
does not mean that we have to go to a degree in order to improve ourselves. What makes people sigh is the courage and perseverance of Li Yingai, willing to calm down and settle ourselves, and will not give up the pace of self-improvement because of age, identity, and fame.
2, don't be afraid of being late in your career, while waiting for opportunities while practicing kung fu.
Actually, during the first few years of Li Yingai's debut, she did not have a smooth flow. As a newcomer, she also drove on the bus by herself.
Until 2003, "Dae Jang Geum" made the name "Li Yingai" popular in Asia. After
became popular, she never stopped moving forward. In 2005, she starred in "The Kind Gold", which completely reversed the image of Dae Jang Geum's gentle and virtuous, and she was a nemesis. This movie won her She won the Best Actress of Qinglong and the Best Actress of the Spanish International Film Festival.
So far, Li Yingai's acting career has reached its peak. A hit TV series is in hand, and a high score movie is in hand. In the
show, Li Yingai said that it was her fate, and it was her blessing to encounter such a good work.
However, it is undeniable that no matter how lucky people are, without pre-precipitation and self-effort, opportunities will not be grasped.
Lee Young-ae specialized in Korean cuisine when he was filming "Dae Jang Geum". In order to show the knife skills in front of the camera, I practice hard in private. Once he started too quickly and cut off another finger.
mentioned this matter again sixteen years later, Li Yingai just smiled and replied: "I just remember that it hurts very much." Li Yingai is always gentle and gentle, but you can still feel her inner strength, typical outer softness Nei Gang.
3, unaffected by the outside world, walking in his own timetable.
Li Yingai was only 32 years old, married at 38, and had children at 40. She didn't go according to the established timetable, but walked on the track of her life in a hurry. In the
show, several young people asked her if she had any fear of getting married. Li Yingai said that she had such troubles when she was in her 20s. In order to dispel this fear, you can only make your own "root".
At the age of 20 and 30, she went all out to fight for her career; she gave birth at the age of 40 and focused on family; when the child grew up, she was able to come back and continue to contribute to her career... It seems that every choice that is different from ordinary people is actually It is Li Yingai's determination of her life. At each stage of
, she knows what she wants, and has been working hard for it, never being influenced by others to change her own path. The strength of the heart and the sense of security you give yourself can breed firmness and indifference in the future.
melon mom finally said:
is in Li Yingai’s body, it seems that the years cannot be seentrace. I think this is inseparable from her inner calmness and her previous practice.
In our current society, it is easy to make people anxious. Li Yingai's life and parenting show us the highest realm of chicken blood-the chicken blood of Buddha. Resolutely do not relax in action, including self-leading by example, constantly learning and practicing; in attitude, he is indifferent and not utilitarian, sticking to his own ideas and paths.
Finding your own rhythm in life is the best way for yourself and your children.
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