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just gave away the Golden Rooster Award, and the entertainment circle ushered in the Golden Coconut Award.
On the evening of December 8, the second Hainan Island International Film Festival Awards Ceremony was held in Sanya, Hainan. The
party set aside the serious awards for award-winning films, and the performance of the stars on the stage attracted more attention.
During the awards process, when it was Chen Sicheng and Shen Teng's turn to come on stage as the award-giving guests, the performance of the two on the stage was a big embarrassment.
First of all, Chen Sicheng took out the ridiculous tone of "Chinatown Detective" and said: Today at such a romantic film festival, I can spend a good night with Shen Teng. I think this kind of romance is very romantic.
Shen Teng said: If you want to continue the romance, you can call him anytime.
The first embarrassing point came. Chen Sicheng said bluntly, do you want me to publish your phone number?
Shen Teng was embarrassed not knowing how to answer the conversation.
then started the commercial tactics commonly used in the entertainment industry, but unfortunately the two people did not have a good line in the audience, and the scene was once embarrassed.
Shen Teng started advertising for "Detective Chinatown 3" directed by Chen Sicheng, saying that he was looking forward to the movie released on New Year's Day. He originally expected Chen Sicheng to repay Li and promote his latest work for him. It is also the movie "囧Mom" directed by Xu Zheng. However, Chen Sicheng obviously didn't know the details and directly promoted the film "Manslaughter" produced by Shen Teng. ".
This made Shen Teng very "injured". At the same time, the camera turned to Xu Zheng who was sitting in the audience, and Xu Zheng smiled embarrassingly.
Fortunately, relying on Shen Teng's powerful rounding ability, he took the opportunity to remind the other party that there was also a "囧 mother" directed by Xu Zheng on New Year's Day.
However, Chen Sicheng perfectly avoided Shen Teng's reminder again, saying that it is a pity that there is no Shen Teng movie in the Spring Festival, and this is the second time that people can't come to the stage.
Shen Teng quickly reminded him that he had a role in "囧Mom": Sorry, I did it in "囧Mom".
made Chen Sicheng blush with a single sentence, and he didn't forget to tease Shen Teng with few shots.
Sometimes joking can make everyone laugh, but it can make everyone feel comfortable, and that is the manifestation of high emotional intelligence.
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On November 17, Lin Chiling and her Japanese husband Kurosawa Ryohei held a century-old wedding in her hometown in Tainan. During the hours of exposure, Lin Chiling showed her high emotional intelligence just right. On the wedding vows of
, Lin Chiling said excitedly about her true feelings:
"We walked together late, please take care of the rest of your life! My happiness is that I am with you and I love you." To praise Lin Chiling is the high EQ in the traditional sense, always smiling and treating others gently.
And in this mixed circle, Lin Chiling does have a set of ways that can make the other party and herself comfortable.
, as recognized by the entertainment circle as a high IQ and talking Huang Bo, used to jokingly say to Xiao S in the "Sister So Hungry" program hosted by Xiao S:
"You can't talk about height, appearance, body shape, cultivation, and knowledge. Compared with Lin Chiling"
Lin Chiling's height is 173cm. After wearing high heels, she will be taller than many male stars. Out of courtesy, she always takes photos with people in a squat position to take care of the feelings of others.
Francis Bacon said: etiquette is the most subtle thing in the world, it is an indispensable part of interpersonal communication, and at the same time it must not be too careless.
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People with high emotional intelligence will grasp the sense of proportion
when we look at things, if we are too close or too far away, the scene we see is blurred. The same is true for the relationship between people.
Each of us is an independent individual. We have both the desire for intimacy and the need for independence and security.
The best way for two people to get along is to keep a certain distance.
People with high emotional intelligence like to smile
Smile is the whole worldThe most beautiful language in the world.
Smiling can make a person feel like a spring breeze, and it can also affect each other's mood subtly, and shorten the distance between each other in a short time.
People who like to smile can always make the whole scene lively and take good care of everyone's emotions. No one can refuse a person who often has a bright smile on his face.
People with high emotional intelligence do not deliberately raise themselves, and do not comment on others at will.
Each of us is multi-faceted, and we are in different roles, and we show different aura and demeanor.
People with high EQ understand that they cannot understand a person one-sidedly. They can easily admit that they are not perfect and can accept the shortcomings of others. They never deliberately lift themselves up in front of others, nor do they judge others at will.
In the final analysis, the so-called high emotional intelligence, in fact, is just the understanding of communication in the process of interpersonal communication.
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