Married couples in the world are united because of appreciation, and they last forever because of love. This affection is family affection and kindness.
This kind of kindness keeps one side in trouble, and always accompanies the other when he is sick.
The reason why loving couples put "graciousness" in the front and "love" in the back is because the "kindness" between them has far exceeded the weight of "love".
is such a kindness that can join hands to old love.
I have a friend who works in a state-owned enterprise. The husband of
was in business, but he failed in any business in those years. But she did not hesitate to take out her money time and time again, do her best to support her husband's career, frugal, no regrets.
Finally, her husband Xianyu turned over. Through hard work, seeing the career rise step by step. She suddenly became seriously ill.
At this time, her husband has a little success in his career, and there are always young and beautiful girls around. But he always took good care of his wife, and he had no two minds.
He reduced a lot of entertainment, and stayed with his wife as much as possible. He said: My wife has paid too much for this family over the years. If she falls, I will lose the meaning of making money.
Later, his wife's illness gradually improved, and his career got bigger and bigger. Friends of
always said: That illness was also a test. Since then, their relationship has become better than before.
Why do so many beautiful loves have parted ways in the end, because too many people take each other’s efforts for granted, and don’t know how to appreciate and cherish.
Many couples, perhaps seldom talk about love. But in each other's hearts, they have long regarded each other as their right and left hands.
Mo Yan said: I admire two kinds of people, women who don't bully the young and poor, and accompany their men through the hardships when they are young; when they develop, the men who accompany their wives to live together.
People who know how to be grateful will have a happier marriage. The word grace between husband and wife is more important than love. Ang Lee, the famous director of
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, said: Love is to have grace before love. Before Ang Lee won the Oscar for Best Director, there was a gray period.
, who had no job at the time, was supported by his wife's salary.
In addition to reading, watching movies, and writing scripts at home, Ang Lee is also responsible for grocery shopping, cooking, and childcare.
Over the past few years, Ang Lee was overwhelmed by his wife's efforts and wanted to give up filming and enroll in a computer class to learn some skills in order to work as a part-time job subsidy for the family.
But when his wife knew it, she said: "I always believe that as long as a person has one strong point, it is enough. Your strong point is to make movies. There are so many people who learn computers, and you are not bad for Li Ang!"
After 6 years of "bringing", such a "family cook" has finally become the world's most famous Chinese director.
stood on the podium, and Li Ang said:
"Thank you my wife Lin Huijia, whether she is waiting at home for six years or becoming an international director, whether it is the entanglement and pain in the filming process, or the decadence after the filming. , Laziness, she has always been my pillar." After
became a major director in the world. Ang Lee, who was surrounded by flowers and applause all day, did something unexpected for everyone-
collected all the trophies and still mopping the floor, cooking, and doing housework.
Lu Yu asked Ang Lee in an interview: "What is your greatest happiness at this stage?" The film master replied: "It's your wife's smile. If my wife smiles at me, I will feel very happy."
It is precisely by this kind of affection that Ang Lee's career has been achieved, as well as a loving couple.
Yang Lan once said:
The bond of marriage is not children, not money, but about the common growth of spirit.
In the most helpless and weak times, he (she) will hold your chin, straighten your spine, make you strong, and accompany you to endure the fate together.
At that time, in addition to love, there was loyalty, unforgettable tacit understanding, and unforgettable kindness between you.
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Ge You was nameless and appearanceless when he was young, and he was still playing tricks when he was almost 30 years old. He had no money, no name, and he was in a hurry, so he never got married.
was introduced to He Cong later. He Cong’s parents didn’t like Ge You., But He Cong took a fancy to his honesty. When
was first married, there was no house to live in. Ge You's family of five and another family of three lived together in a 72-square-meter tube building. Ten years later, Ge You became popular and took a bunch of "actors". But he did not "expand" because of this, he would bring He Cong wherever he traveled.
He Cong looks mediocre, but when you look closely, he is a bit ugly, as if he doesn't deserve the actor Ge You.
So people often sigh: "Why Ge You hasn't changed his wife yet?" After hearing these rumors, Ge You replied with this sentence:
"When people were good with me, I was nothing. She followed me and shared the joys and sorrows." There are no complaints. Now that I’m healed, I’ll kick them. We really can’t do such a thing!" In a marriage, women are willing to give men a little more respect and understanding. As long as this man has the heart, he will understand I am grateful, and cherish this relationship more and more, and dare not disappoint this sincerity.
It is precisely because of knowing how to be grateful that a man's career can flourish.
The best state of marriage is not a lifetime of romance and passion, but you are for me, and I am for your loyalty.
In this world, there is no perfect partner, and no perfect love.
Those marriages that can grow old together are full of affection and righteousness. If you don't bully my youth and be poor, I will live up to your bravery.
The wife is the last viewer in the life of the husband, and the husband is the last passbook in the life of the wife.
Nothing can't have a good old age, nothing is as good as having a good partner.
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