"Kim Jiyoung Born in 1982" is a movie released in South Korea in October this year, adapted from the best-selling novel of the same name, and also a highly controversial movie.
This is a questionnaire from a Korean website, boys gave the movie a score of 2.85, while girls gave a high score of 9.5. What exactly does the
movie say that makes men and women have different attitudes?
Kim Ji-young was a common girl's name in Korea in the 1980s. She was born in 1982. Her father is a civil servant, her mother is a housewife, and she has an older sister and a younger brother. No matter from any angle, it is an ordinary big family, but under the calm appearance, Jin Zhiying has been facing suffocating gender distress.
The grandmother who lives with her has a deep-rooted patriarchal mindset, and all her love is spent on the only grandson. Even if she eats, her brother must be full before she can use chopsticks, everything in the house, If you want to let your brother come first, Jin Zhiying will always be ignored.
After getting married, did she get rid of that stubborn family? When working in the company, her boss appreciates her and her colleagues recognize her. Even if she is now a full-time wife, she often comes out to gather for a while. When she is sick, her mother-in-law buys supplements for her daughter-in-law, and usually gets up early and is busy. The husband loves his wife even more and helps with housework as soon as he returns home, better than most adult male compatriots.
Things changed suddenly at a family banquet. The family got together and talked and laughed. The mother-in-law said casually to the daughter-in-law in the kitchen, making some pancakes and taking some dishes, which made the always good daughter-in-law suddenly He changed into a human, low voice and words, as if Jin Zhiying's mother was possessed, terrified the whole family. Is
hit evil? of course not! She has always suffered from being suppressed by not being understood. Once I went to see a doctor for wrist pain, but the doctor asked him back, why would my wrist hurt without washing and cooking?
takes advantage of the leisure time of pushing the baby to bask in the sun. If you want to enjoy a cup of cheap coffee, you will be pointed out, as if you have done something wrong.
Husband was willing to help wash the dishes, but the mother-in-law squeezed him before his hands touched the water.
The so-called exhaustion does not only refer to physical fatigue. Various things are not understood, just like a small rock. It is not heavy or painful when pressed on you, but the small rock accumulated for a long time will Unconsciously, you can't breathe, and when you really notice it, the rocks are already piled up like a mountain, and the tiredness can no longer bear.
The husband promised Chen Nuo to go home early to help his wife with the housework, which he did. But who has noticed: is "helping", not "should be "? From ancient times to the present, housework has become a woman’s bounden duty. A husband can "help" with housework, no matter how much, it is the greatest honor to his wife. He is doing what he should do, and the wife is often "grateful" .
Jin Zhiying's father can buy a box of tonics for his son, but he never thought that his daughter was sick at the moment. Brother
wanted to visit his seriously ill sister, but he didn't know what his sister liked to eat, so he asked his father for his opinion, and he gave the answer except for the bean paste bread without thinking. But in fact, what my sister really likes to eat is butter bread, and red bean bread has always been my brother's favorite.
The inertia of "as it should be" formed a habit. Even if she felt depressed and tired, no one thought it was a problem, including herself.
Jin Zhiying is just an ordinary woman, but she is enough to resonate with countless female audiences. Her "encounter" is a daily occurrence of most women, but most of us don't know it. There is a problem! And men don't think there is any problem even more, because all this is "taken for granted."
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