I will leave you gently
Please wipe away the tears from the corner of your eyes
In the long night
Dear you don’t cry for me
This lyrics comes from "About Winter" by Taiwanese music composer Qi Qin, 70 Post-80s are especially no strangers. The song
, which won the 11th Hong Kong Top Ten Chinese Golden Melody Award, only takes 15 minutes to create.
Qi Qin's girlfriend Wang Zuxian was developing in Hong Kong at the time. Qi Qin wrote this song for Wang Zuxian, expressing his love and longing for Wang Zuxian.
"I will cherish myself even more in the days without you, and you must take care of yourself in the days without me."
In December 1991, Qi Qin held three concerts at the Beijing Workers Stadium, which caused a huge sensation. At that concert, a Taiwanese photographer Qi Xiao came across An Ran, a student from Beijing Normal University. , Opened a thirty-year love entanglement. Qi Qin above
is the real Qi Qin, and the story of Qi Xiao and An Ran comes from the movie "About Winter".
Yes, it has the same name as the song, and the artistic director of the film is Qi Qin. At the
"About Winter" promotion, Qi Qin was asked "Will Wang Zuxian come to see?" Qi Qin replied: I believe she will come, and my wife and daughter will also come.
According to netizens, I once ran into Wang Zuxian in a Vancouver movie theater. During the movie watching, she laughed and cried. Maybe she also saw the shadow of herself and Qi Qin in the film.
Qi Qin and Wang Zuxian fell in love during the filming, and experienced the separation of the two places, the third party's turmoil, several times of separation and recombination, going round and round, and finally tied the knot, because Qi Qin’s illegitimate child was exposed, Wang Zuxian went away. .
Fall in love but can't be together, just blame fate for playing tricks.
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The film "About Winter" is adapted from Rao Xueman's 2018 novel of the same name, which tells the emotional story of "one song, two generations, three cities". The story of
started from Qi Qin’s 1991 Beijing Cyclone concert. Qi Qin’s fans were looking for tickets outside the venue. Qi Xiao held two tickets and waited for his girlfriend to come. Qi Xiao, who placed the order at
, gave the extra ticket to An Ran, and took a photo of An Ran waving his scarf at the concert.
A few months later, the two met again at the home of Mentor Anran, and the two connected.
Qi Xiao was running a wedding photo studio in Beijing, and he asked An Ran to help him write a few words on the album.
If one day we have to separate, please remember the time when we loved each other deeply. Because that is the best memory in our life. The words
became the prophecy of love between the two.
The time of falling in love was very good. A phone call from Taipei broke these love bubbles.
Qi Xiao said: "I can't give the future you want, let's stop here."
An Ran cried and asked: "As long as I love you, as long as you love me, what can we not face together"? The little girl
is still young.
She didn't know that life is not only about love, me and me, but also reality.
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In the movie "The Later Us" directed by Liu Ruoying, Xiaoxiao and Jianqing were poor and happy together, but "later us, we have everything, but we don't have each other", the love finally lost to reality.
Qi Xiao and An Ran are separated by landscape and family. When
lives in the same place, men can’t fall in love.
Qi Xiao's father had a stroke and needs his son's personal care. The
partner ran away with money, and Qi Xiao's business was ruined. In the past nine years, An Ran could not accompany Qi Xiao back to Taiwan.
"As long as you want to see me, you can come anytime, but I want to see you, but I can't just go."
This is reality, and it is a practical obstacle that love cannot overcome. Although Qi Xiao later divorced, his ex-wife still possessed him. They had children and could never completely disconnect.
sometimes is not enough love, because reality is too powerful.
We all think that we can control our own destiny, but we don’t know that we are not strong enough to fight.Ruthless reality.
This is the cruelty of love: it is not, you love me, I love you, we will have a future. In the movie
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, An Ran finally chose the man who had been with her, Yu Feng, married, gave birth to a daughter, studied abroad, and then passed away in middle age.
The life of An Ran and Yu Feng has not been narrated, but that should be plain happiness, after all, what a considerate lover Yu Feng is.
So later my daughter asked An Ran: Do you regret marrying your father?
An Ran replied: I have never regretted marrying him. If
missed it, it was over.
What is love? It's a feeling, I love you, I will think of you in my heart, and I will think about the time together back and forth. I laugh when I think of you, but miss when I don't see.
But Sanmao said: love, if it is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping, it will not be easy forever.
has experienced the trivialities of life together and can still love each other for a long time.
all say that marriage is the tomb of love. Isn’t it because people who love each other only consider love, but not reality and self?
We always overestimate our determination to love, but ignore the difficulties of reality.
Love is important, but love is never the whole life.
Shakespeare said: The path to true love in is not smooth.
The two people who love each other again, facing the obstacles of reality, it is difficult or impossible to cross, they are destined to fail to reach the end.
There is no way to go in vain in life, every step counts, as long as you try your best to love, regret is also a precious memory.
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