Ren Zhengfei talks about Meng Wanzhou: being proud of his daughter, suffering makes a person stronger

Yesterday, Huawei's "Sounds of Heart Community" released an open letter to Meng Wanzhou called "Your Warmth is a Beacon that Illuminates My Progress". It is reported that as of yesterday, Meng Wanzhou has been detained in Canada for one year.

Meng Wanzhou said in the letter that this year, I experienced fear and pain, disappointment and helplessness, suffering and struggle. This year, I learned to bear with strength, face calmly, and not fear the unknown. Meng Wanzhou thanked everyone for their warmth and encouragement. "It is your word, your heart, that supports me in reading one more book and taking one more class. I am not afraid of the distance and the muddy road ahead. , Find the freedom of the soul in the unfreedom, and taste the fragrance of life in the roughness. Dear you, all these warmths are the beacon that illuminates my progress!" On December 1st, the foreign media released a message to the founder of Huawei, Ren Zhengfei. In an interview, Ren Zhengfei said that the sufferings of his daughter Meng Wanzhou this year have made her stronger.

"She is suffering, but she has become stronger because of it. She should be proud of her own suffering. The experience of suffering is good for her growth." After Meng Wanzhou was arrested, Zeng Zeng A reporter interviewed Ren Zhengfei:

"What if you went to Canada with your daughter at that time and were arrested together?"

Ren Zhengfei smiled and said blandly:

"Then have a good chat with your daughter, by the way Read and learn about the development history of the United States over the past two hundred years, and then write a book on how China should rise in the next two hundred years and how it should learn from the United States."

Yang Lan once said: "Parents' pattern , Is the way your parents live. How you want to live your life is your way of life and your pattern."

The parents are as powerful as their children.

Parents’ hearts can be filled with mountains and rivers, and their children’s hearts can be filled with lakes and seas.

Someone said: The most precious thing Ren Zhengfei gave to Meng Wanzhou was never wealth or status, but a strong heart that could relieve any hardship. The pattern of the father of

determines the height of the child. The

Douban score is 8.5, with the highest proportion of four-star and five-star, and the box office has exceeded 500 million in only 3 days. Now that there are more than 1.5 billion "Young You", even though it was not selected for prime time release, it still can't stop this dazzling performance.

, ​​of course, is inseparable from the ability of the director, in addition to the excellent acting skills and the plot of the lead actor, which meets the taste of the audience. The director of the film is Zeng Guoxiang, the son of the famous actor Zeng Zhiwei.

Zeng Guoxiang directed the film "Lovers' Talk" and "July and Ansheng". The former was nominated for Best New Director at the 47th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards, and the latter won multiple awards at the 51st Golden Horse Awards. Nowadays, you can’t see Zeng Zhiwei’s shadow on him. Before he became famous, many viewers in the mainland didn’t know that he was Zeng Zhiwei’s son, but it was because he did not carry the "Star II". Only when Halo entered the entertainment circle made his success even more commendable.

Recently, when Zeng Zhiwei was interviewed at the opening ceremony of the Hong Kong theme movie, he was also very proud of his son’s box office performance in his new film. He laughed and said that his son has today’s achievements because he is not like himself, "because he has no shadow of me. , Can’t let him be by my side, so I handed him to Chen Kexin and Zeng Baoyi to Zhang Xiaoyan. It would be better for others to take them."

Zeng Zhiwei’s remarks were not only modest, but also had a super high EQ, not only failed to attribute his achievements to himself The teacher is generous, and also praised director Chen Kexin and Zhang Xiaoyan.

was born in a celebrity family, it is a good thing, not all good things. The benefits brought to him by

's father Zeng Zhiwei are obvious, but when the father and son develop in the same field, he is also under the light of "Star II". Destined to bear the shackles of the "Star II":

is good as it should be. Capital comes from the parents. Even if you have achieved something, it seems that you will still be ignored under the dazzling light of your parents.

At the age of 16, Zeng Guoxiang fell in love with movies incorrigibly. The human voice sounded, and the world on the big screen made him obsessed. The

teenager first tried to use the convenience of "Star II" to enter the movie circle. He found his father and said that he wanted to make movies and be a director. After listening to

, ​​his father didn't say a word, and the two were silent for a long while. In the end, Zeng Zhiwei broke the deadlock: "We will talk when you graduate from high school."

father Zeng Zhiwei did not press the fast forward button for him. And Zeng Guoxiang also embarked on a road different from other "Star II". He used his own efforts to hand in a beautiful report card to his father.

Outstanding parents start with precepts and deeds

Maybe we are just ordinary people among all living beings, but to be outstanding parents is not the only way for leaders in the industry and popular stars to do it. We can also start by teaching precepts and deeds.

Dong Qing once said: What kind of person you want your child to be, what kind of person you must first be.

In the American movie "When Happiness Knocks at the Door", Chris, as an ordinary father and husband, shoulders the heavy responsibility of making money and supporting the family. He spent all his savings and bought high-tech treatment devices, and sold them to hospitals everywhere, but the price High, not many people accept it. No matter how hard he tried, he couldn't provide a good living environment for his wife and children. In the end, his wife couldn't stand this kind of life, and ignoring Chris's pleading for her, she left him cruelly.

However, he did not give up on being motivated. While bearing the pressure of life, he influenced his son with a positive attitude towards life.

He looked all his eyes, hiding with his son in the public toilet of the subway station, living in the shelter of the church... He firmly believed that happiness would come tomorrow.

He told his son: "Others think you can’t do it, but you must believe it. You think you can do it yourself, then do it."

He interpreted this sentence with practical actions. He eventually became a stock broker through his own efforts, set sail against the wind in his career, and eventually succeeded.

once accompanied his father to taste the bitterness of life, and watched his father win back the sweetness of his career. How can such a child have no confidence in the face of future challenges?

If you want your child to be good, please remember to work hard to be a good parent first, guide the child in spirit, influence the child in action, and move towards a better future together.

remembers a sentence in the CCTV documentary "Mirror": "Every child is born with a blank sheet of paper, and the parents are the ones who paint. The key to what the blank paper becomes is the parents."

The silent process of being a parent does not mean giving up oneself and putting all energy on the child.

A good example set by parents will allow children to reflect on their words and deeds at any time, and keep approaching their parents. This is a drive of inner strength.

In the process of leading by example, parents can reflect on their behavior from time to time and make continuous adjustments. "The essence of education is that one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul."

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