Text|Mo Ya
Responsible Editor|Bad cat
My friend is only 50 years old, and he has just entered the second half of his life.
was planning to travel to Banff with the whole family, but the physical examination was found to be lung cancer and he was admitted to the hospital for less than two. Months left with regret.
I was sad and reminded me of a movie. This movie once won the box office champion under the siege of blockbuster films and became an unexpected dark horse. With a Douban score of 8.6, it ranked 243rd in the TOP250: 2007 comedy. The movie "The Bucket List" (The Bucket List) tells a simple and moving story:
Edward, a rich old man, the owner of more than a dozen private hospitals, is not liked.
Because he always looks like a stinky fart, in court, he will drink "cat dung coffee" leisurely in front of the jury. When encountering problems, he always likes to buy people's hearts with money, even though he is the boss of the hospital. , But he doesn’t care about patients, only the benefits.
Until one day, he himself suffered from cancer...
He said: Don’t make trouble for money, I only have money left ---" Bucket List"
Carter, is a maintenance worker, knowledgeable and knowledgeable. When
was young, Carter wanted to be a historian. When he was only one step away from his dream, his wife became pregnant...
In order to support his family, Carter had to give up his dream and work as a maintenance worker.
One day, Carter was diagnosed with cancer...
Edward and Carter were placed in the same ward.
On the first day of meeting, the two people looked at each other uncomfortably, and they fought each other if they didn't agree.
Edward said: This guy is dumb, I'm afraid he is going to die, right?
Carter replied: You opened this hospital? The food is terrible!
cursed and cursed, the two became friends who talked about everything.
Edward stumbled across Carter’s bucket list, which read:
helped strangers out of kindness, laughed to tears, drove an off-road sports car once, witnessed miracles with his own eyes...
He had a whim: he was dying anyway, why not die Completely indulged once before?
He persuaded Carter that the two started a last-wish journey..
and the two completed a list together. Over time, the wishes in the list were crossed out one by one, without regret. After their lives, they have gradually come to the end of their lives.
Their last days are more fulfilling than most people's lives; when
passed away, although their eyes were closed, their hearts were open. There is a line in
"bucket list":
at the end of a lifetime, God will ask you two questions, if your answer to both questions is yes, then you can go to heaven. The first question of
is: Are you happy?
The second question is: Have you made others happy?
writer Bi Shumin said: A good beginning and a good ending are difficult problems for life.
started this matter, basically can't help myself. The matter of holy death is generally difficult to grasp. The only thing that
can work hard for is the middle section from beginning to end. Strive for it to be meaningful and enjoy more happiness, and
tries its best to cherish itself and others.
Only once in life, if death is approaching. What a pity that
can't do everything he wants to do.
Many of us are mediocre, busy running around, unable to distinguish what is life and what is life?
Some people live 365 days a year, and some live only 365 times a day.
has never asked your heart, what do you really want to do?
Carter said: People live to die someday, don't be humbly when you want to pee. If you want to pee, you will go on quickly, and you must be careful with your farts.
seems to be stinky and vulgar, but uses the most popular language to explain the most straightforward truth:
we can’t always think about waiting for me to have money, time, or conditions, and when the conditions are ripe,
will do something we do. Just want to do, because you never know, which one will come first tomorrow or the accident?
Can you definitely see the sunshine tomorrow morning? !
people at different times hope to get the eastWest is different, some dreams will always be there, while some will become less important over time.
There is no standard answer in life. My answer is: meet the person you want to meet and do what you want to do. There are so many things
want to do, maybe you can't finish it in a lifetime.
But it doesn't matter. There are always three or two things that can arouse your desire to challenge. The interesting ideas in the "bucket list" are what a good life enlightenment. For example: to travel.
Zhihu netizens said: Travel is an experiment on "death". The meaning of
travel is to make full use of time and fully enjoy every moment of this time.
is on the road or traveling alone. If you are lucky, someone may go with you. In the
movie, the informal old man wrote "kiss the most beautiful girl in the world" on his bucket list, a puzzling wish. At the end of
, another old man is dying and his family is by his side. The father finally mustered up the courage to meet his daughter who has not been in contact for many years.
When he saw his granddaughter he had never seen before, this wish was fulfilled.
There is no distinction between high and low wishes, right or wrong, choose what you most want to try, even if it is very small, as long as it can bring you satisfaction and joy at the moment of completion, it is an achievement.
So, how do we make ourselves happy?
is like the two old men in the film, traveling, fulfilling their wishes and making themselves happy.
I like the feeling of being able to keep learning and enrich myself. I believe most people are like me.
In fact, the new skills that can get are far more than we thought.
learns to drive, learn a language, a musical instrument, or whatever...
makes us happy to grow old,
to the last moment of life, to die without regrets instead of dying.
The inspiration from the movie "The Bucket List" is that a person can adjust and enrich his life at any age and make his life meaningful. Some time ago, a friend of
had a physical examination and heard from the doctor that he was not sure whether it was benign or not. While waiting for the review, he found a lot of cancer-related books. After reading it, he increased fear and anxiety, but he still had a hint of luck.
used to think:
work is very important, making money is very important, now I stopped and sorted out, in fact, every day is not happy.
finally, after spending two hours, he listed the 8 things he wanted to accomplish. In the past, he always felt that there was a chance, and he kept delaying.
1. Travel: Peripheral travel / domestic travel / to Japan, France, Europe to play
2. Grow flowers
3. Make a good meal
4. Find a group of groups with common interests, learn from each other
5. Publish a book
6. See interesting Book, chase good-looking dramas, stay curious Direction of action. Action
is the best way to get rid of anxiety.
Even if it is a small thing or a dream or wish, if you don't do it, I am afraid you will never do it. When
doesn't know what to do, just do every little thing at hand. When you don't know how to start, start with the most recent thing.
A heart-wrenching fact is that if you are an ordinary person with ordinary talent, you may not be able to have excellent products in your life, and if you delay, then your whole life is doomed to fail.
9102 will be over, and 0202 will be here soon,
every inch of gold is hard to buy.
Li Kaifu said: "Don't indulge yourself, make excuses for yourself."
Imagine:
If you have six months, what will you have a bucket list?
this year, let us start from today to realize your wish!
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