hello, everyone.
GiGi recently fell in love with a workplace variety show "The Heartwarming Offer", in order to explore the difficult work of social animals in the workplace, but I did not expect to be moved by He Jiong's words in this issue. When talking about his parents in the
show, Mr. He, who has always been calm and calm, blushed. He choked and said:
has reached our age, and some regrets are irreversible. No matter how you make up for it, you have missed too much. This is how we owe our parents. I think it might be fate.
To be honest, as a person who has worked outside for many years, GiGi is not afraid to listen to He Jiong's words.
Family affection is everyone’s weakness. I am afraid of touching my head and my nose is sore. After all, anyone in modern times is owing his parents. In this episode of
, interns accompanied lawyers to rural areas for legal aid. In one case, an old couple accused their youngest son of reluctance to contact the family and fulfill their maintenance obligations.
When the interns went to find out, it turned out that the son had already paid the alimony, but he did not want to go home to see his parents. The
intern wanted to mediate the conflict, so he called his younger son.
The grandparents, who hadn't called their son for a long time, asked "Can you hear me", "Will you come to see me", "Will you come back from Mid-Autumn Festival?"
When everyone expected that his son would agree, there was a long silence on the other side of the
phone.
The old couple who did not get a response finally said "Happy Mid-Autumn Festival" with a look of disappointment. At this time, the youngest son started sobbing when he heard it, and then hung up the phone. We don't know what happened in the family
, but the sadness and loss of the old couple stabbed everyone present like a needle.
Especially when he saw that his grandparents had the same medicine as his parents at home, He Jiong instantly thought of himself, bowed his head and sighed deeply.
When he was young, he was busy with work. He Jiong only went home for dinner once a month, and basically had no time to accompany his parents.
now, even if you want to record a program, you will go home whenever you have time.
Despite this, he still felt that it was not enough, and his words were full of regrets.
And this kind of regret is that you will never be able to experience it before this age. Even if I tell you to be with me now, you should be busy or busy.
Until you see that your parents are getting older, their waists are squatting, their hair is gray, and their hands tremble even when holding chopsticks,
you have no way to start again. That kind of powerlessness is something that you can’t recover from anything you do. .
He Jiong has presided over "Happy Camp" for more than 20 years. With his high EQ and the ability to stay calm, he has not only become the first brother of Hunan TV station, but also a national host in China.
has a good relationship with others and has strong ability. He is a rare all-round host. Every major event program wants his schedule.
hosts more than 30 programs in one year, flying around the country.
He is such a desperate person, he doesn't even have much time to rest, let alone to accompany his parents.
has a link in the "Happy Camp" program where everyone can rate themselves. I thought that someone as good as He Jiong would definitely score high, but he wrote a "5" on the whiteboard.
He said that if it were to score my career, I would score full marks or even more. However, I feel very owed to my parents, I am an incompetent son. I can't give myself a higher score.
No matter how good a person is, he is a child, there is a time limit. There is a sentence in
"Watching":
The so-called father-daughter mother-child game only means that your fate is to keep watching their backs drift away in this life, and they use their backs to tell you that you don't have to chase them.
When you were young, you never understood its meaning.
Until one day, when the words in the book became a microcosm of your life, they appeared in your own life. You suddenly understood that the fate with your parents is really not long in this life.
At the beginning of this year, when everyone was immersed in the excitement and joy of the New Year, actTan Songyun received the bad news of her mother's car accident.
, the girl's world, all of a sudden collapsed.
And a few hours ago, she posted a Weibo "Farewell 2018". In the photo of
, she smiled so happily, she didn't know that the darkest moment in her life had already sounded the bell.
She disappeared on Weibo for 28 days, and the company's agent came out to explain:
"Song Yun's mother had a car accident during the Chinese New Year. She was rescued in the ICU for 20 days, but she died."
saw her appear again, it was the recording of "Longing for Life".
Everyone sat and talked about their wishes. Some people say I want to be a director behind the scenes, and some say I want to live happily.
finally asked Tan Songyun, she thought about it, her voice was a little trembling and said:
I hope I can dream of her.
dreamed of her, told her everything that could not be said, and told her how much I miss her. I made money, I was promising, but you left.
You see how impermanent life is, you never know which will come first, accident or tomorrow. In the
show, she didn't even mention "mother". These two words are on the lips, but they can't say it anymore.
is not that she doesn't want to, but she's just afraid that when she misses her mouth, she will swept over her.
Finally, Tan Songyun said shyly:
I think she will be my daughter in the next life.
Thank you for loving me like life in this life, if you can hope to change me to protect you in the next life.
parents are there, there is still a place in life,
parents go, there is only the way back in life.
In the movie "Tokyo Family", elderly parents go to Tokyo to visit some children. But the children are busy with their work, and the old couple seems to have become a burden and are incompatible with them.
Later, her daughter wanted to get rid of the trouble of taking care of the elderly, so she arranged for her parents to live in a hotel.
originally thought that I would be able to meet my children in Tokyo, but both said that they would be busy with work. The two elderly people could only sit in a cold hotel and stare at the Ferris wheel outside the window. There seems to be no place for them in the huge Tokyo.
Only the least promising young son received his parents and introduced his fiancee to them. Seeing my daughter-in-law's parents, I opened my eyes with a smile and had the happiest day in Tokyo.
The next day, his mother died unexpectedly due to a stroke, and his youngest son Masuji found his father on the rooftop.
father looked at the sky, and said faintly
"Changji, your mother is gone."
Changji gave an "um" and suddenly covered his face and burst into tears. Father
was silent and turned to leave. After the funeral of
, the sons and daughters all went back to Tokyo to be busy. Only the father was left in the empty house.
The sun is just right outside, but now it seems so lonely.
This is not only happening in Tokyo, the same story happens every day around us.
"The tree wants to be quiet but the wind keeps on, and the child wants to support but does not wait for the relatives." The sentence
does not make you regret when you lose it, but reminds you to cherish your time as a child and to be filial to your parents.
In fact, for many people who work outside, everyone knows the truth, but bear paw and fish can’t have both, and often we have no choice.
996 becomes the norm, endless meetings, endless work, endless entertainment customers, when you return to the deserted house to eat takeaway at night,
you want to go home countless times and eat the food your mother cooks. Chat with dad, want to call and tell them you are really tired.
But when a thousand words came to my lips, there was only one sentence left: all are good.
Later, you climbed to a higher position step by step, getting closer and closer to the goal, but also farther and farther away from home.
We always have many ideals and plans to achieve, and wandering outside has long been the norm.
The time and affection of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen divided by the city, people are pressured by the pressure of life and work, and attracted by the entertainment and consumption of many people, how much time do we have left for our families?
The oppression of reality pushes us forward, and your parents are always behind you. When you are tired, you can find your belongings when you look back.
In the confidence that we are fighting outside, isn't it because our family has always been waiting for distant parents.
Everyone has a different pace of life. When we were young, we chased after our parents and wanted to grow up quickly. After
grew up, the wave of the times gradually spread over the parents. They desperately wanted to catch up with us, but they were getting farther and farther away from us.
GiGi went home to celebrate the New Year once. When the holiday was over, when packing up and preparing to leave home, he subconsciously said to my mother: I'm going back.
My mother frowned when she heard this, and then faintly told me: Be safe and be careful.
Later I thought, how stupid I am.
For parents, the place where they are is called home, and only when they return to that home is called "home."
When we were young, we always asked our parents, where do we come from? When
grows up, parents always want to know, where are you going to the child?
parents also hope that we can accompany them more, but they also understand that children will eventually have their own lives and worlds.
left home to study at university, every time parents stuffed a pile of food and medicine into the luggage, worried that we could not take care of ourselves outside; after
worked, parents could only care about our well-being from the phone, but they were often caught "I'm still in a meeting" and hung up in a hurry;
We are married. Parents often make a table of meals and wait for you to bring your children home to reunite.
We always owe our parents too much in this life, but when it comes to debt in this life, how can a number be measured.
felt a little sad at the end of writing, a person's life is really too short.
has been away from home for a few years, and every time I go home, I feel that my parents are getting older again.
Reality is helpless and cruel. What we can do is to make time to spend more time with our parents, whether it's calling, video or going to them.
hopes that the speed of his efforts can catch up with the speed of his parents' aging, take them more to travel and play, save money for them, and become a person who can shelter them from wind and rain.
After all, we are desperate for the road, and the end is still home.
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