The movie "I care about you" she studied abroad is not suitable for the customs of the country, how should she choose between love and home

Hello, everyone, I am the editor of Cola Girl. I am talking about movies. After watching the movie "I care about you", I can't help feeling a little bit in my heart. The film is full of emotions and it is easy to think. Instead of caring about "you", it's about caring about "myself". The heroine has studied in Japan since she was a child, and found a beloved man to marry and have children. But she couldn't accept the Japanese customs and wanted to work hard for her dream. In Japan, traditional women have to serve the family full-time, and the heroine leaves her husband and children back to China if she doesn't want to. In my opinion, she is very selfish. She only cares about her own feelings, not the thoughts of her husband, children, or mother-in-law, but as a Chinese, I can understand her and compare cultural differences.

But many years later, she has a successful career, and she yearns for the kind of family reunion. In fact, she was still selfish, and she cared about herself from beginning to end. Fu Zai was busy making wine all day, and her mother-in-law was so harsh and alienated. In the first story told by Yuan Yuan, the mother-in-law gave her a hug only after she gave birth to a child, which shows the distance between her and her mother-in-law. . In a foreign country, there is no warmth around her. It seems that she can only spend her life in this indifference and cold. But she is Yuan Yuan. She is not an ordinary, traditional Japanese woman. She has her own ideals and her own life.

​​In such an environment, the independent soul in her heart not only did not die, but was more alive, clamoring to rush out of her body. She knew that she was no worse than Liu Jing, and she was even more reconciled. She didn't let her be a housewife at home. Without her mother-in-law's love, her bondage seemed even lighter, and her guilt lighter. To be herself, she seemed to have to go a long way. This idea took root in her heart. But she is pregnant, what should she do, having a child will be fettered, she does not know what she will become after having a child.

will be completely transformed into a traditional housewife because of maternal love, and will be a husband and child for a lifetime; or put a chain on my heart that wants freedom, and the rest of my life can only be meaningless in the struggle with this chain To kill? She didn't want to be like this. She didn't have time to think about that innocent life, and what the eyebrows that grew similar to her and her husband would look like. She could only save herself. If she was not that young, she would think a little more, and perhaps would not make such a choice. But she was too young, she didn't know herself enough, she didn't know how much a child would change her future, she was not sure.

She is afraid of having a child, she will no longer belong to her. Like she said, she seemed to be trapped in mid-air, unable to fly freely. Yes, she was already unable to fly, and her mother-in-law would not leave her even a little gap between trivial matters; but she was unwilling to land and became a woman who had no self and was buried in trivial matters all day. Finally, she made a decision. This looked cruel, but helpless, finally made a decision. She thought it was nothing. She didn't tell anyone about this secret, and no one could blame her. But she knew it herself, even if no one knew it. She could not forgive herself.

She thought that as time passed, the wound would slowly heal, and everything would pass. But she was wrong. Not only did the wound not heal, it was slowly decomposing and suppurating. She didn't live up to her temper, and she always refused to let her go during those unreasonable nights, and quietly opened her wounds, time and time again, endlessly. Regret and guilt entangled her, she wished that the story would develop as she imagined, and would the result be different. She told herself over and over again, and gradually, it seemed to be true. The ending of the

movie is obvious, with a big reversal in the last 15 minutes. The child does not exist. The film makes it clear that everything is because she missed the child too much, realized her mistakes, recognized her as her own daughter, and imagined that the child always existed. Until the end, her mother-in-law and husband came out to prove that the child never appeared, she was indeed pregnant, but secretly beat the child. In fact, it's quite uncomfortable to see the end. How I hope everything is fake. It was originally a love movie with a feminine theme, but this movie is still the most anticipated Japanese romance movie this year!

In short, life itself is an equation with no solution. Experience can only prove that you have passed by, and the traces will not be erased, but you will not return to the past. Don’t try, luckily, even if you have an accident, you fall on your head. Opportunities are also very small, so bravely face the future, only the future has hope, And don’t try to apologize to the past. Forgiveness itself has very little power and cannot take up the life that was delayed. Life is very short. It’s too short to say sorry, but life will eventually reconcile with the past, not because of forgiveness, but Because there is no strength to hold a grudge. If you like the movie, please pay attention to it.