"There is self-criticism, but there is no self-praise!"-Gao Deming
On November 28, cross talk disciple He Yunwei appeared in a hotel in Beijing, wearing a Chinese-style buckle cotton and linen clothes, slightly fattened. Together with a friend, he ate and talked freely, but he always thought he was very worried. But every cause must have results,
He Yunwei is very famous, at least in the cross talk world. But who gave this fame, I think he may have forgotten. In fact, since he left the Deyun Society and switched to Mr. Hou Yaohua, and then started his own business, the "cloud" generation did not exist, so in theory, he is now called He Wei. Whether he was once a big disciple of Guo Degang, he himself does not admit it.
ran away from the Deyun Society, thinking that it would be able to completely get rid of the living sign of the Deyun Society. He Wei thought this matter was too simple. In the words of netizens, Hou Yaohua has already stepped down from the altar. If there was no Deyun Society and Guo Degang, the world would not know He Yunwei, and even more would he not know who He Wei was?
I think he knows this in his heart. The ups and downs of his marriage are already disturbing enough. He has been divorced twice. Nowadays, in my career, I have one step wrong and wrong step, so I have to find friends to output opinions. When it comes to emotions, the opinions are in the wine.
But if you find a friend to drink, just because you can't hear the compliments from others now, you can only find someone to sit opposite and listen to yourself to praise yourself. This situation is really sad.
"Don't underestimate another to praise one person."
"Speak My World" is a star language inspirational speech show. From a certain point of view, this show is quite suitable for him. He was given a stage where he could output his own values, but someone who understood the truth, listened to his remarks on the stage, and really couldn't agree.
"I saw my colleagues on variety shows, all of them became popular overnight. At this time, I was still thinking about jokes and how to shake my baggage." This sentence seems to have a point, but I want to say myself. Don't blindly follow the trend, have your own perseverance, but it is unnecessary to say that others are not in the right way in order to improve yourself. As soon as he said this, he lost his grace.
The traditional etiquette has always been about growing in self-criticism, but there is no habit of self-praising. What's more, He Wei also said that he insists on traditional cross talk. Since conscious cross talk is a traditional art, why emphasize self-affirmation so much? Doesn't it run counter to traditional etiquette? The more you emphasize, the more proof you lack.
"I would rather not talk about cross talk than nonsense." Is it because he thinks that only his own work is called cross talk, and other new situations that combine with the same time to facilitate the spread are all hooligans, or does he believe that the essence of the art of cross talk , And the development of new forms of art communication, is there necessarily a conflict between the two?
masters have learned from others' strengths since ancient times, and then mastered them. His mind is open to all rivers, and tolerance is big. He Wei is not the case. He expressed anger when he talked about the hot-screen comedy reality show. The crosstalk performances on TV now like talk shows and talent shows are no longer pure and authentic.
No matter how bad He Wei is, he is also an insider. When it comes to the purity and authenticity of cross talk, I dare not say much as a layman. Looking at things and people should be divided into two aspects, a solid and comprehensive basic skills, and his talent in allegro is indeed appreciated.
But in order to promote myself and deny everything else and belittle the attitude of colleagues, I really don't like it, and many people don't like it. Whether to defend the cross talk itself or to fight for a name for himself, only he knows best.
established the "Red Door Crosstalk Society" and continued to work on the inheritance of crosstalk. For this reason, he turned down opportunities for variety shows and movies, and even gave a "death order" to his agent. He said, "Don't make movies more than 10 days old." Come to me."
has some things that you can not say, but if you say it, you may be "self-promotion". What is meant by "don't come to me for movies that are more than 10 days old." Just give an example of what you have done in the art of cross talk, and what hard work you have done to this end, just fine. Why did you talk about movies? If you don’t care, you don’t have to mention it at all.
I have seen real craftsmen, they are "silent is better than sound".
"The man only speaks three points, and the remaining seven points to fight the world." People who really focus on things are often bad words. People who are full of heart and rich in their spiritual world, for them, other people’s praise is superfluous, they insist and pursueThe beauty of art, transcending everything, surpassing the countless in the world, does not need to demand the compliment of ordinary people.
If He Wei really wants to stand on his own and become a master of the generation, he needs to truly love this art instead of just enjoying the aura brought by art. Do you love cross talk, or do you prefer the traffic, applause and money it brings to you. If you can figure it out, if you can let it go, and suddenly become clear, there is no need to worry about it.
and worrying about it, in fact, I can't let it go, but I never own it. In fact, success is very easy, but "Success Theory" is too complicated. One person, one thing for life, as long as you can endure loneliness and love yourself, you can help you abandon the pursuit of fame and wealth. As the years go by, you have worked hard. Success is a matter of course. What do you think?
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