Do you believe in "fatalism" in love?
is by your side now, talking and laughing lover, must be the one who walks with you to the end?
Or, is he the one who can really bring the happy life you want?
If you don't believe in fate, then think about this after reading "500 Days with Summer".
This is a must-see high-scoring literary and artistic film for a broken relationship. It is suitable for all people who are struggling with love. The director uses "fatalism" to tell you about feelings. If you are serious, you will lose thoroughly.
Because there is no destiny, everything is accidental.
"There is no fragrant grass anywhere in the world, but you can't pick it up."
This is the most intuitive feeling of the movie.
"500 Days with Summer" clearly shows the whole process from crush to broken love through 500-day life fragments. There will always be a fragment that allows you to see the familiar past.
The hero Tom is a boy who is full of illusions about love, while the heroine Sammo is the opposite. She doesn't believe in a girl in love.
But Tom just likes Summer. At a glance, everything about Summer is deeply attracted to Tom.
During this process, Tom has been constantly catering to Summer's view of love, and constantly ingratiating himself, and a little response from Summer is enough to make him happy.
But Summer didn't take this relationship seriously. After 500 days, they eventually became strangers.
This actually proves one thing from the negative side: It is better to give up on dog-like love.
In the eyes of everyone, the two of them eat and go shopping and watch movies together, and even do things like screaming. This is obviously a sweet love, but in fact it is just a huge unrequited love.
Tom's kindness to Summer is nothing but a conjecture about love, a hormonal impulse.
Shamo once told Tom that he didn't take the relationship very seriously. Tom said it didn't matter.
licking dog-like love has a very obvious characteristic, that is, it is willing to please and also to be hurt.
"If you don't see the Yellow River, don't give up", you may not wake up until you really "break up".
No, maybe licking the dog didn't wake up, he would just take the mistake to himself.
In short, weigh yourself before you like someone. No one is worth your humble favor.
If love is bitter at first, how can it be sweet afterwards?
After watching "500 Days with Summer", many people accused the female Shamo of being a proper green tea bitch, playing with Tom's loyalty to her.
is not the case.
Shamo expressed his love view from the very beginning:
"I like a person's life."
"Love is too troublesome, and someone will always get hurt."
"There is no love in the world, that is simply fantasy." When
met Tom, Summer had no illusions about love at all. She always defined the relationship between two people as "friends."
This made Tom very puzzled.
They have done everything they have done between lovers, so why can't they break Shamo's heart?
Tom is unwilling to be friends. For this 500 days, he has tried his best to get close to Shamo, but Shamo doesn't appreciate it. The key point of
is that Tom didn't understand what Summer really wanted from beginning to end.
When the two of them were watching "Graduate" in the cinema, Summer was so mad at the wedding scene that the male protagonist cried so much. In the
movie, the heroine Elaine writes happiness on her face, which just reveals the most painful scar of Summer.
This is the happiness that Summer wants, maybe Summer is also pulling himself.
Before parting, Summer gave the protagonist a deep kiss. The kiss of
is not to let go of guard, but to kiss goodbye.
Does Shamo love Tom? I think the answer is yes.
But she still chose to leave Tom. Summer didn't mean to play with emotions. She showed her attitude from the beginning.
Tom’s penetration into Summer’s life really brought her a lot of fun, but Summer, who recognized himself, felt that Tom was not suitable for her now, and she who does not want love now.
To put it plainly, Summer told Tom that she did not believe in love, only because she met the right person at the wrong time.
When the time is wrong, everything is wrong.
So, is the concept of love really immutable? it's not true.
I believe you have heard such a sentence: We are already past the age of hearing love. The touch of
when I was young can be because of a candy, a letter, or a simple and simple love sentence. After
grows up, we don't seem to be moved so easily.
In other words, we are uncertain about many things and will no longer be determined by a certain moment.
What is the most common sentence we say when we lose love?
"I don't believe in love anymore!"
But after the rain has passed and the weather has cleared, when you meet the person who is beloved again, you will still walk toward him desperately. Have you found
? We have all become "different" people.
Tom meets Summer, thinking that he has met the whole world, but after breaking up in love, he meets another girl—autumn.
Shamo, who keeps saying that he doesn't believe in love, finally walks into the marriage hall with a person who meets unexpectedly.
The concept of love is never static, after all, the matter of feeling is full of too many variables.
Before meeting true love, no one dares to say that the other person is the only one in his life.
Maybe they both have regrets in each other's hearts. I missed
, after all, I missed it, at least the time we spent together was wonderful.
This is not all scum, but feelings. There are too many uncertainties. Why does
say that "500 Days with Summer" is suitable for people who have lost love, because it hopes that you will no longer give up on this matter.
There are many reasons for falling in love, and the only reason to convince yourself is that he is just not for you.
The combination of two people is not as simple as 1+1=2.
Before confirming the relationship, we are all independent individuals. He has no obligation to accommodate you, and you do not need to make changes for him.
Otherwise, in the end, seriously you lose the worst.
When love comes, just cherish it, and you don’t have to be heartbroken when you go. You and I are just passing by.
remember that lyrics?
"Only when you meet the wrong one can you meet the right one."
is like the final ending of the male protagonist. Only if you miss Summer, can you meet Autumn.
May you be broken in love, no longer lost.
believes that the next person will be better.
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