Jimu News commentator Qu Jing On December 1, Fu Seoul responded to the "Fu Seoul's Face" meme for the first time in a live broadcast, generously saying that it was impossible not to be affected at all. He also joked that he was the focus of attacks on his appearance. She said tha

Jimu News commentator Qu Jing

On December 1st, Fu Seoul responded to the "Fu Seoul's face" meme for the first time in a live broadcast, generously saying that it was impossible not to be affected at all. He also joked that he was the focus of attacks on his appearance. She said that "Fu Seoul's face" has become a label, not only used to attack her, but also used to attack other women. In real life, this kind of attack can easily cause women with appearance anxiety to collapse. . She also suggested that everyone separate negative public opinions on the Internet from real life, so as to alleviate all the malice they receive from the Internet.

"Fu Seoul's face" is a popular Internet meme. Although it seems to be about Fu Seoul, the cause is actually another controversial woman-Mai Lin.

Fu Seoul (left) and Mai Lin (right) (picture from the Internet)

Emotional blogger and Internet celebrity Fu Seoul, when participating in the reality show "Goodbye Lover 3", because of his strong personality, sharp language, and good at Controversy arose due to her views. Many netizens believed that she was too strong in marriage and ignored the efforts and feelings of her partner. Mai Lin, who sparked a frenzy of topics in "Goodbye Lover 4" this year, has been criticized for her inconsistent, self-centered and inappropriate expressions.

Some netizens believe that Mai Lin and Fu Seoul look very similar. They both have round faces, pointed chins, and wear big glasses. They look full of aura and aggressive. Their personalities are also very similar, they are controlling and preachy. , stubborn, tough, and somewhat self-centered, so the saying "Fu Seoul's face" spread like wildfire and became an online standard for judging whether a certain type of person is worth dating. The popularity of this meme has been met with a lot of follow-up comments, but there are also many people who got too involved and went to the comment section of the two parties to attack their appearance.

Screenshots of some comments on the Internet about "Fu Seoul's face"

This kind of behavior of judging people by their appearance and attacking others by their appearance is of course immature, irrational and unseemly. If you watch the show in , you can understand that the plot of the reality show is originally designed to create topics and stimulate controversy. It is normal for viewers in to be emotionally carried away during the viewing process. But as a bystander in the contemporary entertainment industry, mature viewers will know that a show is always a show and cannot be a restoration of real life. Just relying on some fragments presented in the program and adding my own subjective imagination, I put various labels on real people and turned them into symbols of some kind of bad "face". It seemed like it was just a topic of "fun" carnival, but it actually It is extremely easy to lose control unknowingly, which is enough to form a devastating and terrifying force.

As a part of traditional culture, "Physiognomy" has a broad foundation among the people, but it lacks conclusive scientific basis. There is no direct relationship between a person's facial features, personality and destiny. Of course, personality will shape living habits, and living habits may change appearance characteristics. The "self-fulfilling prophecy" effect in psychology also shows that the opinions of people around you will affect a person's psychology and behavior, thereby affecting his or her habitual expression and temperament. , this is the old saying that "face comes from the heart", and it is also the inner basis for many people to believe in "xx face".

Looking at people by "face" relies on the observer's intuition and experience, which is inevitably mixed with various guesses and prejudices. There is an old Chinese saying that "people should not be judged by their appearance", which requires us to abandon subjective prejudices and not just Simply judge a person based on appearance. It can be seen that the so-called "image comes from the heart" actually reminds us that everything we see is related to our own attitude and state of mind, and "people should not be judged by their appearance" should be our attitude towards others.

Screenshots of Fu Seoul's response to "Fu Seoul's face"

If you can understand this, it is not difficult to understand that "Fu Seoul's face" has been turned into a hot Internet meme, and it is used to satirize and attack Fu Seoul and Mai Lin, and even What a stupid and barbaric thing to do to affect other women with similar looks. This is by no means the freedom of speech of a "noble audience", but a group of people hiding behind the keyboard to vent their prejudice and anger wantonly.When these dark emotions gather into a tower, they may collapse and become a sandstorm that swallows others. Such tragic tragedies have happened many times in the past. Therefore, I hope that more people can calmly think about what they are doing at the moment and what consequences it may have before they write down the words "Fu Seoul's face" and try to laugh at and deny other people's appearance. Is this the right thing to do? Kind? Is it worth it?

It is worth pondering that people often can only see the bad "face" of others. When many netizens criticized Mai Lin for not being able to control her emotions, expressing chaotic expressions, having double standards for others and herself, and attacking Fu Seoul for not being gentle and beautiful, and for wanting to divorce her husband after becoming famous, these netizens Aren't we ourselves controlled by emotions and showing a ferocious "face"? No one can withstand the infinite magnification of focus or the scrutiny of frame-by-frame analysis. The emotions and interactions presented after editing and packaging are bound to be divorced from reality. Amid the hustle and bustle of deliberate manipulation of topics and hot searches, watching shows rationally is also one of the required courses for the audience.

The "Goodbye Lover" series calls itself "Marriage Documentary Observation" and aims to explore social and emotional issues and trigger the audience's rational thinking about marriage and family. However, the topic of the show is increasingly focused on speculation and attacks on individual guests. Mai Lin broke down and cried several times during the show. Her husband Li Xingliang's performance was canceled due to damage to his image. Many netizens said on social platforms that they were angry after watching the show. When it comes to illness, related discussions often slide into confrontation between men and women and personal attacks. "Trolling people based on their appearance" has become a trend driven by the program. Where is the rational thinking? Where is social responsibility? Although criticism and controversy can indeed bring traffic, the program team really has to weigh whether they can get this traffic or not.

(Source: Jimu News)

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