Liu Xiaoqing is 74 years old this year. Let us first wish Qing Nai a happy birthday, and then thank Qing Nai for telling us that 70 is a good time to fall in love! Because of her, many sisters were finally relieved from the anxiety that women are more likely to age and be elimina

Liu Xiaoqing is 74 years old this year. Let us first wish Qing Nai a happy birthday, and then thank Qing Nai for telling us that 70 is a good time to fall in love!

Because of her, many sisters are finally relieved from the anxiety that women are more likely to age and be eliminated by society.

Let’s review it for those sisters who haven’t tried it yet:

Recently, Liu Xiaoqing’s popularity has increased sharply because her ex-boyfriend revealed that she had dated more than one boyfriend while she was married, and by the way, she revealed her relationship with Liu Xiaoqing. Record. ’s ex-boyfriend is 20 years younger than him and is 48 this year.

is exciting and exciting. The reason why the two broke up was that although the ex-boyfriend knew that the three were responsible, when he found out that he was just one of the many "three", he went to Liu Xiaoqing to make trouble. Liu Xiaoqing blocked the one-stop breakup service and told him directly : The fact that you like me proves that I am charming, and the fact that you expose me is your shame.

The incident happened in 2019, and it was expected to break out in 2024. I don’t know why the uncle has not gotten over his emotional pain after 5 years...

Compared with the hysteria of "Xiaoqing Boy", golden sentences about celebrating breast milk appear frequently. Many netizens said: "Either she plays Wu Zetian!"

Talking about life and death, she said: "As long as you don't die, it is a trivial matter."

Talking about age, she said: "Why should I grow old gracefully? Can I grow old with all my teeth and claws?"

Talking about the identity of a woman, she said: "I will still be a woman in my next life!"

took the opportunity to cue Bing Bing, "Let's act well and don't walk on the red carpet. How can showing people with sex last long? "

Both are women, Liu Xiaoqing obviously doesn't take age, marriage and love seriously. He devotes himself wholeheartedly to this life and just wants to live a vigorous and unrestrained life.

The story of celebrating breasts is somewhat of a stretch, but the fact that women have longer vitality is constantly being proven.

At the Tokyo Film Festival, Zhao Liying and Xin Zhilei appeared together. The black and white dresses complemented each other, and the stars were shining. The two female stars, both 35+ years old, are full of starry flavor. Who can remember that this was the star they were photographed in when they were young? Ridiculous country girl?

can be explained by more than just "red energy nourishes people".

Sheep still remembers that Zhao Liying has been criticized for not having a sense of hierarchy before, but the eye scene in "The Wind Blowing Pinellia" has already had a clear transition.

Later in "Article 20", played the role of a hearing-impaired person, and she was more flexible in adjusting the eyebrow and eye area.

I remember that on Weibo night two years ago, some people speculated why she did not attend. In fact, she was preparing for the promotion of "Article 20". The entertainment industry has been ups and downs for many years, and has experienced one round of changes. She knows which opportunities must be grasped and which ones are dispensable.

It’s not just Zhao Liying. 85 Flowers, whose reputation is still there today, all speak for themselves with their works. It is the choice of a group:

Tang Yan has stayed in the crew of "Flowers" for 3 years, relying on the vitality of "Ms. Wang" "Finally washed away the title of "the most useless 85 flower". Even the pair of Liu Yifei and Liu Shishi had explosive dramas because they returned to their comfort zone.

Of course, there are also unsatisfactory results. Yang Mi made three consecutive attacks in the first half of 24...

But in general, because 85 flowers are still moving forward collectively, competition is still constant and the cards are shuffled...

So sisters, watch Now, when a woman reaches the second half of her life, it may not be the end of the tiger's mouth, but it may be a new starting point, in career or in life.

This is what Yang Zai youngface Season 2 Issue 3 wants to talk to the sisters: We always have to be careful and careful before talking about each other's age, as if it is a beast that will swallow up the second half of our lives.

The guests we invited are also very typical. One is the medical beauty blogger @antigenebig sister, 36 years old, who has planted thousands of sister medical beauty projects, and the other is the first-generation male beauty blogger @郑学宁, eat early To the bonus of male makeup.

How can you rely on your face to make a living without age anxiety? Both of them were tortured, spending money, getting injections, going under the knife, and doing crazy things to themselves. Zeng Xuening was tortured and cried. He said: "I can't let my life stay at the age of 20 forever, unless..."

Unless the following words make even the sheep who are never anxious cry.

How does it feel to be forced to get married to the point where you need to report every day?

My elder sister has PTSD. When the phone rings, her body starts to tremble.

This is the story of my eldest sister when she was 20+: she just finished studying abroad, just started working, just arrived in a new city, everything is gathering momentum, but whenever she picks up the phone from her mother, the first sentence is always: found today Target?

calls once a day, it’s untouchable, as long as my daughter can get married, it doesn’t matter if she gets divorced.

When she was pushed to the limit, the eldest sister mobilized all her friends in Beijing to help her introduce blind dates, striving to achieve the KPI of getting married within one year - set by her mother.

really helped her find someone, who had good conditions, but as soon as they got along with her, it was suffocating:

not only had to do laundry and cooking, but also had to eat and play with her, and she also had to force someone to quit her job and take care of her full time.

was not satisfied with the service and lost his temper. Yang really wanted to pull off his wet pants and slap it on his face... After the video of

was released, many sisters felt the same way: 20+ is the beginning of age anxiety!

The reason is that the stories of countless seniors tell us that once we enter 30, we are urged to get married, have a baby, be promoted, and get a salary increase. Many middle-aged exclusive pressures will launch air raids together. We have seen it too many times, but we who are 20+ are still Not prepared.

So in the final analysis, age anxiety is the fear of the unknown.

is obviously still very young, why are you anxious because of your age? Because of fear of being eliminated.

In the construction of social gender, women have largely become an imaginary object about beauty. The imagination is of course very barren, and it is nothing more than white and thin. Therefore, sisters can see that the topic of female stars' precipitous aging always happens every now and then. It became a hot search topic.

Yang thought of a completely crazy story: the extremely popular female star Elizabeth, although still charming, was replaced by the male producer because of her age.

In order to stand on the stage again, Elizabeth injected herself with a certain substance, and her body split into two. A young and old body rotated every seven days, returning to youth. Elizabeth not only welcomed the producer again She praised her and won the opportunity to host the party. Even the neighbor next door became her lover:

But the young body needs the support of body fluids to maintain, and when one party is awake, the other party will fall asleep, and Elizabeth is no longer satisfied7 The reincarnation of the sky begins to continuously overdraw the body fluids of the body.

Every time Elizabeth wakes up, her body becomes distorted by the overdraft of her young body: her fingers, her hair, her face.

Due to the serious mutation of the main body, her young body also had problems. Elizabeth panicked inside, but the dignitaries around her didn't notice at all and were still teasing her greasyly.

Just when Elizabeth wanted to kill the young body and get everything back on track, she suddenly thought:

The next day, the young body was going to host the party. She put down the syringe in her hand and used her own body fluids again. Supporting the young body...

As a result, when she woke up, the two bodies merged, and Elizabeth turned into a complete monster. That night, the tightly wrapped Elizabeth went on the stage among the dancers. When the stage lights came on, her body Break, blood gushes out, shooting at all perpetrators, victims, bystanders and those who are influenced.

This is the story in "Something " at this year's Cannes Film Festival.

is a metaphor for a society that measures women based on age and appearance, which itself is a giant petri dish for monsters.

was just a young girl who wanted to continue to have job opportunities, but ended up destroying her self and career.

Are young girls really lucky enough to have unique immunity because of society’s preference?

Our guest sister obviously does not.

She told Yang that she had just returned to work in China and was in her 20s. Because of her beautiful face and young body, she encountered sexual harassment at the company. The other party was her boss.

The big sister’s head was blank at the moment. Afterward, she cried and reflected on herself: ’s breasts are too big? Wearing something too tight? Or what did I do wrong?

Later, when she fell in love and her boyfriend cheated on her, her best thing was to reflect: Am I not pretty enough?

Her ex-boyfriend said her eldest sister’s nose was ugly, so she didn’t dare to take photos. Even if she did, she would cover her nose and even go to have her nose plastic surgery done;

Her father said her eyes were like small potatoes, so she went to have her eyes done again. . Even after doing three times in a row, she still feels that her eyes are small.

“Because I did not have a stable self-judgment system when I was young and lacked subjectivity, I would constantly reflect and be anxious.”

Maybe they should feel guilty for preferring thin and white men: they praise young girls because they know that young girls can be bullied!

Taylor Swift is now the most lucrative female singer in the world, but she spent her 20+ years like this:

Swift was so embarrassed that she shook her eyes from side to side, but she didn't dare Speaking:

came off the stage. The reporter's question to her was not how much effort she had put into music, but: "You will take away a lot of men tonight, right?" She still only dared to laugh awkwardly.

This sentence caused more people to misunderstand and think that Swift had agreed in advance. In fact, she was just used to saying "thank you" and "sorry", but she was subjected to unprecedented abuse and attacks.

The whole Internet is calling Swift a "scheming girl", "White Lotus" and "pretending to be a victim". At that point, it was almost impossible for anyone to tweet that they hated her, or to be out of touch. Swift's social account is filled with snake emoticons - everyone says she is as vicious and bad as a snake.

Zhang Ailing said that it is important to become famous as early as possible, but have you seen that if you are not ready to take the opportunity, fame and fortune are just a humiliation and torture that comes first.

Our guest Zeng Xuening has admired Zhang Ailing since he was a child, saying that he should become famous early. He is the first generation of male beauty bloggers. In his words, he is the first person on the Internet to reap the benefits of male beauty.

was 20 years old at the time and very energetic. Especially had the courage to "shamelessly" send private messages to every big V, begging them to forward his videos.

But it was also because he was young, uncertain of his future, and unsure of his own abilities. As soon as he saw the comment section calling him ugly, his mentality exploded every minute.

Although he is only 20+ years old, he is so anxious about his age that he works 18 hours a day, goes for runs for more than ten days without eating, and is afraid of being called ugly by the audience, so he gives his face a lot of injections, which is actually a good picture. My face completely collapsed and I gained 190 pounds.

All the changes he made seemed to be against age, but in fact they were because he knew that he had nothing at the moment, and his shallow self at that time was not enough to resist future risks.

It is not easy for us to get rid of our attachment to youth, because we are used to being praised as "being young is great" and are used to seeing "youth" as the pinnacle of life.

Stepping out seems to mean facing the uncertainty of the future.

The deceased Gong Nina, the richest woman in Asia, changed drastically in her later years. For a long time, she wore pigtails when talking to people and was regarded as a strange person in the Hong Kong business world. Some psychologists analyzed that she subconsciously wanted to return to her childhood, which was her happiest time... In other words, as Gong Nina grew older, she never had a higher sense of self-worth than when she was a child.

But Yang really wants to tell everyone that even Zhang Ailing, the indelible work "Lust, Caution" in her life, was only conceived at the age of 33, and after 20 years of revision, it was completed at the age of 58!

"Goodbye Lover" has been frequently searched these days, and Yang also thought of Guo Keyu from the first season, who recently appeared in the new variety show "More Than Her".

recalled the past when she was a stay-at-home mother, registering as a Didi driver and selling facial masks. She said, "I am an actor now after all, and I don't want to be miserable all the time."

Even if I went on a variety show in the first place, it was indeed to win more job opportunities, but I stopped when I saw the opportunity.

This reminds Sheep of two words that are often associated with each other: "anxiety-driven" and "dopamine-driven" .

The purpose of the former is to eliminate pain, and the purpose of the latter is to pursue happiness. As long as they are properly controlled, the two emotions will play their own roles like twin flowers.

Take Guo Keyu as an example🌰. Acting is her passion and it is dopamine-driven. Being on a variety show is just a way for her to be remembered again and get more opportunities, which is anxiety-driven.

So during the conversation with , Guo Keyu refused to talk about some topics several times: when it came to the actress's debut film "Red Cherry" nearly 30 years ago, she said: It's boring and incompetent to rest on one's past achievements.

In the final analysis, she believes that although the past was good, there will be higher mountains and greater value in the future. That is the dopamine that truly drives her actions.

0+The return of Swift is the next stage of Guo Keyu. Life is restarted and the king returns.

In her first MV after her comeback, she dressed herself up as a femme fatale and hit back at those who had slandered her: "I have a blacklist, congratulations on being redlined by me." 's lyrics Inspired by Arya Stark's kill list from the TV series Game of Thrones.

She was wearing big red lips and smoky makeup while lying in a bathtub covered with diamonds. This scene was a mockery of Kardashian who had humiliated her in the first place: In 2016, Kardashian was detained in a hotel in Paris. Guns were used to rob more than $10 million worth of jewelry.

If we sum up their commonalities, the only thing they have in common may be: the self-worth system is beginning to be established, and the subjectivity is getting stronger and stronger. Rather than worrying about age, they are more willing to use it as a stepping stone, stepping on it to reach the level of dopamine. Happy world.

The eldest sister told us that she still has age anxiety, but she can control this emotion. In the past, when her mother was crazy about urging her to get married, she would go on blind dates. When her mother called again to urge her to get married, she would get 50,000 "hush money" in exchange for the money. .

Everything has its own solution. In the words of the blogger sister, because when you reach a certain age, you will take the initiative to choose things that are meaningful to you, such as falling in love with your younger brother more hahaha ~

As for the love brain that caused her to blindly make faces in the first place? It has been used by her to make money. Damn, who hasn’t been young and brainless~

The silver-haired blogger below is called grace. She is no longer young, and she doesn’t dress herself up in young clothes, but she is popular among young and old. The age of her fans ranges from teenagers to 50 +.

Her silver hair is her symbol as a cool girl. She first became famous because she played Instagram with her daughter and posted photos to share her "old age" outfits.

so, using age to defeat age, magic to defeat magic, can be regarded as an effective tip to combat anxiety and complete the self-built system.

At the end of the story, Yang wanted to share a passage from actress Carina Lau with her sisters:

"Every step I took when I was young was beneficial to me now, including the detours I have taken, which have shaped me into who I am now." Don’t regret it. I’m glad now that when I was young, wow, I embraced everything and did everything.”

is like Mimi in “Days of Being Wild”, who foolishly chased her to the Philippines; in “Self-Grooming”. Yuhuan jumped off the life-saving ship without hesitation.

has bravely challenged life, suffered hardship, been misunderstood, and been whipped, only then can he develop a truly strong eight-pack abs that can face life!