This fall, "Goodbye Lover 4" returns again. This time the show invites three couples who have been married for more than ten years. Their marriage is peaceful on the surface, but there is an undercurrent brewing behind the scenes. People often say that marriage is like a strong f

This fall, "Goodbye Lover 4" returns again. This time the program invites three couples who have been married for more than ten years. Their marriage is peaceful on the surface, but there is an undercurrent brewing behind the scenes. People often say that marriage is like a strong fortress that remains strong for ten years. However, the three couples in "Goodbye Lover 4" tell us that marriage turns out to be more like tinware - seemingly indestructible, but actually fragile.

1. The opening chapter is eye-catching

"Goodbye Lover 4" is causing trouble from the beginning. The

program team took out a marriage physical examination form at the beginning and asked the guests to honestly answer various questions, such as what kind of flowers the other party likes, what is the background of the circle of friends, etc. After the results of

came out, the audience discovered that the average scores of these three couples did not pass the test, and their answers also revealed their relationship patterns and marital status.

For example, Huang Shengyi Yang Zi , Yang Zi was very disdainful of Huang Shengyi's lack of interest. Even when asked "What kind of flowers does the other person like?", Yang Zi only said "Always send roses and lilies", completely I don't care what flowers Huang Shengyi likes.

Huang Zhizhong pointed out during the observation that wrong answers are not terrible, the key lies in attitude. And Yang Zi's attitude towards Huang Shengyi was contempt. Why didn't Huang Shengyi refute Yang Zi's insult? Maybe it's because she's used to pleasing the other person in the relationship.

Huang Shengyi was always led by the nose in this relationship. She knew her situation, but was unable to change it. This is also a problem that many women in patriarchal relationships encounter.

The lives of Ge Xi and Liu Shuang are more like roommates who happen to live in the same house. Because of their different living habits, the living areas of their homes are clearly divided. Liu Shuang, a first-generation Internet celebrity, feels that the peak of his career has passed and his life has entered an "L-shaped life". The right way is to just lie down and live life. But they forget that marriage cannot be made up to date.

Finally, after seeing the "model couple" Li Xingliang and Mai Lin in the eyes of the audience, we realized that a happy marriage does not rely on love and responsibility.

Among the three couples, the one with the highest score was Li Xingliang, who just passed. However, Mai Lin, who has always claimed that she sacrificed more and paid more in marriage, and even believed that she knew her partner better, scored lower than her husband. .

Mai Lin can tell everyone without hesitation that Li Xingliang ranks first in her heart, and she will never fall in love with anyone else except him. However, Li Xingliang's flickering eyes and scratching fingers all hinted at the uneasiness deep in his heart.

Some people say this is a sweet burden, but in fact, this burden is the essence of the problem.

used these questions at the beginning of the program to let the audience see the problems of each couple. Such real and intuitive data immediately attracted the attention of the audience.

2. The real marital status

If you want to rate the popularity of "Goodbye Lover 4", then Yang Zi alone can score more than 80 points.

Yang Zi often woke up Huang Shengyi who had fallen asleep at three o'clock in the morning, and also liked to use words to attack him. Finally, he even forced Huang Shengyi to watch "The Brightest Big Dipper" with him, completely ignoring the fact that Huang Shengyi was already very tired.

As the biggest victim, Huang Shengyi could only choose to endure silently. This situation is very dangerous. She has lost the courage to stand up for herself. This is also the norm for the weaker party in many marriages.

The same is true for the conflict between Ge Xi and Liu Shuang. Ge Xi hopes that Liu Shuang will not always pick on him, but Liu Shuang feels that Ge Xi is too involved. The two of them have not found the core of the problem at all, and no matter how much they communicate, it is useless. Instead, it may make the relationship worse.

Under the pressure of Yang Zi, Mai Lin began to reflect on whether she had done this to Li Xingliang. She admitted that she was the kind of person who was willing to pay for love, but she felt aggrieved because she had given too much but could not get an equal return.The life of a full-time housewife made her feel that her hard work was not seen, which added to her uneasiness.

The appeal of "Goodbye Lover" may be that it reveals marital problems that everyone will encounter. Each of the guests seemed to be standing on the edge of a cliff before breaking up, not knowing which way to go. The audience is also waiting to see who can make the same decision as themselves.

We hope that the guests can make the right choice, and at the same time, it is also to remind themselves how to take the best step when dealing with similar emotional problems.