After Xie Meilan and Shen Lei quarreled again, Xie Meilan finally couldn't bear it and filed for divorce. She said, "You are a good person, but you are really useless." These words were not words of anger, but the grievances accumulated over the years were instantly resolved. bre

After Xie Meilan and Shen Lei quarreled again, Xie Meilan finally filed for divorce. She said, "You are a good person, but you are really useless."

These words are not words of anger, but the grievances accumulated over the years. It broke out in an instant.

When her mother was not sick, Xie Meilan could ignore Shen Lei's lack of ambition, and the two of them could slowly work hard and live a stable life.

But the death of her mother forced Xie Meilan to face a cruel reality. For a family like theirs with no background and poor financial resources, if they want to gain a foothold in a big city, stability is not feasible.

usually has a decent job, which can provide him with food and clothing, but when something happens to his family, the family will collapse in an instant.

Therefore, she has always hoped to buy a car for transportation and change to a bigger house. She hoped that Shen Lei could climb up the ladder to make their lives easier and prevent the family from being in urgent need of money again in the future. As for borrowing it.

However, Shen Lei is too idealistic. He doesn't want the relationship that comes to his door, and he doesn't despise the opportunity to move up.

Xie Meilan wanted to rent a larger house, but he refused on the grounds that he still had foreign debts and his current house was quite good.

Even Xie Meilan's salary of 20,000 yuan plus projects of more than 100,000 yuan are not enough in his eyes. He enjoys the stable life now and ignores all possibilities in the future.

After Shen Lei gave up opportunities again and again and chose a stable life, and did not understand Xie Meilan, Xie Meilan decided to give up the little life in her belly.

She went to the hospital alone, had an abortion alone, and lay in the hospital alone for confinement.

Shen Lei didn't know all this until she collapsed due to heavy bleeding and was sent to the emergency room.

When everything was settled, Shen Lei took Xie Meilan back home. The first thing I said when I got home was not to ask if Xie Meilan was feeling better, nor to ask where Xie Meilan was feeling uncomfortable, but to ask, "Whose child is it?"

It's quite sad to say this, but anyone who treats his wife candidly. No one can ask such a question.

neither believes in his wife, nor himself, nor this marriage.

Xie Meilan said that the child is naturally yours, but Shen Lei asked, since it was his brother, why did Xie Meilan abort it and why didn't she discuss it with him.

At this time, all Xie Meilan's grievances and grievances poured out. She said what would happen if he was born? Could it be that she watched him grow up in a rented house?

Shen Lei didn’t think it was inappropriate. What’s wrong with giving birth in a rented house? What's wrong with a child growing up in a rental house?

Why does Xie Meilan have to be so materialistic, insist on buying a car, insist on living in a big house, insist on crying in a BMW?

saw that many people here sympathized with Shen Lei and felt that both Xie Meilan and Shen Lei were within the system, so what else could they be dissatisfied with. Since you want a good life, why should you marry Shen Lei? Wouldn't it be better to find a rich man to marry?

Others say that Xie Meilan must have gotten rid of Shen Lei because Mr. Youlu knew everything and saw that Mr. Lu was interested in pursuing her. Is this true for

? I don't think so. Xie Meilan has already rejected Mr. Lu's kindness. She only regards Mr. Lu as her boss and is grateful to him for lending a helping hand when she is in trouble.

Xie Meilan's desire to divorce Shen Lei is ultimately due to their differences in outlook. Xie Meilan has no sense of security, but Shen Lei can't give it to her. She wants to make progress and see a better future, but Shen Lei only settles for the status quo.

Some people may ask, Xie Meilan and Shen Lei's life is quite good. In Beijing, one is in the system, earning 8,000 per month, and the other is in a financial company, earning 20,000 per month. I think the two of them can live very well.

But the problem is that they cannot afford to raise a child. If Xie Meilan becomes pregnant and gives birth to a child, she will lose her job within two to three years, and their main source of livelihood will be gone.

Then the cost of having a child and raising a child will be a huge expense.

Therefore, Xie Meilan said that divorce is not about pursuing a material life, but about the many chain reactions caused by insecurity and lack of money.

She was afraid that her mother's tragedy would happen again, and that she would suddenly become ill and be unable to pay. The feeling of powerlessness would suffocate her.

What they are afraid of is that their children will have to live a hard life when they are born. What they are afraid of is that if their children get sick, they will not have money to treat them. What I'm afraid of is that I don't even have money for the baby's milk powder.

However, Shen Lei didn't understand all this. He was immersed in the joy of repairing files, enjoying the days of going home and lying down after get off work. He was unwilling to have a good relationship with his boss, or even thought about their future.

In the final analysis, Xie Meilan and Shen Lei are not from the same world. Even without Mr. Lu, the two would get divorced. What do you think?