by Luo Moli
Ji Xing decided to start his own business after resigning. After many setbacks and setbacks, he finally got the first investment from Han Ting.
While she was excited, Ji Xing thought of celebrating with her boyfriend Shao Yichen, and put on the ring that Shao Yichen proposed to her before. Everything seemed to be about to open up, but it was just a little short of the mark.
Ji Xing was happily going to attend an industry seminar that day, and Shao Yichen also made a love breakfast for her. Just as they were saying goodbye, Ji Xing happily agreed with her boyfriend to come back to celebrate together in the evening, but Shao Yichen suddenly became single. He announced that he was breaking up with his girlfriend.
For Ji Xing, this was too sudden. She couldn't accept it and collapsed.
But the more I looked back, I realized that I really liked this breakup, and it wasn't because the other man, Han Ting, was better.
It's a love that goes back to the separation, without changing of heart, without intervening, without tearing up, without resentment, it's just that the two people have different paths to take.
In the first few episodes, I felt that Shao Yichen didn't know how to appreciate Ji Xing. I even felt that he didn't really care about Ji Xing's ideals, efforts and excellence, but only enjoyed Ji Xing's excellence and her attributes that were more suitable than other marriage partners. Once you find that Ji Xing does not meet your ideal spouse standards, you will try to change, modify, or give up.
Faced with Ji Xing's entrepreneurial venture, Shao Yichen didn't believe Ji Xing could succeed at all. From the beginning, he seemed to be waiting for her to fail, or expecting her to fail. In Shao Yichen's eyes, spending a little money to buy Ji Xing's lessons would make her honest, and he could afford to spend the money. He is not afraid of Ji Xing's failure in starting a business. In fact, he doesn't really care whether Ji Xing succeeds or fails. To him, it is important that Ji Xing be his ideal wife, not Ji Xing.
However, when Ji Xing went to find Yichen with the contract and payment records, and when she tried to give herself some time, quickly, and be patient, and wait until she could convince Shao Yichen, she realized that she too I don't understand the life Shao Yichen wants at all.
They don't understand each other.
What they want is completely different.
They are not in a future.
They are not in the same future they want to go to.
Shao Yichen said: "What I want is a plain life where we can live together. And what you want is your own life value. So there is really no way to go on."
This is the reason for their breakup, some What people need is to be ordinary and complete the major events in life according to the social clock.
This is fine.
I believe that in the eyes of many people, Shao Yichen is a very suitable husband. He has an elegant temperament, handsome appearance, a decent job, good cooking skills, understands the value of romance in emotions, and has a strong sense of responsibility.
But some people need someone to watch her, to accompany her, to help her walk, and to cheer for her as she goes.
In this world, the ordinary and the earth-shattering are both a choice, and they are just a choice. Each choice has all kinds of ups and downs, requires sacrifice, and has rewards. It's just that everyone's choice is different.
In fact, it’s not that Ji Xing is unwilling to check in on important events in her life, it’s just that she has more self-realization, more meaning, and more value in her heart.
Some people are willing to let go of themselves for the sake of other people and social attributes, let go of this self-realization, this meaning and value, let go of "the life I want", and integrate into "the life you want".
But there are also some people who are unwilling to let go of the life they want and change or give up themselves for someone.
Of course, we must understand what they want from each other, and we must also understand that others are unwilling to give up the life they want for themselves.
When love started, they were all holding hands and side by side, but as they walked, they went in different directions.
Everything is changing, constantly changing.In the process of constant change, it is difficult to remain unchanged. This means that it is not difficult to adapt to the changes that are changing, whether it is fast or slow, but it is difficult to be synchronized all the time.
This difficulty also appears in love.
The good thing about this breakup is that it admits that although they are not in each other's future, we are actually very good people.
No one is at fault, it’s just that at this moment, we are different.
When I saw Shao Yichen and Ji Xing explaining the reasons for their breakup, they said firmly, "There is no one else but you." At the same time, they also made a firm determination, saying that there is no possibility for the two of them.
suddenly felt relieved.
feels that people, if you keep running forward, there will be no one in the future, and you will always meet people on the same road, but maybe not in the form of love. Family, friends, lovers, and partners may all be traveling together, or they may go their separate ways at a certain point in time, or they may come back for a moment and walk together for another period, and may never meet again. Isn't this true? A wonderful journey of life!
Those days spent together are the best times in each of their lives, every period.
There may be labor pains, but if you start over again and head towards hope, one day you will occasionally look back and find: It was great! Everyone in the story has retained good memories, and each other remembers the beautiful aspects of each experience. , to love the people you meet and travel with in every experience. Of course, those are also your beautiful looks and times.
Everything is wonderful.
The author of this article: Luo Moli.
Wild writers born in the 1980s work in the workplace during the day and write for self-entertainment at night. They feel with their heart, express sincerely, live freely, and grow old calmly. Reviews of popular and classic dramas are updated one after another. Welcome to follow and watch dramas with you to talk about life.
