Huang Zhenhua finally confessed to Su Gengsheng.
Su Gengsheng refused:
"I was sexually assaulted. My stepfather raped me when I was 16 years old."
Su Gengsheng did not dare to fall in love or make friends because of this dark experience.
Su Gengsheng remains wary of outsiders. She is afraid of being hurt again and afraid of being looked down upon.
It wasn't until he met the sincere and cheerful Huang Zhenhua that Su Gengsheng slowly opened his heart.
The truth about Su Gengsheng's violation
" The Story of Rose " There is a detail in the play. Su Gengsheng had a nightmare, in which there was water, blood, and broken glass.
Su Gengsheng woke up on the spot.
And this lingering nightmare turned out to be a real experience that had troubled her for 10 years.
When Su Gengsheng was 16 years old, her stepfather broke in and assaulted her while she was taking a bath.
Su Gengsheng was seriously injured.
Su Gengsheng was obviously the victim. She told her mother about the incident, but her mother did not trust her and even slandered her for seducing her stepfather.
Su Gengsheng will never understand that it’s not that her mother doesn’t believe her, but that she doesn’t dare to face the truth.
In order to maintain a complete family, Su's mother deceived herself and made her daughter a victim.
It turns out that family is Su Gengsheng's "prison".
No wonder Su Gengsheng marked his mother’s mobile phone number as “prison”.
Su Gengsheng encountered misfortune in his native family. After becoming an independent adult, he still did not get rid of the harassment of his family.
His mother and stepfather often blackmailed Su Gengsheng. Most of Su Gengsheng's salary was subsidized to the family. Even his younger brother's tuition was paid by Su Gengsheng.
Compared with her stepfather's harm, her mother's indifference and meanness chilled Su Gengsheng even more.
Huang Zhenhua healed Su Gengsheng
Su Gengsheng was willing to reveal the scar to Huang Zhenhua, which shows that she really trusts Huang Zhenhua and is willing to rely on Huang Zhenhua.
When Su Gengsheng opened up about this experience, it was the beginning of her self-healing. She decided to use the weapon of law to seek justice for herself.
The stepfather is a rapist and must go to jail.
As a witness, his younger brother was too timid to stand up and testify for Su Gengsheng.
Su Gengsheng’s road to safeguarding his rights is destined to not be easy. After all, it has been 10 years since the incident and there is a lack of relevant evidence.
Perhaps what Su Gengsheng cares about is not the result, but the process of standing up and speaking out for himself.
Huang Zhenhua not only did not dislike Su Gengsheng's experience, but felt distressed.
Huang Zhenhua said to her:
"You can't deny men all over the world just because of one man."
Su Gengsheng is the victim, and it is the perpetrator who should be condemned.
Huang Zhenhua cared for Su Gengsheng with sincerity and accompanied Su Gengsheng out of his psychological shadow.
Su Gengsheng was lucky to meet Huang Zhenhua.
Huang Zhenhua is indeed a good man. No wonder Bai Xiaohe once praised him:
"You are really a good marriage partner."
Although Bai Xiaohe has no feelings for Huang Zhenhua, he recognizes Huang Zhenhua's character and treats Huang Zhenhua as a friend.
Huang Zhenhua is extremely reliable whether as a family member, friend, lover or husband.
The truth about Huang Yimei’s emotional ups and downs
Looking at Huang Yimei’s multiple relationships, we discovered that the most fortunate thing about Huang Yimei is not that she is passionately in love, but that she has a brother named Huang Zhenhua.
Huang Yimei and Zhuang Guodong broke up. Huang Zhenhua flew abroad to have a heart-to-heart talk with Zhuang Guodong and help them deal with the aftermath.
After Huang Yimei married Fang Xiewen, she was abused by Fang Xiewen. During the birth, Fang Xiewen refused to sign and gave her analgesic injections. It was Huang Zhenhua who came forward to protect Huang Yimei's safety.
After seeing Huang Zhenhua's character clearly, he also understood why Huang Yimei could act arbitrarily, resigned for love willfully, and jumped from one fire pit to another.
Huang Yimei grew up in a wealthy family, and she was well protected by her family.
There is a detail in the drama. When Huang Yimei works overtime at night, Huang Zhenhua will drive to pick her up personally, for fear that Huang Yimei will be in danger.
Huang Yimei, who grew up in this environment, had no guard against others and always thought too well of others. After being hurt by Zhuang Guodong, she was almost squeezed out by Fang Xiewen.
The growth experiences of Su Gengsheng and Huang Yimei are completely different. Su Gengsheng has a strong vigilance, while Huang Yimei has the capital of trial and error.
Huang Yimei chose to marry Fang Xiewen, not caring about Fang Xiewen's poor family background. Su Gengsheng reminded her to be cautious:
"You have already experienced it once. You can't always pay for a man's choice."
Huang Yimei retorted:
"Don't always think so bad of people."
Fang Xiewen has brainwashed Huang Yimei.
The truth about Fang Xiewen’s abuse of Huang Yimei
Fang Xiewen had two faces before and after marriage.
was considerate and meticulous before marriage. He took good care of Huang Yimei and respected Huang Yimei.
Fang Xiewen also gave up the job in Shenzhen because Huang Yimei still had to study for graduate school in Shanghai for two years.
Zhuang Guodong was unwilling to give up his career for Huang Yimei, but now Fang Xiewen has done it.
Zhuang Guodong did not give Huang Yimei's love, but Fang Xiewen gave it to her.
Moreover, Fang Xiewen is not as dazzling as Zhuang Guodong, surrounded by so many orioles, Fang Xiewen keeps a distance from the opposite sex, and will reject girls he doesn't like.
However, such a "good man" exposed his true nature after marriage.
Fang Xiewen made Huang Yimei a housewife and forced her to have children. After giving birth to a daughter, she still wanted a son, so she directly used Huang Yimei as a reproductive tool.
Fang Xiewen did not allow Huang Yimei to appear in public, work, let alone put on makeup or dress herself up.
Huang Yimei was cruelly imprisoned in the cage of marriage.
Fang Xiewen was so "perfect" before marriage, why can't he pretend after marriage?
To put it bluntly, Fang Xiewen's "suffocation" stems from his "inferiority".
The conditions of Fang Xiewen and Huang Yimei are completely mismatched.
Huang Yimei is lively, beautiful and has a good family background, while Fang Xiewen has no money and is not good enough in all aspects. Huang Yimei married him and married him properly.
Huang Yimei's choice of Fang Xiewen is inseparable from Zhuang Guodong's harm to her.
Zhuang Guodong attacked Huang Yimei's pride, so Huang Yimei would marry a man who is not as good as herself.
Fang Xiewen knew very well that he was not worthy of Huang Yimei, so he became suspicious and insecure, and always wanted to tie Huang Yimei to his home.
It can be seen that the marriage between Fang Xiewen and Huang Yimei lacks real respect and trust.
After marriage, everything ended in divorce.
written at the end
Fang Xiewen's "change of face" in "The Story of a Rose" revealed a cruel truth:
Marrying someone will not necessarily lead to the cherishment of the other party. If a man himself feels that he is not worthy of you, then It's really not worthy.
Spiritual resonance and equality are more important than material matching.
The conditions of Su Gengsheng and Huang Zhenhua did not match, but Su Gengsheng opened her heart and reinvented herself. She has the ability to manage love and marriage well.
But Fang Xiewen did not have Su Gengsheng's ambition.
Fang Xiewen was selfish and narrow-minded. He used malicious thoughts to speculate that Huang Yimei would cheat, so he imprisoned Huang Yimei.
Fang Xiewen didn’t understand until he got divorced that if you want to keep someone, you need love, not mental control.
